mikael

24 bi, nonbinary gender fluid they/he DNI : radfems/terfs, biphobes, transmeds

[ttrpnstt]

This is a bisexuality oriented blog.

Bisexuality has always been and will always be attraction to all genders/regardless of gender.

Trans and Nonbinary people of any kind are very much valid with or without dysphoria and with or without medical transitioning.

Neo and xeno pronouns are valid.

Aspec people can choose to aligne themselves with the lgbt community or not, they have hard times in their environment bc of their identity and even if they dont, oppression was never the metric for one to be considered lgbt.

Radfems and terfs are not welcome here, febfems included.

If you "believe" that biphobia, monosexism and bimisogyny do not exist, this blog is not for you.

Bi-lesbianism is contradictory, and biphobic.

If you think "straight passing privilege/relationships" exist fuck out of here.

And bi people are bisexual and their relationships are queer regardless of the gender and sexuality of whom they are dating.

Mspec microlabels are biphobic and transphobic.

[sinsofthefuture]

people don't victimblame anymore, instead they will tell you to decenter men

[sinsofthefuture]

like i genuinely think that women should focus on themselves more instead of men but every time a woman (especially if they're bi or trans and straight) starts talking about negative experiences with men or loneliness the comments are always filled with people telling them "you should decenter men" "if you decentered men it would be different" like damn seeking romance and wanting to be loved are natural human experience and it's more enhanced when you're part of a group that is most socially viewed as unlovable or undesirable (tgirls, fat women, woc, disabled people) and yet people are always being so insensitive.

and don't even get me started with the constant slutshaming

[armandyke]

thinking about the insane journey of armands relationship with sex on this fine morning

[armandyke]

sex was something that was done to him in the brothels then marius rescued him and told him he loved him and now sex is something we do because we love each other but now marius is sending him out to anybody who asks nicely so sex is something he owes people but then marius is gone and the children of darkness are training him and sex is something shameful that you need to attone for and then lestat shows up and is it love? do I owe him this? then he's gone again and now sex is just something we do to keep the boredom and the dark thoughts at bay and then louis arrives and it's noncommittal until it is and they're both trying to reclaim something but it's never really sacred because louis also sleeps with the men he kills and then it's full circle back to daniel calling him the rent boy like jesus christ no wonder he does all that

[tsarina-anadyomene]

i think it is generally true that you can have a bachelors or even masters degree in something and know basically nothing about it.

[ttrpnstt]

#ouch

[radicalgraff]

"Trans girls with guns"

Seen in Haifa, Palestine

[lakevida]

bisexuality tutorial for beginners easy

[lakevida]

bisexuality walkthrough with pictures

[ttrpnstt]

this is just the hades I&II gameplay

[pansyfemme]

i keep seeing tiktoks being like “what it’s like to be the only lesbian who isn’t poly” “it feels like im the only monogamous queer person left” “i don’t want to be poly guyssss’ like its crazy how little i care. please stop inventing a universe where every queer person is forced to live under big polycule and monogamous people must live in secret. no one cares that one person you wanted to date didn’t want to be monogamous. you will survive

[greelin]

beautiful bisexual people in my phone we have to live. We have to

[ktae]

you will never beat the biphobia allegations until you radically accept bisexuals who are stereotypical. you must accept the sluts, the polyamorous, the girls with straight boyfriends, the questioning, the confused, the unicorns, the ones who are in a phase and will eventually identify differently, and even the ones you suspect aren't truly bisexual but just want attention. take people at their word when they tell you who they are. let them live and express their identity as they see fit. happy bi visibility day

[niceferatu]

remember when they were saying that bisexuals couldn't be butch or femme and we had to be like. deer

[niceferatu]

it was worse than I remembered

you couldn't be a futch they/them you had to be a pigeon

[tsarina-anadyomene]

"omg you'll post 'i need him' on the most average men" "she's mid" most of us are average and it's good that we can find beauty and desire in average people

[bisexual-history]

National Biways (Feb, 1993)

[lesbiantenets]

Preserving Bi Women’s History

Bisexual activist and scholar Robyn Ochs just announced the successful conclusion of a project she has been working on for 7 ½ years in collaboration with Amy Benson of Harvard University’s Schlesinger Library.

Back issues of Bi Women (now the Bi Women Quarterly) (1983-2009) and of North Bi Northwest (a publication of the Seattle Bisexual Women’s Network) are now archived and available via Harvard University’s Schlesinger Library. They have been digitized, and are searchable and available to the public.

Here’s the press release from Harvard’s Schlesinger Library:

Boston is home to the longest-lived bisexual women’s periodical in the world. Bi Women Quarterly, a grassroots publication, began in September 1983 as a project of the newly-formed Boston Bisexual Women’s Network.

Staffed entirely by volunteers, and containing essays, poetry, artwork, and short fiction on a wide range of themes, Bi Women Quarterly provides a voice for women who identify as bisexual, pansexual, and other non-binary sexual identities.

Robyn Ochs, editor of Bi Women Quarterly since 2009, donated the only complete collection of this publication to Schlesinger Library several years ago with the agreement that it would be preserved, and digitized in a searchable format. The digitized collection at Schlesinger covers the years 1983 to 2010. We are delighted to announce that this project is complete, and this resource is now available to researchers and to the general public through Harvard’s catalog.

Making the voices of bi women accessible will hopefully provide researchers primary material with which to begin to fill this gap.

Issues of Bi Women Quarterly from 2009 to the present can be found online a BiWomenBoston.org. These more recent issues will be added to the Library’s collection in the near future. 

[emeldiir]

some historical bisexual photos!

reminder for this pride that bisexuals have always been a part of queer liberation, we have always existed and we always will <3

[ttrpnstt]

got another post in me, people who genderbend a m/w or mlm bi4bi couples into wlw couples and suddenly start calling them lesbians or labelling them as butchfemme then in the same breath give hell to bisexuals who rightfully use the terms theyve helped create will forever be weird to me, what kind of bullshit is that

[ttrpnstt]

its astounding how one can count on ppl being weird about bisexuals and bisexuality in every single fandom cause explain to me how the fuck a character like jinx is so hard for ppl to understand shes bisexual, not straight nor lesbian, BISEXUAL.

[papenathys]

Instead of talking about how bisexuals cannot use butch femme have you considered killing yourself

[papenathys]

I'm not being callous or mean actually. Some of you are calling Leslie Feinberg names for supporting bi butches. Some of you are telling bisexuals to stop appropriating your fucking culture. You want to be special and different so bad. You want to reinvent 1950s-70s ballroom butchfemme culture but in the most narrowest, shallowest, gatekeeper way possible, without actually so much as reading theory. Revolutionary Girl Utena and the lesbian masterdoc isn't reading theory.

You don't want us to self describe as dykes or butches and femmes, yet when we use "sapphic" to describe bi4bi relationships you mock the anonymized hive of gentrified tiktok tenderqueers who cannot say dyke and write self congratulatory thinkpieces about us. We are spoilt goods and phallocentric for you (a completely normal thing to say apparently acc to some folks on Twitter). You want to exclude us from your history but criticize and degrade everyone who then tries to self identify as a result of exclusion. Can you please stop being so miserable about your purported gold star status.