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*passive aggressive Australian voice* listen…mate

not to be fake deep but admitting you fucked up and saying you’re sorry is 100000000x more rewarding than defending flawed views or thoughtless if unintentionally so actions, 10/10 would recommend, it’s not losing face it’s earning respect

chicklette

This is literally how you know you’re an adult. “I’m sorry I snapped at you. I’m cranky but that doesn’t excuse taking it out on you.” “I’m sorry I screwed this vital thing up. I thought I had it under control and didn’t. Can we fix it by xyz?” “I’m sorry I forgot we had plans tonight. I was distracted, but this is important to you. Let’s do the thing!”

A sincere I’m sorry are two of the most powerful words in the English language.

writhe

HERE ON THIS BLOG WE GIVE A FUCK!! APATHY FEEDS THE MACHINE! WE ARE ALL ABOUT LOVING AND CARING DEEPLY FOR HUMANITY HERE!

sunshineysprinkles

If you’re reading this, it’s too late. The positive vibes are already coming for you, get ready. You have no choice but to have a good day now.

yesterdaysprint

The Cincinnati Enquirer, Ohio, February 21, 1947

karrakazz

not sure if this will make sense to anyone besides me but: the antidote to negativity is not positivity, its warmth

karrakazz

positivity tells a sad person that there is no reason to be sad. warmth asks the sad person if they want to go get some ice cream

barbidreamdumpster-deactivated2

if you want to ask a bisexual or asexual person about their sexual history to verify that they’re queer, but you don’t want them to take it the wrong way, try this useful communication technique:

give them twenty dollars and go away.

bidyke

As a bi person, I can attest to the beneficiality of this method.

terezisexbuttpyrope

As an ace i second that^

geardrops

if twenty dollars doesn’t work for you then forty dollars is also fine

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munsass

satan works fast but bobby from queer eye works faster

fluffymcmuffins

if someone starts crying over something that seems small, don’t be a dick about it. most of the time there’s a bigger picture, so just because they’re upset over the WiFi not connecting or a bottle being hard to open doesn’t mean that’s what they’re actually upset about. sometimes shit just comes crashing down all at once

ironychan

PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT: When you treat retail employees like shit, you become an instant joke. You are the story they tell over coffee to make their friends and family laugh at the idiot. You are the person they mimic in a squeaky voice.

Next time you want to yell at a retail employee, imagine them repeating what you are about to say in a squeaky voice. Because that will be your legacy.