What is going on with my life...

HIIII my names are nyxe/Hazel ~ prns are ae/they no she/her he/him or it/its tyty) ummm if you wanna know abt my identity or general existence go there 👉https://en.pronouns.page/@H4Z3L

[whotfishazel]

Welcome to my blog of…idk

My name is Hazel :D I love reading, writing random things that never get completed, horse riding, and all of my friends

Some things to know about me^^

-I’m Hellenic (a polytheist religion involving the Greek Gods and Godesses)

-I have anxiety and SPD (sensory processing disorder) so yeahhhh

-DNI if you are queerphobic, ableist, racist, that kind of DNI stuff

-feel free to message me anytime if you need advice or just want to talk! (Btw I’m pretty good at genders/sexualities if you need help figuring that out)

Okay bye!

[aaa-battery-not-rechargeable]

i often get asked 'how long have you known' and 'how did you figure out' that I'm aroace, agender or just... queer.

i really don't have an answer.

some queers say they always felt different. i suppose i was raised to pretend, and didn't know it wasn't genuine when i picked out a random boy on the playground to have a crush on, I genuinely thought that was how people did that.

i didn't actually clock that other people were feeling sexual and romantic attraction, i didn't clock that i wasn't, I didn't really pay attention or care about that stuff either way. and i wasn't viewed as different, because i was pretending, and i didn't know it. I didn't clock that other people actually perceived gender as a part of themselves or other people. I just didn't ... think about it. it wasn't an issue for me.

so obviously I've always been aroace and agender, but there was no point when I 'realized', it just kinda... was

I've always had to come up with an answer, because I had to pretend it was a revelation, because I didn't realize it really wasn't. just like I had to pick out some random dude to pretend to enjoy when my fellow little ten year olds, ten+ years ago asked me who I had a crush on

so either I'm stupid, socially inept, or... it's the compulsory heterosexuality and amatonormativity. but I have my opinions.

[theonehitwonder]

Imagine two adults in a relationship.

one has absolute legal power over the over one, they control their living situation, education, internet access, finances, social life to some degree, appearance, what/when they eat, they are allowed to hit them if they so please, if the victims tries to leave they are supposed to be dragged back to the relationship by the police.

and to top it all off, this whole time everyone around the couple agrees that the abuser is in the right because they know best, and treats any objections the victim has as typical brattyness.

Oh, except the abuser is a parent and the victim is their child.

[pronounsmegamix]

Welcome to my blog! I’m another friendly pronouns provider. :)

I’ve released a full spreadsheet of pronoun sets, which is currently sitting at 25000+ sets! You can find the current release [HERE]!

Requests are currently open!

Guidelines below the cut!

Keep reading

[whotfishazel]

Okay. I CANNOT with people who are like ‘oh, you don’t know if you’re gay until you’re like 18.’ Mf, being gay is like being straight, it’s only because we live in a heteronormative society that you think you don’t necessarily know until you’re ‘older’. If I said to you, ‘I…I think I’m straight,’ would you say that I might not know yet? But for some reason, being homosexual is seen as being a ‘choice’ or a ‘lifestyle’ (my parents words).

[maximumsunshine]

Can this poll end on exactly 69,420 votes. Not notes, votes.

Of course

Yes

Maybe?

No

Hahaha funny number but no

Max you've been here 10+ years you know better

Vanilla Extract will equally help and hurt

Button

Another Button

Jesus with the buttons Max

Voting ended onJul 31, 2023

Unfortunately, this will require reblogs.

[whotfishazel]

[Image ID: two images. The first one is a flag with a symbol of a robot on it, outlined in black with a pink stripe inside the black. There are seven sections on the rest of the flag: mauve, pink, pale pink, dark grey, grey, and light grey. The second image is a symbol of a robot head, with slanted eyes, all outlined in black. End ID]

: ̗̀➛ Explotorogirlic

A xenogender connected to being an overworked and/or underappreciated robot, who is also a girl in the way a robot or AI would be a girl.

