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Smash that reblog button if you know that âleft-wingâ and âright-wingâ are just arbitrary labels to describe liberatory politics and hierarchical politics respectively, and that society isnât a goddamn bird.
Edward, to Bella: youâre the reason I have something to fight for. a family.
the Cullens, who put up with his emo ass for over a hundred years: damn, fuck us I guess
This has the same energy as Edward saying heâs never seen a vampire control their thirst for blood as well as Bella does, when Carlisleâs been flexing his impeccable control for centuries
Shout out to all my straight sisters Iâm so sorry đ
Jesus, leave his ass.
We learn fast to be very kind and attentive, tho.
My mom, who got her degree in Marriage and Family Counseling when she was 60, says studies show that women will sometimes sometimes leave a long term relationship to live on their own for a while before seeking a new relationship, but men will almost never leave a long term relationship without having a new relationship either in progress or just beginning. They donât want to give up the caretaker they have without another one on deck or in the wings.
This is so sad
This isnt cute or quirky. This means hes a fucking hopeless user
Please date a man who actually acts like an adult.
Ok I lived with my ex for 2 years and he literally wouldnât be able to get his own food if I wasnât at home, Iâd get home from work and heâd be angry at me for âmaking him starveâ
My current partner has lived on his own for 8 years and the absolute most I have to help him with is maybe sending him $20 so he can make a bill payment on time
It made me realise for 2-4 years I wasnât a girlfriend I was a fucking mother
Men who have been independent are capable of reverting if given the slightest excuse. When we married, my ex husband was 10 years older than me and had lived on his own for 8ish years. Yet (and I allowed this until I finally got fed up and took us to counseling) I did 80% of the cooking, because I was better at it. Same with the cleaning, shopping, social planning, etc.
After I left, in the first six months I got texts or calls asking me to please tell him:
The online banking password (dude, I left you, you should really change that)
Where I ordered his special-wecial organic underwear
Where the good cutting board was (my dad gave it to us at our wedding, genius, I took it with me along with the rest of the stuff from my family)
What brand butter we bought
What brand of local kielbasa we bought
Who his doctor was
What RMV office had the shortest lines
Where the old tax returns were (in the fucking box labeled tax returns)
The phone number for his best friend
I shit you not.
Then he had a heart attack (mild) and none of his family or friends were around to take him to the hospital. But instead of calling 911, he called me, who by then lived 45 minutes away. He lived 5 minutes from an EMS dispatch location. He called me, despite the fact that he didnât believe me 8 months prior when I was feeling suicidal and I had to call a cab to go alone to check myself into the hospital for a 72-hour hold. I told him to call 911, hung up on him when he whined about âmaking a fussâ, called 911, called his siblings and then texted them âyour brother is having a heart attack, I called 911 for him, come home,â and washed my hands of it.
Emotionally vacant men who wonât do household labor or emotional labor are not Nazis, but they arenât good people, either, and you donât have to put up with their shit.
Millennial women of Tumblr, please read this post.
And then please: make the decision for yourself to never stay with a man who expects you to be his mother and servant.
yâall need therapy. not girlfriends
Or they need a girlfriend that doesnât mind listening and trying to help them work through their shit and defeat their fucking demons without asking them to pour out their soul to a stranger who is only listening because itâs their job. Thatâs the kind of shit you do for the people you love.
your partner is not your therapist. listening to your partner is one thing, but it is not their responsibility to help you work through your shit. that is on you.
one more time.
your partner is not your therapist.
also if I may hop onto this, I REALLY hate when people try to spin âtherapists only listen because itâs their jobâ as a BAD thing. can you imagine if we tried to apply that to literally any other profession?
âwhy take your phone into the store to get it fixed? they donât care about you, theyâre only doing their job.â
âI donât want to order a pizza. theyâre not making it for me out of the goodness of their hearts, theyâre only doing it because itâs their job.â
âwhy didnât you just have your girlfriend do that surgery instead of going to a stranger who only saved your life because itâs their job?â
itâs their job because they are better equipped to do it than the other people in your life. jesus christ.Â
This is why baby boomers think we can pay for school while having a part time job
im so mad
Stunning photos from Vogue of traditional Mexican women equestrian riders in the sport of Escaramuza (rodeo sport). Article by Mariel Cruz, Photos by Devin Doyle.Â
Last year, photographer Devin Doyle, whoâd spent two years photographing high school rodeo culture in the United States, became curious as to what the Mexican equivalent might look like. After all, he says, âItâs the same land, the same ranching culture.â What he found was an exciting competitive equestrian sport performed by women dressed in stunning traditional costumes, a sport directly inspired by the Adelitasâthe female soldiers who fought in the Mexican Revolution.
Escaramuza, an event within the larger rodeo-like sport known as charrerĂa (now recognized as Mexicoâs national sport) is comprised of teams of up to 16 women (though only eight can compete at a time) performing a series of routines inside a lienzo charro, or stadium, at breakneck galloping speedsâall while riding sidesaddle.
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EZRA MILLER âFantastic Beasts: The Crimes of Grindelwaldâ World Première, Paris (November 8, 2018).
Thereâs a lot to unpack here. +the flexibility to get in that pose +the balance to stay on the skateboard +the strength to pull back a bowstring with your toes +the dexterity to hit a target while moving +the coordination⌠not hand-eye, but foot-eye âŚI donât know what to do with these things now that Iâve unpacked themâŚ
you could curse a police officer out, kick their car, throw a temper tantrum and throw trash. and that still doesnt mean they get to kill you. what the fuck is wrong with yall? why do you think police get some special license to kill when they get disrespected?
if they cant do their job without murdering unarmed people, they dont deserve their badge, or anyones respect.
in skyrim i married a homeless man and even though we are married and he lives in my huge fuckin house he still wears rags and asks me to give him 1 gold whenever i see him
thatâs just what men are like
Oh theyâre going to need salvation.
Not just making it illegal, but making being gay punishable with death.
This is one of the many reasons why I walk by every single red bucket in the run-up to Christmas. Theyâre not getting my money, I donât care how nice the people ringing bells are.
Ever since the time they threatened to close all their soup kitchens in NYC if a law that did something as simple as allow companies to extend spousal benefits to their employeeâs same-sex domestic partners I have refused to buy from them or donate to them.Â
Itâs that time of year again! In case people donât know⌠the Salvation Army is shitty peoples.
Also, the married women are not paid (and therefore canât qualify for assistance if they should ever divorce, etc). And worth âof courseâ less than a man.
â In the Armyâs case, the agreement for compensation is that the officer allowance be paid jointly to the husbandâthe check is written in his name. Officially, the wife is a âworker without expectation of remuneration,â and her husband receives 40 percent more of an allowance as a married man than he would as a single man. â
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hey since that season is coming up again!
To my American followers. Donât support Salvation Army. Not only are they homophobic as shit, but Iâve also heard that they abuse a lot f homeless people. They only care about money, please donât donate to them and give your money to charities that actually help people
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To be clear: this is specific to America. It is not necessarily going to be true for all countries. Please donât boycott your own salvos without proper investigation: in many countries they do good work.