11graveyardcats blog

[love-me-love-my-weirdness]

Starting off small: friendship isn’t inherently romantic

Getting bigger: living together isn’t inherently romantic

Even bigger: going on dates isn’t inherently romantic

Getting larger again: kissing isn’t inherently romantic

Oh my god is this too big: having sex isn’t inherently romantic

[phantom-1-2]

Reminder that the whole point of Queerplatonic relationships is to be QUEER.

A *queering* of platonic relationships. As in non conventional. As in there are no rules. As in the whole assignment is to do whatever the fuck you want.

They aren’t exclusive to aspec people. They aren’t just a funky friendship. They aren’t just a romantic relationship without the kissing. Sometimes they DO kiss!!!! On the mouth!!!! Or have sex!! People are so ready to accept that aces and aros can still do sexual/romantic activities, but like. Why would that not include doing them with a QPR?????

The only thing that makes a specific relationship a QPR is the label itself. And that’s literally the only requirement. There’s lotsa funky queer relationships that aren’t labeled Queerplatonic just cuz those involved don’t wanna use the word.

Like how some bi or pan ppl chose their label because they liked the specific definitions some groups subscribe to for those words, and some just chose theirs because they like the flag colors better.

Hot take: Friends with benifits is a type of QPR actually. (Insert obligatory “not actually but kinda sorta. If you’re gay enough about it.”) Fight me.

[cal3ris]

is this gonna get me fired you think

[thedyingcowboy]

This has to be the gayest John/Paul pic imo

[eitmrnbiwbo]

my heart is aching for more tori content.

[11graveyardcats]

Fr

[ughalicesblog]

[phantomrose96]

After 13 years of this, it's still funny to me that detailing a full mental breakdown on tumblr is standard fare, but posting a nice selfie is a fraught decision.

[loki-zen]

this is the correct way around and every other social media site is wrong

[imjustanerd13]

Im not ready for Heartstopper to end.

[11graveyardcats]

So real

[toris-letterboxd]

Solitaire

but if it was set during Tori’s university years

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

[y2kvictim]

the most infuriating thing about personal growth is that even if someone else did have the answer you needed and conveyed it to you in a precise and effective matter, it won't make sense until you're ready for it. you could hear it every day of your life and it wouldn't matter a fucking bit until it finally clicks. there's very little you can do to influence when that happens, either

[yipyipallyall]

[rivkey]

do you think john lennon would be disappointed to learn that his son is a cryptobro

[rivkey]

me, reviving john lennon: okay, so, there's this thing called the blockchain, right, and it takes up a lot of energy and it's really bad for the environment, okay so sean is into that -

john lennon, who has already discovered twitter and is actively getting cancelled on it for the 5th time in 2 minutes: the people love me

me: hey are you listening

john lennon: gay marriage legalized..................

[lilacdancer26]

I relate to Tori Spring far more than is probably healthy

[chronic-pessimist-0402]

I love saying something suicidal and watching Michael try to figure out if I'm a danger to myself or not

[terpsikeraunos]

ancient greek word of the day: κακοθερής (kakotherēs), unfitted to endure summer heat

[aphilologicalbatman-deactivated]

this literally means “bad at summer” pass it on

[zipstick]

Reblog if you, too, are bad at summer

[worldheritagepostorganization]

World Heritage Post

[11graveyardcats]

Oha, didn't knew there was a word for that

[this-is-nonbinary-joy]

Realising I don't have to have a label anymore feels so free. Like shackles being finally pulled off my wrists.

this is nonbinary joy!

[11graveyardcats]

Fr

[snakebites-and-ink]

Hate how people treat friendship like it's nothing more than the training wheels version of romantic love.