Cancels a date so she can spend time with Barry watching the particle accelerator turn on, something she doesn’t care about but knows it’s important to Barry so she wants to go
Visits Barry all the time while he’s in his 9 month long coma
Tells Barry about the red blur that’s been saving people because it’s something impossible that she knows Barry would usually be interested in, since he’s spent his whole life researching the impossible
Puts herself in danger by blogging about “The Streak” because she wants to help Barry, who she thinks has lost his faith in the impossible, believe again and prove to everyone that Barry is not crazy for what he saw the night his mother was killed
Saves herself and the rest of the hostages from Clock King
Only stops loving The Flash because she saw him viciously attack Eddie
Wants to work on important news pieces that will make a difference in the world
Tries to figure out what happened to her colleague when he stops showing up to work, even though he said horrible things to her.
Is kind to and becomes friends with Linda, even though she’s secretly jealous of Linda
Does research on the “burning man” to help Caitlin
Supports Eddie when he’s framed for murder and finds a way to prove Eddie’s innocence
Deduces that the people with powers, including The Flash, got them from the particle accelerator explosion
Talks Barry through his attack from Grodd and gives him the power to overcome the psychic attack
Tries to comfort Eddie after his kidnapping and, even though she has feelings for someone else, denies them because she doesn’t want Eddie to feel like a second choice
Encourages Barry to follow his heart and save his mom, even though she knows that alteration in the timeline will drastically change her life
Gives Barry space when he asks for it after the singularity
Tells Barry, who’s feeling guilty and undeserving, that what happened isn’t his fault and that Central City still believes in him
Risks her life to expose criminals taking advantage of the poor
Gets Henry to come back to Central City to help Barry after his defeat by Zoom
Forgives her mother for abandoning her and Joe
Wants to protect her father from the pain of knowing he didn’t get to raise his son
Tells Joe the truth and apologizes for lying
Welcomes her new brother into her life
Risks her life trying to get her brother out of the drag racing scene
Wants Barry to be happy, so she encourages him to date Patty and gives him relationship advice (that we know would have saved their relationship if Barry had wanted to follow it)
Defends The Flash when her new boss tries to discredit him
Misses Eddie and still thinks about him everyday
Helps Barry by driving him around after he loses his speed, comforts him and assures him he’s still a hero, worries about him when he has to save Wells without his powers
Helps Barry and Cisco with their Flash hologram
Tells Barry that she wants to be with him and it doesn’t matter to her if he’s The Flash or not
Figures out how to stop zombie Tony from killing everyone by using herself as bait
Is able to convince Barry to leave the speedforce
Goes with Barry to his mother’s grave, something he’s been afraid to do since his mother’s death
Wants to make sure Barry is being realistic, so he doesn’t get hurt
Comfort Barry after his father’s murder
Tells Barry to take all the time he needs to heal because she will wait for him
Knew that something was missing from her life in Flashpoint, but that goes away when she meets Barry in Flashpoint
Helps Barry through the trauma of saying goodbye to his parents in Flashpoint
Physically helps Barry get to Thawne so they can reset the timeline
Is the only one who is not angry with Barry for creating Flashpoint and convinces the others to forgive him
Tells Barry that no matter what she will love him and they will find each other
Wants Barry to know that she’s dating him for him, not his powers
Never complains when he has to leave their dates early for work or being Flash
Worries about her brother when he get speed because she doesn’t want him to get hurt
Encourages her dad to date because she wants him to be happy and knows he likes Cecile
Refuses to let Barry put her life above the lives of other, and begs him to keep protecting the city even if it means solidifying a future in which she dies
Doesn’t want Barry to compromise his values by killing, saying her life isn’t worth losing what makes him a hero
Risks her life to expose a dangerous gang
Wants to marry Barry, but doesn’t want him to propose out of fear
Looks past Barry’s ulterior motives for proposing because she’s so in love with him and wants to marry him
Doesn’t get angry when he says they need some space from each other, offers to leave their loft so he can stay there
Still shows up to help the team even though her and Barry just broke up
Figures out how to save Barry and Kara from dying in their comas by having Cisco vibe her there
Gives Barry true love’s kiss, which wakes him up
Accepts Barry’s next proposal
Again, doesn’t want Barry to let a bad guy go free even if it means saving herself from Savitar
When Caitlin turns into Killer Frost and disappears, Barry still wants to run to the future to figure out how to save Iris. She tries to convince him to wait on that until they can save Caitlin
Is more worried about what will happen to Barry, her dad, and her brother if she’s killed than actually being killed
Is not angry or scared to find out that Savitar is a version of Barry
Comforts Barry and helps him cope the knowledge that he is Savitar
Is thrilled to see a pain free Barry happily living his life and wishes he could always be free of his pain
Tells him she’s loved him since they were kids and is able to jog his memory
Loves him, painful past and all
Gives Joe her engagement ring so that if she’s killed, Barry can give it to someone else one day, because she wants him to be happy even if she’s dead
Goes with Savitar so that he doesn’t hurt Joe or Wally
Doesn’t want HR to die for her
Is the only one who immediately forgives Savitar and doesn’t chastise Barry for trying to help him
Saves Barry by shooting Savitar in third person self defense
Is heartbroken when Barry goes into the speedforce, seemingly dying
Ignores her own pain from losing Barry so she can do what he wanted by keeping the team together and saving the city
Is distraught when she sees Barry in a delirious state
Risks her life to bring Barry out of his delirium
Wants to deal with the conflict in her relationship with Barry in a healthy way, so she takes Caitlin’s suggestion of couple’s therapy
Tells Barry that she will shoulder his burdens and that he is not alone with the infamously misinterpreted line, “You are not The Flash, we are.”
Comes up with the idea that saves Barry’s life from his self destructing suit
Fears that she and Barry won’t be able to get married like they planned, so she wants to marry him immediately
Spends her bachelorette party helping Caitlin/Killer Frost fight Amunet
Defends Caitlin when Cecile and Felicity initially don’t want to help
Comforts Barry when he becomes obsessed with Devoe
Isn’t even angry when her wedding is ruined by Nazis
Comforts Felicity even though it was her wedding that was just ruined
Fights the Nazis and helps save Kara
Tells Barry that she is “Happy, excited, and honored” to be his wife
Makes an objective executive decision that Barry would have wanted her to make, even though it was hard for her
Tries to be strong for Barry as he’s going through his trail, even though it’s killing her
Almost reveals Barry is The Flash because she’s desperate to save him from a life sentence, but respects his wishes when he tells her not to
Visits Barry in prison everyday
Is the one who takes down Dawfstar
Comforts Barry when he is exhausted from trying to find a way to deactivate the detonated nuke
Comes up with a way for Barry to deactivate the nuke, something Jay, Jesse, Caitlin, Cisco, and Harry couldn’t do
Lays with Barry as he rests, happy to spend time with him no matter where they are
Gets superspeed unexpectedly and risks her life saving people
Supports Barry in his stance on not killing Devoe
Fights Marlize and puts her own safety last by letting herself be stabbed, so that she can open the pocket dimension, freeing Barry, Caitlin, and Cisco
Worries about Barry after Ralph’s death and comforts him as he grieves
Uses her blog to expose Devoe
Iris is useless. She’s not a genius so she can’t help the team at all. She’s selfish too. She never loved Eddie and only loves Barry for his powers.