Oriana

🪽Welcome little angel🪽 Agere caregiver blog 21 yro | She/They/It +Neos 📌Read pinned📌

[wingedmama]

🪽Intro | ⛅️ Blocked on sight |🪽Requests (Slow)

⛅️ Anon list | 🪽Boundaries

⛅️ Credits—

Pfp, Background painting, Train, Angel by Carl von Marr, Stairs, (Edited) Divider

(No adult content, gifs get flagged wrongly)

[blossomtreeangel]

New anti agere person misusing and misunderstanding psychology, block and don’t engage

If asked for it I will go point by point debunking it

[super-pup-agere]

Friendly reminder that modifying exercises when you need to, modifying workouts when you need to, taking it easy when you need to, and taking an extra rest day when you need to, is not lazy

Listening to your body and working out at the pace and skill level you need is always going to be better for your health and progress than pushing through what your body isn’t ready for

We need time to build up to faster speeds, higher weights, and more advanced exercises, and we need time to recover for our muscles go get stronger and more resilient

It’s not lazy to keep your body and mind safe

[wingedmama]

hiya mama ori *gives a lil wave* saw you wanted more messages, and feeling tinier than normal since i have my period, can i ask for comfort please? it would be nice to have an angel by my side when my tummy hurts >~<

Aww, how nice of you to drop by, little angel! Thank you. ꒰ა♡໒꒱

I’m very sorry to hear about your period pains, sweetheart, make sure to keep yourself cozy and warm, take time to rest and to eat something that makes you happy. Being on your period doesn’t mean being “dirty” (as unfortunately some people still treat it like that) or “too big” (because even bio kids menstruate), you can be as tiny as you’d need or want to be. 🫶

I’m wrapping my wing around you and giving you a sweet treat, I hope you can heal well. 💛🪽

(Extra reminder to boys and other non-women who menstruate: Your periods do not define your identity, you are uniquely and beautifully you!)

[sleepyvitals]

I know it’s difficult to sleep, little one. You had such a busy day, you endured so much and still made it through the day. You are so brave, much more than you give yourself credit for. You don’t need to worry anymore, nothing here will ever harm you. Just rest your head, close your eyes, and let yourself relax. I am so proud of you, I see you trying your best and I have never been more proud. I promise you I will stay right by your side, you’ll always be safe. Rest now, little one. Tomorrow is a new day.

[sunnimals]

It has always bothered me a little that a lot of the "what is agere?" cards are just. Not as in-depth as i know i needed when I discovered the community.

So I made some to clear things up and explain what I would have liked to know !!

These are for parents/loved ones of regressors and people who are just discovering agere

Warning for small text and a good amount of reading. I tried to make it as readable as I could!! This is only the basics, it is NOT everything (I couldn't fit everything into 4 cards!!) Click for better quality ❤️

Strawpage link ☆

[cuteypatooty]

Outdoor sunshine mama moodboard ☀️🌷

[scary-caregiver]

~ Happy Mother’s Day ~

To all mothers in the community, thank you for all the hard work you do.

Whether you’re raising kids, caring for your pets, or taking on the responsibility of a caregiver;

You’re so immensely appreciated, so the time to do something nice for yourself. You deserve to be cared for too, don’t forget that.

And to everyone else, be sure to send your mom a nice message or perhaps make a card for her. Whatever you wish to let her know you love her.

Have a lovely day everyone ❤️

[wingedmama]

꒰ა♡໒꒱ Wishing a safe day for all that struggle with Mother's Day:

⟢ For those who have a complicated relationship with their mother

⟢ For those who mother has passed away

⟢ For those who were neglected by their mothers

⟢ For those who were abused by their mothers

⟢ For those who had to cut contact or be in low contact with their mothers

⟢ For those who still live with their mothers and have to celebrate it, even though it feels wrong to do so

⟢ For those who have to pretend everything is ok even though it's not

I hear you, I see you and I love you 🫶 feel free to reach out today and any other day, little stars 🌟

[fret-for-ur-paci]

Any tips for regressors who suffer from dissociation? I’ve been struggling a lot this last week and regression has been hard to slip into !! I just want it to stop :/

[littlecodywalsh]

First of all I just wanna say m sorry because it really really does suck a LOT and can sometimes make it hard to be small. I'm gonna speak as someone with DID but hopefully this helps for other people with dissocation too!!!

