[transantiradqueer]

transantiradqueer

This is a sideblog. Personal blog is @narcprincess, coining blog is @coinedbank.

Ruby. I use it/its pronouns, and feline terms instead of person/boy/girl.

Anxiety, ASD, B/NPD (either one or both, currently in diagnosis), *OCD, singlet, traumatised.

*Uncertain or have traits of.

Permatere12/tereperma12, permachildish, permaonline, transantiradqueer, transgender, transID, transpermaprotected.

I don't feel the need to share my biological age since I don't intend to online date, visit some online doctor via Tumblr, or whatever else my personal information is necessary for.

My stances may still be confused, but here's the basics:

ANTI conabuse, consang/incest, contact discourse (do not water down abuse/assault to "contact"), ECTA/RCTA/other troll terms, exclusion, fetish/paraphilia as terms, harassment, non-consensual activity, radqueer, stigmatisation/demonisation of mental health, transabled, transharm/transhate, transracial.

CRITICAL conabuse (questioning stance), transID use reason.

NEUTRAL MUDs, shipcourse, syscourse.

PRO anything consensual (none of my business), fetish/kink, good faith, kin, kink, recovery, retaliation, self-diagnosis, transgender, transID, transspecies.

I think it's also notable to mention I dislike adults from trauma. Adults IWC.

[grace-the-stars]

right but the radq community can’t be separated from those parts. the community IS the community and when the dominant attitude is ‘you have to accept everything even transnazis and you can never speak badly of pro-c’s because they started this community and you’re not a real radq if you don’t at least accept their beliefs’ the whole community is just unsalvageable. the bar where the nazis and child sex abusers hang out is the nazi bar, it is the child rapist bar. you can’t just be neutral on the bar where the nazis hang out because other people go there too, they just ignore or are even friendly with the nazis.

mrrp, we block and choose to ignore parts of the community we don't agree with. the block button is yr friend when it comes to the internet! we just say "neutral" as again, our opinion is complicated. we don't care for some parts, we're anti for others- and trust us, we've seen some radqueers who are anti-xenosatanist. we were even traumatized by the deeper parts- transharm & fults. we had even started several fults at our worst. but did we grow from it? yes!

we're also older and just have learned.. we don't give a fuck. transnazi? blocked! pro-c? blocked! the internet is a wild place and it is our job to curate our internet spaces.

[transantiradqueer]

this is possibly the most bad faith way for anon to argue against radqueers. which is most strange, because I agree with a lot/all of what was said.

just that the way of getting this point across is no better than some Christians essentially beat the bible over the head of people they want to convert.

that's what it is. conversion. that's why I dislike it. the idea you have to be one way or the other.

I chose to be strictly against radqueers, while paw-dot-cakes chose to be neutral. there is still a decent amount to agree on there, and that slight difference is in no way interaction ruining.

but someone like anon will always have something to disagree on, unless you perfectly mirror anon's ideals. that's strangely close to what I dislike about the radqueer community!

[dogpuppy]

[transantiradqueer]

I love being right

[dogbonedraws]

Yeah actually I am ableist and discriminatory towards pedos, necros, and zoos, idgaf about them. Hope they all get anvils dropped on them.

[transantiradqueer]

This argument helps transphobia and homophobia thrive, in the same way that the NSFW bans affect queer media.

Please learn to direct these feelings at ABUSERS, not pedophiles, necrophiles, or zoophiles. Because to pretend any of those paraphilias indicate action, is no different than the logic that abusers are attracted to their victims/hurt their victims out of love.

You are no less radical than a radqueer. You are no less harmful than a radqueer. I know from being there once.

[system-yaoi]

i genuinely hate the radnormal community. a lot of them are straight up really aggressive/harassing towards others. I do get what they're coming from but please do it in a more respectful and calming way

Also i would like to clarify that I am against radqueer paraphilias. I support them in the way that paraphilias should be more educated and they should get help. They shouldn't be scared or ashamed to have a disorder. i am also against contact okay byeee

[transantiradqueer]

one reblogged from Me, of your post, and. she's just mask off with it. despite radnormal being "anti harassment"

[anti-willo-len]

Part 1 in chronicles of a former radqueer!!

Radqueers are basically a cult and I'm not exaggerating when I say this, both as a former radqueer AND a cult survivor. They use the fact that the community is mostly made up of young teenagers as a shield but trust me there is a large group of older people in the community who are slowly but surely grooming and indoctrinating kids into becoming radqueers.

They target people with unstable identities or those who are trying to find their identity or are in the process of it, convert them, and then because of the way the community is structured you end up forming your entire identity around pervertedness, being problematic and being "unloveable" to general society and around your trauma or gaining trauma. You are thrown neck deep into extremely dangerous situations and thrust into harmful coping mechanisms that do nothing but hurt you and the people around you, while constantly being told that this is the only place you'll ever be loved and that everyone else will reject you and "cancel" you. There's also something to be said about how a lot of radqueers treat being "closeted"/keeping their identity a secret.

Radqueers are a fucking cult that suck in vulnerable and hurting and mentally ill teens and I'm so glad we're out and healing, nearly 6 months out now.

[thee-butcherbirds]

Ok.. If you actually think any type of paraphile deserves to die, block us and fuck off please

Wanting radqueers dead will only result in non offending paraphiles dead, you understand that right?

