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rumi • 26 • any pronouns

[vanpire]

hii im rumi, i go by any pronouns

heres my carrd <3

thx for reading :)

[niceinchnails]

Everyone. This is NOT a drill. I have hacked into the backend of [tumblr]. I'll save us all.

[kosmogrl]

how the world feels when you listen to a song for the first time and immediately know you'll love it forever

[local-lesbian-tree-demon]

they should invent a body that feels normal to be inside of

[flipchild]

[morphogenetic]

(wanting to make a post about something but it reveals too much about your personal life) i have had a negative experience

[segamascott]

[innerchildabortionclinic]

[parkchanwoohoo]

my former roommates in a crumbling marriage were told by their couple’s therapist that they needed to get a shared hobby, any shared hobby, literally any hobby, so they decided it should be watching mr beast. vivid memories of coming home to seeing them sitting five feet apart on the sofa, watching mr beast with completely blank expressions and occasionally making slightly strained comments

I gasped out loud at this????

I were the therapist I'd be like no....... maybe not like that........

[animentality]

[bumblebeerror]

Credit card companies will TRY to saddle you with this kind of debt by the way - if ever a loved one dies and you are not co-signed on their credit card, do NOT agree to pay their debt unless you ask a lawyer first if you truly have to.

They will say “don’t you want them to go to the grave without debt”, they will try to guilt you, they will take advantage of your vulnerability.

Source: when my father died, he had some credit cards that my mom wasn’t on that she had no access to. The companies contacted her while she was sorting through the bills and getting a handle on how to run the house alone, badgering her with his credit card debt.

She wasn’t liable for any of it, but if she had ever agreed to pay before finding out that she didn’t need to, she would have been considered to have taken on his debt and would have HAD to pay it. It’s slimy, it’s predatory, and it’s entirely legal for them to do this.

Never accept the credit card company’s word about your obligation to pay anyone else’s debt, if you don’t have access to the card, ask a lawyer before agreeing to anything.

[whatbigotspost]

YESSS!!!! THIS!!!!

Ok, I'm not an estate lawyer disclaimer blah blah locations all have different laws blah blah BUT a couple months back I started to get overly worried I will likely die still owing money some day, with a negative "net worth" whateverwhatever. I only care that my niblings could get harassed about bills of mine, and I would HATE THAT.

What I found by doing a bunch of research, talking to a family lawyer I know, and a wealth planner, is accurate to what's up thread. Those who I am a debtor w/ can/will take what they can from "my estate." They can/will try to chase down payments.

But when said estate (lol) is all gone, that's it. They can TRY to contact my niblings about bills, but basically they'll just need to be like "Auntie who????" and/or ignore it fully and not pay a cent and they can't be held responsible.

While we're on this topic, don't forget: even with credit card debts or medical bills that are yours, when you can't pay they go in collections, the collections company is very very likely to settle w/ you for pennies on the dollar. I once paid $500 for a hospital bill that originally came to me over $6k.

[weirdplutoprince]

Well, well, well. If it isn't the consequences of someone else's actions that I am directly impacted and severely affected by

[firem4ge]

It’s a scary time to be a trans woman. A lot of people might be scared to go on estrogen because they have unsupportive people in their life.

You can go on estrogen and hide it, you don’t have to come out in order to go on estrogen. It’s easy to diy and most of the effects are subtle, if you’re particularly gifted with boobs that might be a concern but you’d be surprised how much a sports bra can hide.

Just, don’t wait your whole life for the time to be right. You can start medical transition without social transition.

[fidelcostco]

the human brain is so cool, if you're tired and stressed enough, your brain will go, "don't worry, I got you" and shadows will start moving

[fidelcostco]

and what's the genital situation on the shadows

[fidelcostco]

oh this is my post

[lexbians]

gmail = garry's mail

[paperandpencilsandskips]

Dead wife but it's a flashback to an amazing sandwich you had 3 years ago

[fwizard]

I’m getting threatening scam emails from author john green

[sottaceti-deactivated20260328]

fuck its Already like 100 am

[gayvampyr]

i think tumblr ads automatically opening a tab on your phone if you touch them while scrolling should be considered a form of malware