Do you remember the crushing feeling? In editorial meetings; when everyone runs out of ideas. It's like the building is slowly imploding around you, and everyone's nervously looking around for answers. It's my understanding that this happens to even the best of editorial staffs, but when I was starting out I was pretty sure it was completely my fault. No one ever taught me how to pitch, and like most people, I was not initially good at it. I only learned after I left the newsroom, and suddenly had to pitch in order to pay my rent. When it becomes dire like that, the premium on ideas is lower, you realize that whatever pitch you lob, whether it's a great or terrible idea, will not define you, or make/break your career. Writers are successful more often for being consistently honest rather than for always "nailing" the story and managing perceptions. It's incredibly encouraging to see luminary writers and editors like Ann, Alexis, and others talk about transparency for writer. Most of what they're prescribing, though, is from an editor's perspective. Editors are haplessly busy people with a million things on their minds, and often teaching young writers to present themselves is pretty far down their to-do lists. Writers, on the other hand, tend to have a little more flexibility day-to-day, and that, I think, is where we lag in this transparency conversation. Writers need to check their competitiveness and be open with each other. It took me years to teach myself what someone could have sat down and told me in an hour or two -- and thats not for lack of reaching out to people. Having an established writer thoughtfully, carefully lay out how to pitch, how to present yourself, and what not to do is an invaluable experience for a new writer, and, truly can be done in the span of a brief afternoon. This is why I am such a big fan of what's happening over at Scratch Magazine / Who Pays Writers, along with a few discreet other resources for writers to share information and subtle, nuanced career advice that's not already publicly available. I hope that every writer, no matter how old or young, bears in mind the crippling feeling of not knowing how to present your ideas, and stops now and then to share your experience, support one another, and instill confidence in those who need it. We can only all benefit.Â