"Pride is not a party"
Yes the fuck it is, stop being a baby
Yes pride is a riot and a fight and yadda yadda yadda but you are not revolutionary for sucking the joy out of queerness. Sometimes, pride is a party. It is a celebration of the fact that we are here, we're queer, and we're not going anywhere. And that is just as important as throwing bricks and fighting cops, actually.
If your activism doesn't allow you to enjoy the fruits of your labors you will burn out babe. Go suck some dick. Hit on that lesbian. Get the faggy haircut!!! Dance, for the love of god.
for many years being homosexual was an official mental illness, because they said all homosexuals were unhappy, depressed, that being homosexual must be an illness because no homosexual was happy.
So having Pride be a party is a protest, loud public displays of queer joy pushes back against that idea, an idea that still to this day has currency in pray the gay away circles, there are conservative christian parents to this day scared that their queer kid won't ever be happy because thats what they've been told their whole lives about being LGBT.
also thats one standing theory as to how gay came to be the term for homosexuals, that gay as in happy and joyful was picked as slang as a kind of response to this cultural idea of depressed and unhappy queers and then stuck and became mainstream.
50-something cis-het here: Pride IS a party. It's a giant FU to everyone out there that still can't swallow the fact that queer people exist and love and don't care if you don't like it.
When I grew up, gay was an accusation that gave people carte-blanche to bully you, harass you, beat you, and yes, kill you.
How many queers did I know? How many did I grow up with? I don't know. Because you put your life on the line even if you even acted like you were gay.
I went to my first pride event with my child 4 years ago. I had a hard time keeping the tears back. Because there were so many adults, so many kids, so many PEOPLE celebrating their real selves in the open without fear. It was wonderful.
So yes, it's a party, it's a protest, it's liberation, it's defiance, it's validation, and it's a memorial to all those that never got to see it.





















