humanfist

Mostly fandom stuff. Untagged spoilers for anything that isn't still quite new (like a week). Queue rather than reblog by defualt. Follows from @megasilverfist Occasional NSWF reblogs but only if they actually use comunity tags

[trollfist]

You can't just assume people's gender

Why do people think I'm trans just because I frequently pick female characters in video games, watched some "girly" shows as a kid ( sure I identified with Pepper Ann, Kim Possible, and Anne Shirley but that's just ginger solidarity), own a blahaj, have a female character as my avatar, am involved in disproportionately trans social groups (furries, hema, this website ect), have a CS degree, am currently wearing panties and kneesocks, own multiple dresses, like Celeste, wanted to be a magical girl growing up, regularly fantasize about being a woman, and have long hair.

[trollfist]

post canceled am girl now

[whatevergreen]

This has not changed in the last 12 years.

If anything it's worse than ever. Far worse.

[whatevergreen]

No change there

[pride-knightess]

Oh gee wow wonder who could be responsible for this

[muzzlesbian]

nice outfit LOSER!!! 2001 called, they

[muzzlesbian]

hold on.

[muzzlesbian]

oh my god

[mousidy]

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

trans women have the site's moderation weaponized against us for years -> staff happy to be complicit -> the media picks up one (1) event that's too blindingly obvious to ignore -> they apologize for not making an excuse earlier, pretend that trying to stay quiet is about the Integrity of The Platform

they clearly think we're idiots, it's just so painfully obvious.

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

sincerely cracking the fuck up watching tumblr HQ accidentally(???) unbanning pjackk, seeing how we immediately started talking about transmisogynistic moderation bias, and banning pjackk again.

@staff you know we see all this stuff right

[capnsoapy]

okay but seriously what's going on with [tumblr] moderation right now

[capnsoapy]

okay but seriously seriously

[capnsoapy]

Not even in an "I'm outraged" kind of way, in a "genuinely perplexed as to what could be going on behind the scenes to produce these outcomes." I want to stop staring at the shadows on the wall and exit Plato's allegory of the website moderation

[missstrogen]

Miss Forcefem's guide on cracking - Femboys

"Femboys" are an often tough shell to crack. The structure of the "femboy" as an idea acts as a spiked shell, both "protecting" from outside intervention, and keeping the egg in. It's made to absorb transfeminitity in a transmisogynistic context, in such a way as to be comfortable enough to survive in, while being uncomfortable enough to not threaten the statu quo.

I think then that it is crucial to center the "femboy"'s wants, then, as they matter to the body and the world. To press on that discomfort to higlight the contradiction of the self. You want to gently highlight the things he could have, in ways that don't threaten his understanding of himself too much. It's hard and long work.

You can hardly get one to admit that they are or want to be a girl, and it is a foolish notion to press on this first. It is often easier, then, to circumvent the matter to better encircle the boy. Focus on steps of transition, social presentation, hrt. You can obtain often enough a boy that will do many of those and still proclaim boyhood. You can then push on the contradiction of their self, and on the pain that contradiction will cause. If you are close enough to them, you can introduce some transfeminist theory.

Femboys require tact to crack, sadly. They are the product of our society's transmisogyny, and as such are difficult subjects. Yet, do not bear the world on your shoulders. You need not take on more work than you can.

[donglepussthetwin]

sorry you found me in various "dress code violations" around the office... it'll probably happen again

[plutesboots]

Help a disabled queer escape debt

Hey, it's Pluto and while I'm inching towards financial stability, I've had to use my credit card a lot more and am now facing almost $2000 in debt. Still need to get food and medication and gas constantly, which means that number goes up D: I can whittle it down over time but I need help with the essentials.

Help keep me fed, housed, and healthy while I tackle this mountain of debt?

Buy pluto a Coffee

Become a supporter of pluto today!

Only one donation so far, anything helps

[trollfist]

Donate to Help Pauli get her bottom surgery!, organized by Pauli Kidd

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My mother in law is trying to get bottom surgery if anybody can toss in a donation or buy some of her books https://us.amazon.com/stores/author/B001K7YQ7A/about?ccs_id=d0df2b28-b4e5-45ad-83d4-51f65bffae9d

[kradeelav]

i know things are hella grim in the nsfw/kink art circles especially in the last year --

but I'm hearing there's a NSFW-friendly ko-fi alternative built on atproto that's actively in the works, and being vetted by lawyers right now. as torrent-princess (OP) says, you should be able to swap out payment processors while keeping your account intact. this matters since even if stripe removes support, you'll still have a shop and all of your links intact. (ATproto is an infrastructure that bsky is built on, but is far bigger than bsky with far more opportunities.)

additionally, the Free Speech Coalition is working on a credit union specifically for adult work (including kink art) - here's the link so you can add your interest & support. Since this will be built by sex workers, there'll be far less risk of being debanked for spurious and puritanical reasons.

on a domain TLD level, there's an initiative here for a .furry domain built from the ground up by seasoned furries; it's unclear whether they'll support NSFW, but it's yet another promising turn of events for a group that's been similarly affected by censorship.

there are friends and allies out there helping to build a working parallel infrastructure. keep being vocal, keep supporting these initiatives when it's possible, and keep supporting your nsfw/kink artists. ♥

[st-just]

It is of course very far from their most egregious sin but I do kind resent 'radical feminism' using 'radical' in a fairly specific sense ('at the root', patriarchal oppression being the foundation upon which society's cruelties and pathologies are built), thus immediately dooming us to half a century of confused and pointlessly unpleasant discourse as people see the name and assume it just means 'feminism but moreso' or 'feminism but angry about it'.

[st-just]

Relatedly, the amusingly high number of self-described radical feminists on here who are also self-described Marxist-Lenininsts.

Just - when diagnosing the most fundamental and basic hierarchy on which society is based, you kind of need to pick a lane?

[foxgirlmindcrank]

What if more critter

[foxgirlmindcrank]

We realized recently we basically never draw ourselves with our glasses and the only real reason for that is we've worn them since kindergarten and just kinda forget they're like a physical object and not like, part of our body XD

[foxgirlmindcrank]

This thang Friday

[violenceenthusiast]

what about a shapeshifter who’s bad at it. shapeshifter who can never quite get the nose right. shapeshifter who always makes flipped faces because they’re doing adjustments in the mirror. shapeshifter with same face syndrome. shapeshifter who always dips further into the uncanny valley than they want. shapeshifter who can mimic a single celebrity completely perfectly but struggles to recreate anyone else.

[televisionenjoyer]

the people yearn for star trek deep space nine.

[wesandresons]

PROJECT HAIL MARY (2026)  dir. Phil Lord and Christopher Miller

[pinkypkmntrainer]

some people theorize that jax killed a little girl. they think that's the reason for his room's design and the flashback to the car ride.

to a certain extent, i kind of agree. but i think the "death of a little girl" is more metaphorical, you know? a metaphor for the feeling of having to hide and suffocate that person you want to be because you've been led to believe she shouldn't exist. wink wink, nudge nudge.

[dudethatsmypillowcase]

Sketchbook stuff! Every Rocky I draw looks like a completely different guy.