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[Image ID: two images. The first one is a flag with a symbol of a robot on it, outlined in black with a blue stripe inside the black. There are seven sections on the rest of the flag: navy blue, blue, grey-blue, dark grey, grey, and light grey. The second image is a symbol of a robot head, with slanted eyes, all outlined in black. End ID]

: ̗̀➛ Explotoroboyic

A xenogender connected to being an overworked and/or underappreciated robot, who is also a boy in the way a robot or AI would be a boy.

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Terms and definitions by me, flags and symbols by viro.fr on discord

[remyisnotarat-deactivated202408]

Shoutout to AroAce Agender Autistics

We really were born to say no to every social norm ever and I love that

[whotfishazel]

ೃ⁀➷nirswytic⋆·˚ ༘ *

[Image ID: two images. The first image is a flag with a wind vector in the middle. The flag is made of five wavy stripes. The colours going from top to bottom are: dark grey, black, pale pink, chestnut brown, pale green. The symbol in the middle is an image of a gust of wind in black, with greyish-blue surrounding the outlines. The second image is of just the symbol, outlined in black with grey and grey-blue around it. End ID.]

⋆.ೃ࿔*:･nirswytic is a xenogender where ones gender has a connection, or feels like, swinging or being on a swing during nighttime or while it is dark. Someone who is nirswytic may feel gender euphoria when swinging or being on a swing at nighttime or when it is dark.

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ Term, definition, and flag by me.

[thesungod]

Cabin 7 members with Apollo

[everythingfox]

Do not disturb

[i-say-ok]

ok.

[0lympian-c0uncil]

Zeus: Ares...

Ares: I can tell by the tone of your voice that you are disappointed. Alas, I must further disappoint you by affirming how little I give a fuck.

[alloaro-azelf]

if you say you support aromantics but tell alloaros to censor themselves and their sexual experiences, then I hate to break it to you, but you don’t actually support aros as much as you think you do

[mathematical-cheese]

You cannot and never will be an ally to aros if you don't put in some work to begin deconstructing amatonormativity. That doesn't mean you have to rediscover it all because plenty of people have written about amatonormativity. What you do have to do is listen and internalise

[whotfishazel]

ೃ⁀➷kenomesyptic⋆·˚ ༘ *

[Image ID: A flag with six stripes with a symbol in the middle. From top to bottom, the colours are: brown, muted blue, pale grey-blue, light beige, pale brown, and deep brown. The symbol is a deep grey cloud outlined in black. End ID.]

⋆.ೃ࿔*:･Kenomesyptic is a xenogender where ones gender feels simultaneously like a void and a complex place which also may feel mysterious. It could possibly feel foggy or misty at times as well.

·˚ ༘₊· ͟͟͞͞꒰➳ Term and definition by me, flag by vio.fr on discord.

[strawberryplottwist]

So anyway aromantic and asexual people are inherently LGBT+ and belong in the LGBT+ community

[whotfishazel]

People need to stop assuming that the term trans has to mean either AMAB Transfemmes or AFAB Transmascs. IT IS AN UMBRELLA TERM FOR ANYONE WHO IS NOT CIS. Need me to repeat it? Yes, of course it includes AMAB transfemmes, and AFAB transmascs. BUT it also means us enbies, and YES this does DAMN WELL include:

AMAB neoboys, demiboys, libramascs, and solarians

AFAB neogirls, demigirls, librafems, and lunarians

Quoigender, Pomogender, and Gender Apathetic people

trans AFABs who are still women and trans AMABs who are still men

Agender, gendervoid people

Xenogender people

anyone who just doesn’t feel quite cis

Even if you’ve never changed your names or pronouns, or gotten hormones or surgeries, you’re still trans

Don’t worry, you ARE valid and you ARE still trans

I love you all <33