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Emmie▪︎23▪︎†

[ddrvbiblgigb]

“The sexual revolution did not liberate sex. It liberated pornography”

- Germaine Greer

[daddy-doms-are-gross]

it’s possible for consensual sex to be unhealthy. it is possible for sex to be both consensual and bad for you. sex can manifest as a method of self harm. you do not have to feel positively about all of your sexual experiences and consensual sex does not have to be unilaterally praised and upheld. sometimes the sexual experiences we seek out are unhealthy for us, and it’s good to acknowledge that.

[oregonpipeline]

I don’t know why this doesn’t sit right with me, but it doesn’t. Seems very kink-shamy.

[hardboiledoldman]

many kinks should be shamed, dummy

[thecommunityoftrustworthysinks]

^that, and sometimes people have consensual sex with people they shouldn’t have, and later regret. whether it be in an unhealthy relationship or an ex or some combination or any situation. consent is of utmost importance, but it doesn’t automatically make a sexual situation healthy (or one someone will be happy about forever), kink related or no.

[anti-porn-unicorn]

Or all the young girls having unprotected sex with older men. Yes it’s consensual. But no that’s not good.

[qingluanwife]

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

do u ever see stuff customized for little kids and get blown away by how small……children are like…….those little little tiny chairs in preschools…..so small……they sit in those and do their work…….what does someone so small have going on…I know it’s important and they’re working hard…..I love them & I love those little chairs

[deadgodjess]

This is not my first kid and yet I’m still floored by how tiny baby shirts are. Like… omg. I had one of these before!? Was the first one really that small? Really? AND I’M HAVING ANOTHER VERY SMALL PERSON!?

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

every time i see baby sneakers in the shoe store I am speechless I stop in my tracks. baby boots? have you seen the little timbs they make for teeny feet I’m going to SCREAM

[now-theres-a-spoiler-for-you]

The first time I saw newborn sized jeans (they had an elastic waistband) I almost cried. They had tiny working pockets and I was so shocked. These tiny babies with their little baby hands don’t even have things to put into their pockets and yet they have working pockets but I, a grown woman, have to check to make sure jeans have working pockets before I can buy them

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

you don’t know…..babies have a lot of things to put in pockets like…….their Very Small Hands……a single ravioli……

[thottybrucewayne]

Babies have pockets for one single, damp, cheeto.

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

YEAH!!!

[catherine-siena-dr-of-the-church]

Teeny tiny little sweaters and baby coats!  Itty bitty purses for little gals who need to carry their toy cars around!  

AND GLASSES!

They make glasses for little itty bitty babies who can’t see without help, and those things are AMAZINGLY SMALL!

[reformed-roark]

My 8-week-old daughter has some tiny hoodies and they’re so small I can zip my arm up in them and pretend that they’re puppets

[pukicho]

Gamestop is definitely the next blockbuster and I'm pretty sure the only one who doesn't realize this is gamestop

[striderepiphany]

Idk who needs to hear this, but you absolutely can be fulfilled and happy in a stereotypically """boring""" desk job and it doesn't even make you a boring person. My mom is an accountant, and she ADORES her job. And not just the office she works at or the people she works with, she loves the problem solving and the satisfaction of keeping things organized. She's also one of the funniest, goofiest people I've ever met.

If you're at a point where you're worried about being "trapped" in a corporate environment, sure, it's not for everyone. But there are still things you can find joy in no matter what you do. And maybe you're just super crazy about spreadsheets. Fuckin rock on

[godtechturninheads]

[galactides]

[meangirlnurse]

i like the little map on doordash because you can watch your delivery driver completely miss your address in real time

[meangirlnurse]

daniel you are going in the completely wrong direction. let me help you daniel

[meangirlnurse]

daniel i am hungry. i am opening my mouth like a baby bird daniel

[catasters]

[sombersquid]

[dankmemeuniversity]

[hellsite-yano]

[canape-official]

[inthenameofsephiroth]

[user87262893]

The type of the mother I’m trying to be. Not just encourage bodily autonomy, but reward displays of it, even when it might make someone else in the room uncomfortable.

[swedepea]

I’ve made so many people uncomfortable in supporting my daughter’s personal space. People will try to hug her, she’ll sometimes say “No, thank you” and the adult will look at me to make her do it, but I just say “It’s ok honey, you don’t have to hug anyone you don’t want to.” It makes people irrationally huffy, making me feel even more justified in supporting my daughter’s choices. Creeps.

[misharoux]

I legit had to mom-voice some random woman with a “she said no!” when she tried to force a hug on Madison. (who was not very good at verbalizing to people she didn’t know/trust at the time)

She replied, “I just want a hug, it won’t hurt her.”

Me: She. Said. No.  

There aren’t many things more important than letting my daughter know that I have her back when it comes to something like this. 

[ineeduhnap]

I work with five year olds and I had a very long talk with them about permission and that your body belongs to yourself and no one else. “Even if you want to hug your friend, you need to stop and ask if it’s okay and if they don’t want you to touch them, you should respect that choice and not do it.” they were like “cool” and then every time after that they had no problem asking their friends “can I give you a hug?” Or “can I hold your hand?” Very politely. If their friend said no, they shrugged and went on with their life. They even started asking me if they could hug me or if it was okay to hold my hand when they were sad. And I always ask when they need comfort “do you need or want a hug?” If they say no, I ask “okay, let me know what we can do as a class to help you feel better. Quiet time? Do you want a stuffed animal? Sit on the couch? Do you need some time alone?” They verbalize what they need and they become aware of their own autonomy and their ability and power to say “no.” Just because someone is an adult does NOT give them the right to hug a child who has said “no” or “no thanks.” Teach then that they own their own body, and no one else is in charge of it. Teach them the power of NO.

[lazy-polyglot]

^^^^^this is so important

[sapphichunterofartemis-deactiva]

This also inadvertently fosters a sense of comfort with you which makes them more likely to share things and it reinforces that they are in control of their bodies. I immediately thought that a child who feels autonomous and also safe with you may be more likely to share if they are touched inappropriately by someone. That could save lives or at least some children from very traumatic experiences.

[umeeri-blog]

I'm looking at apartment listings and this listing really says "Located in scenic, suburban [most dangerous town this side of the state]" then ends the description with "NO SECTION 8!!!" and the rent's like $600 (in an area with rent normally more than $1200). Skdjsk who do you think you're fooling?

[umeeri-blog]

I'll be honest though, they did a nice job renovating the place. It's a little tempting, despite the neighborhood, just oof that rent is suspiciously low.

[umeeri-blog]

This property has two story townhomes for $1000???!!!!

[umeeri-blog]

I'm looking at apartment listings and this listing really says "Located in scenic, suburban [most dangerous town this side of the state]" then ends the description with "NO SECTION 8!!!" and the rent's like $600 (in an area with rent normally more than $1200). Skdjsk who do you think you're fooling?

[umeeri-blog]

I'll be honest though, they did a nice job renovating the place. It's a little tempting, despite the neighborhood, just oof that rent is suspiciously low.

[umeeri-blog]

I'm looking at apartment listings and this listing really says "Located in scenic, suburban [most dangerous town this side of the state]" then ends the description with "NO SECTION 8!!!" and the rent's like $600 (in an area with rent normally more than $1200). Skdjsk who do you think you're fooling?

[pocmemes]

[hellsite-yano]

I think about this video fucking daily

[umeeri-blog]

I really hate that whenever you see the coldest take on Christianity on this website, it's always from an Episcopalian that also practices witchcraft or some shit. Bonus points if they're a female priest, which makes their cold, uneducated take even worse.

I really need to leave this denomination.