Fighting it can sometimes make it worse: if your brain is feeling poorly sometimes it is just best to do relaxing techniques and surround self with comfort and not try to stop it. Your brain dissociates for a reason!!! It's trying to protect you!! Sometimes letting yourself sit in it as long as you are in a safe place and it's not freaking you out too much is okay.

Grounding techniques can work for less severe dissociation, play mini games with yourself like I spy or "Can I name three animals starting with b? What colour are they? Can I find this colour in my space?" And doing songs like head shoulders knees and toes with the dance. Helps to regress and ground! Sometimes grounding makes it worse for severe dissociation/certain dissociation - listen to your brain!

Remember it's okay to be small and dissociated! You can be really out of it and not be aware whether you are regressed or not or even if you wanna be and that is okay!!! If you find yourself small then that's okay.

Most of all be kind to your brain!!!! It might be misguided but it wants to protect you, it's not a meanie and don't treat it like one!!! Dissociation is hard to cope with, but possible! It will be okay friend :D

Disclaimer: I am just one normal kiddo with DID and this stuff helps me, I am not a professional!!! If you are struggling lots - reaching out for help from others is always best!!!

[zephyraes]

why do people like you want credit for making a gif of someone else's footage? its not yours

I'm gonna ignore how rudely this ask is written and answer honestly, since I see sooo many people asking about this.

There's multiple reasons gif creators ask for credit!

IT PRESERVES THE ORIGINAL CREATOR

If a gif is posted without credit, the original source is lost. That's why I specifically ask people to link back to my original post- So that the original source of a gif is never lost in a chain of deactivated blogs. If the original source isn't accessible, the next best thing is reverse image search... Which is pretty dreadful nowadays.

I think this is the most important part!

2. GIF CREATORS DON'T JUST CLIP VIDEOS

I know personally when I create gifs from a video, I also do colour correction, adjust saturation, correct jittering, etc. It takes time! On top of that, good gif creating software that allows for these corrections aren't free! The program I use cost around $30usd.

[vampire-bat-stims]

To add to this, a lot of us use our own footage as well and would like credit for the videos WE FILMED. It took me hours to get the framing and movement of my Doctor Who DVD gifs right for example, and it would be deeply rude to not credit me for the work and time that went into making not only the gifs, but the videos

[gardenview-stims]

Another reason is that there's a good chance the source links back to a small shop of some sorts, it'd be rude to not link back to the post which already has a link to where you can find them to buy from them because then it would be harder to find for people who want to buy something from them

[caregivertime]

very happy to let you guys know that the caregiver equivalent of a “fictional caregiver” is looking at any sad character and wanting to take them home. like i get genuine distress over not being able to wrap them in a blanket and make it better

[sunnimals]

Barbie and the Magic of Pegasus (full movie - official Barbie youtube channel)

Dividers by @/cyberangel-graphics // coloring sheets found on pinterest

[wingedmama]

꒰ა♡໒꒱ Mama found a buggy while picking the clothes that were drying in the sun 🐛

My art, do not repost! My comms here 🫶

[buggycg]

dreaming of a little that loves me as the silly mama i am

making jokes and giggling along with them, messing their hair up, tickling them and booping their nose, making a mess right beside them, playing in puddles together

my dream ｡𖦹°‧

[caringpuppy]

stop scrolling for a moment and take a deep breath…good job, can you do a couple more? excellent! get some water if you’re thirsty (or even if you’re not), a snack if you’re hungry, and your meds if it’s time to take them! alright, you can keep scrolling now <3 and here’s a gold star for taking care of yourself ⭐️

divider by @sunnimals / banner by @thtdawg

[wingedmama]

꒰ა♡໒꒱ Miss Oriana’s Care Center—

Where we can play, relax and learn, a daycare and after-school care center designed for all the little ones 💛🪽

꒰ა♡໒꒱ Credits—

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