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Here's a website where Palestine GoFundMes are vetted and shared that you can send out to people. The url is gazafunds.com

Easy to use and simple. Just share the site whenever someone asks for GFMs for Palestine.

soup-mother

all in all I take a complete disarmament and non-proliferation stance on boyfriends. Do not use them. Do not create them. Dismantle the ones you have and repurpose their material for peaceful civilian use. This is the only way the world can know peace

plus-size-aesthetics

luenagamaa

romancenjoyer

think about it. the smartest person you know is a lesbian

kosmogrl

Dont blame yourself for not having known a lesson only time could teach

I think my final friendship breakup does show #growth because the first one I was like very strict because I needed to be cold hearted in order to do it (this is the one I'm rehabilitating rn). the second one I tried to be really polite and ended up feeling like I had fundamentally betrayed my own dignity and THAT left me so closureless even though I really didn't want that person in my life anymore.

#3 started to go the same way and then I locked in out of nowhere and was like ohhhhh no you don't and I was honest which forced them to be honest too and I told them they really fucked up and they agreed and apologised for it. and so far I can say that after the fact I actually feel waaaay better after this one because I didn't betray myself for nothing and no one. did you know it feels really good to not betray yourself for nothing and no one

#and honestly this is the relationship of the three that I did the MOST wrong in #but they didn't ask me to apologise so I didn't. [breaking chains image] if they want an apology for something it's their job to ask for it

forestgreenlesbian

Caibao & Ke Qian, Xiamen, September 2019

from Solace by Sarah Mei Herman

azure-alter

You have to separate the art from the Garfunkel

pooblet

Dyke March London 2026

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banhmigoddess

My one boring tip to anyone in their 20s is to resist the temptation to rot in your room every time you get a free moment. Dismiss any neuroses you have about going outside and "being perceived". Be a dictator about it, plan your hangouts like they are binding commitments. No excuses! Go to the bar with your friends. Be kinda hungover at work. Socializing is like exercise; even if you don't feel like you want to, you should still do it because it's good for you.

tahthetrickster

socializing works a little bit like a car battery and alternator. if you continue to make yourself go out and do things, your social alternator makes it infinitely more manageable for you to continue to go out and do things. if you let yourself be completely idle for too long, the alternator doesn't get to keep charging your battery and eventually it runs completely down and it's nearly impossible to go out and do stuff with a dead social battery. you can always get it jumped again by a friend who's willing to do so, but as with a real car battery it's kind of a whole Thing and the first time out with a jumped battery is still really shaky and weird and anxiety-inducing and all of this could've been avoided if you'd just gone to the arcade or whatever