That's ignoring the fact that genuinely wanting any type of person dead is incredibly horrible and wrong in several ways

[transantiradqueer]

The issue is the equation of attraction to action, mimicking the idea of abusers loving victims; abusing the victims out of love.

If what you mean is ABUSERS, say that. Sure as hell don't wish death on a whole section of individuals, including non-offenders, for the "crime" of a feeling. A thought.

Same goes with radqueers. It's like saying "all cult members should die". ALL of them?? Not just...The leaders? The reasons someone would fall into a cult, without killing anyone?

It's a power fantasy. It's someone that they can easily push back on, compared to the much larger problem that needs time and effort to undo. There are many problems that activists may not live to see resolved.

That doesn't mean the best option is to go power tripping, by putting out ideas of fucking genocide.

[thelanternsex]

By the way, it really isn’t that deep.

People will continuously try to twist and bend labels to their own will just to “validate” themselves instead of finding what ACTUALLY fits them.

by having contradictory labels/genders to beat around the bush and avoid saying you’re anything BUT bisexual or anything of the sorts, it is biphobic. it’s okay to not need to collect labels like fucking Pokémon.

not to mention, having a list of labels does not mean you are “more woke” than others 🫶 unkindly, fuck off

[system-yaoi]

when did I saying having a list of labels mean you are more woke I AM DYING. you can't comprehend complex labels and that's fine but stop calling it biphobic when thats all you can say

[transantiradqueer]

"You're obviously gonna be misgendered, dressing like that."

Tell Me you aren't safe to talk to rape or sexual assault victims about what they were wearing without telling Me.

[transantiradqueer]

"Everything must agree with YOUR preset beliefs" -> because I disagree with your preset beliefs.

[transantiradqueer]

I don't know why the people who use "TME" and "TMA" forgot that transphobia and misogyny exist separately, so the people considered "TME" don't necessarily face transmisogyny, but....Just...Misogyny.

This doesn't go for all cases, like intersexism, exorsexism, and probably even further intersectional cases that aren't up to gender alone- I'm sure the people like this don't even care about the trans women who disagree with them, deciding that they're "TME"s despite Literally Having Faced Transmisogyny. It's an in-group and out-group mentality, not based in logic.

[penatola]

Transmisogyny is more than "the intersection between miso & transphobia" (thats misotransphobia)

& people don't forget, they just disagree with you! i am not somebody who believes that as I don't think I am as knowledgeable on the belief that transmisogyny acts as its own axis / similar, but yea. They're not forgetting or doing this or that (you're mistaking discourse with the general population!) - they just disagree on that. And thus have different conversations.

[transantiradqueer]

"Just words" is not a good conclusion to come to about something that excludes or erases intersex, non-binary, and multigender people by placing them on one point or the other of a new binary. It is a binary.

And yeah. They probably don't "forget". They probably disagree that bigotry outside of what they face is real. You're right about Me being too charitable. Thank you for correcting Me!

[transantiradqueer]

I don't know why the people who use "TME" and "TMA" forgot that transphobia and misogyny exist separately, so the people considered "TME" don't necessarily face transmisogyny, but....Just...Misogyny.

This doesn't go for all cases, like intersexism, exorsexism, and probably even further intersectional cases that aren't up to gender alone- I'm sure the people like this don't even care about the trans women who disagree with them, deciding that they're "TME"s despite Literally Having Faced Transmisogyny. It's an in-group and out-group mentality, not based in logic.

[transantiradqueer]

Apparently that radqueer Maki is still breaking boundaries to this day, which I had actually brought up WHEN I WAS IN THE COMMUNITY, only for him to guilt trip.

But My coin is on the transid wiki. With the most recent edit on that page from Maki. What a fucking disrespectful piece of shit.

I DON'T WANT MY COINS OFF-SITE WITHOUT BEING ASKED. This is majorly due to wanting access to who to speak to, if there are misinterpretations of My coin. This is ALSO an issue that became a thing with Maki! But I also don't enjoy people who I can't agree with on the subject of Jeffery Epstein level shit engaging with My coins, either.

I honestly don't know why I accepted that request, since it did make Me mildly uncomfortable at the time. Even if it isn't outright RCTA or anything. I think I'll keep from any location or culture based flags from now on, especially as a white Australian.

Still as disrespectful of a community as I remember. I was still coining radqueer slop, when there was a rise of radqueers spitefully engaging with coiners who only stated "radqueer dni", because they were "denying radqueers could use their flags"....Good idea, if you're TRYING to get coiners to say that. But they didn't! It was uncomfortable, even for a handful of decent radqueers.

[heartattackinblackdye]

reminder that ai "slurs" have racist roots

[transantiradqueer]

I'm at the point where I believe anyone who plays into bigotry, conspiracies, and/or infighting is doing Jeffery Epstein's work. Makes it real easy to distance Myself from discourse whatsoever.

Like. Cool...You want to continue discoursing about how trans men shouldn't have a word for the specific bigotry we face, dividing the transgender community. You know who else would agree with you?

[transantiradqueer]

I appreciate having things, like stickers, made out of My flags.

That's why it feels so mean of Me to have to block someone, because I just can't tolerate someone who also makes pro-RCTA/ECTA and transabled userboxes.

But look at Me go, sticking to My boundaries!