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Reblogs, mostly spy family(totally not spoiler free) but sometime random stuff. Usually I'm in tags and apparently I'm either gone for months or spam post in the span of two hours. Oh. And there's a sideblog for my every other things: messycricket

[targetedknowledge]

[frankiesbullshit]

someone tell OP i did it, i spent about 3 hours on it

[thollandss-deactivated20231215]

reblog to send your mutuals a hug. maybe just the thought is enough to cheer them up 🥺

[chilicheesefries-fr]

[pois0ncandy]

first base: psychosexual obsession

second base: torture

third base: holding hands

[and-fishing-equipment]

"i don't comment on ao3 because i don't wanna be annoying or weird" skill issue + you greatly underestimate the power dynamic here, writing multi paragraph comments is like feeding a bunch of deeply insane and possibly starved ducks at the park and watch them go completely mad over having received a piece of bread

[mikilavellan]

I got a multi paragraph comment on my fic like three years ago and I still go back and read it

[traumatised-mum]

you ever just sit and realise u can’t remember 80% of your childhood? like … what happened? who am i ..?

[anisetheapothecary]

Many people in the comments are saying “trauma”, but this is actually a very normal occurrence. It’s called Childhood Amnesia, and it’s a process which, as the brain reorganizes itself for cognitive thought that is developed in late childhood, it changes the Accessibility of those memories during recall. Many childhood memories are available to the person, but they will not be remembered during regular recall activity, you have to “trick” your brain into remembering with different tactics.

This is because there are two parts to memories - their encoding and their recall. The encoding determines their availability, their recall determines their accessibility. The reason why trauma memory and childhood amnesia are different is in this distinction. Trauma memory is often encoded differently, bypassing to the limbic system where it is stored as intrinsic memory. It can’t be recalled because it was never encoded. Childhood amnesia, however, seems to indicate that the memories are encoded, but we lose access to them as we age. This is most likely due to the development of brain structures that fundamentally change our encoding and recall of memory as we get older.

This is an important distinction, because trauma memory is “stored in the body”, i.e. you get triggers that send your body into a cascade of uncontrollable feelings, sensations and reactions. Whereas childhood memories won’t generally do that, they are just recalled at odd times with odd associations.

[malcolmcooks]

reblogging this because I’ve legit seen people freaking out when they realised they can’t remember some of their childhood, thinking they might have some repressed trauma.

[crimson-chains]

Back to Monet ^^ This one is based on his "Lilacs in the sun" Qifrey and Olruggio enjoying a nice day out <3

[applepieandcupcakess]

2027 is going to be such a weird year like why does it look like that

[artyphex]

Qifrey helping Olruggio with his coat and everyone on Twitter going insane about how in love they are is fantastic. This is the panel. I love it here

[prokopetz]

One popular take on "deconstructions" of children's media I'll push back on is the idea that talking about how fucked up it is that a bunch of kids have to save the world is inherently pandering to adult audiences. Kids love it when kids' media is about how fucked up it is to be a kid who has to save the world – you've just gotta not be condescending about it.

[runcibility]

ellingson.tv on instagram

[littleguysdaily]

[unhappy-sometimes]

mhm.

(clean version under the cut)

while ur here u should check out the song i found by amber run. it’s pretty good, the first half anyway.

[killjoygem]

ive seen this bit so many times and only just realised it was showing that Anya read her mother's mind to get the name of the butterfly

[the-tardis-is-blue]

they should put me in a time loop

[hometoursandotherstuff]

[sweatermuppet]

closing statement from an article about being intersex & the possible connection of gender expression and sexuality in intersex individuals, published in The Gay Liberator, 1970s

[tiredyke]

[ID: a picture of an article that says, “Hopefully gay liberation will continue to raise confusing issues until the world at large becomes so confused and befuddled about sex and gender and all that people can finally stop worrying if "it's a boy or a girl" and get around to being free to be and to love people.” /end ID]

[lastoneout]

"I am not a vessel for your good intent" goes hard as a line from a disabled perspective. Abled people care so much more about being their idea of a good ally than they do actually being a good ally. They shove their good intent right down your throat and then act surprised when you tell them they're suffocating you.