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onlinecounsellingcollege

Go easy on yourself. Whatever you do today, let it be enough.

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hell0-there-lady

The reality of Instagram Modeling

medic981

This is important.

frognonbinary-deactivated202412

ok u know what, no more of those depressing bpd memes, lets make recovery memes a thing, here i’ll start

an inconvenience: happens my malfunctioning brain: time to die i guess me, using DBT skills i’ve learned in group therapy: it’s okay, i can work my way around this, i am a Capable Adult

frognonbinary-deactivated202412

my mom: harshly criticizes me my shitbrain: oh no im a failure as a human being me, forcing myself to change the way i react to Bad Things: no, i am a complex human being and a good person, my mother’s opinion of me is not the end-all be-all

frognonbinary-deactivated202412

my brain as i am waking up in the morning: god i wish i were dead me, tackling this thought like an NFL player during the superbowl: today will be a good day and i am glad that i have lived to see it!!

infinnitte

lovequotesrus

Everything you love is here

marzipanandminutiae

the thing about millennials who don’t want kids is I feel like a lot of them are deeply On Board for their friends’ kids

like I’m among the minority of my friends in definitely for sure wanting kids someday

but each of my parenthood-eschewing friends has claimed a different role in my future offspring’s life and they seem very excited to play it

so we as a generation may have fewer children

but I feel like they’ll be the most supported and loved children imaginable

pfdiva

As a millennial who doesn’t want children, I am seconding this, because it’s not like we don’t want children to exist in the world! We do! Children can be lovely and amazing and they are literally our future! It’s just So Very Difficult to raise children in our nuclear-family society, especially as a millennial, and you want to do the job RIGHT.

Well, if you can’t do the job right yourself, the least you can do is help a friend raise THEIR child right, help take the burden off their shoulders, and give that kid all the love and attention they can stand.

I’d be damned excited to do that, too.

docholligay

Sometimes I think @keyofjetwolf is more excited for me to have kids than I am ahahah.

keyofjetwolf

BRING ME THE BABIES SO THAT I MAY LOVE THEM FOREVER

respectfulmemes

kittenwitchandthebadvibes

fluent-in-lesbianism

hey please help a sister out.. is there any way to watch gay stuff on netflix without the fam knowing?

Yes!

Okay, so what you wanna do is…

As soon as you finish watching your gay stuff, go up to your profile and click “Account”:

Scroll down to “My Profile” and click on “Viewing Activity”:

Find the title you want to “hide” (aka delete from your history):

Click on the “x” next to the movie/series you’re trying to hide.

Clicking that “x” will delete it from your viewing activity AND prevent the title from showing up in the snitch sections of your account, “Recently Watched” and “Continue Watching”.

Boom.

Now you can watch whatever gay stuff you want and your fam won’t know unless you tell them.

(Warning: It might take up to 24hrs to “hide” so plan accordingly.)

captain-smalls

Reblog to save a life- all jokes aside I know the struggle and even being out I don’t want anyone know that I’m watching something gay. Hopefully this helps someone enjoy lgbt content with a little less stress.

sheisrecovering

Your abuser’s trauma does not justifiy them abusing you. Your abuser’s disability does not justify them abusing you. Your abuser’s gender does not justify them abusing you. Your abuser’s illness does not justify them abusing you.

For everyone that needs to hear this: there is nothing you could ever do that’s punishable by abuse, and there is NOTHING anyone could ever say to justify the abuse you experience(d).

ske-lee-ton-deactivated20170901

Your abuser’s age does not justify them abusing you.

theweirdwideweb

angel-macabre

“jealousy is so disgusting” “anger is so toxic” did u know? these are emotions every human has

cpt-glasses

I’ve always been a fan of an analogy I heard once. Your emotions are like one of the lights on your car’s dash. When one of them turns on, it means you need to check under the hood and fix them. It’s not bad that the light turned on, per se, and it doesn’t always mean something is broken. But what IS toxic, dangerous, and likely to break something, is when you let that light stay on, pretending it’s normal, until that braking fluid finally fails and you crash into someone, or your engine fails completely.

Feel jealous. Feel anger.

Just don’t let it fester. You need to look inside of yourself, find out why you’re feeling the way you are, and bring yourself to a satisfied, stable state of mind. You can look at philosophy, meditation/introspection, religion, or actual therapy, or at least talking to someone about it. You’ll find you’re much more content and happy when you do something about those feelings, and come to some sort of conclusion or resolution.

mistersaturn123

That is a wonderful way of looking at it, thankyou. Makes me feel better about myself when I DO feel that way.

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drunkvanity-deactivated20161113

shout out to the girls that hate their bodies but are trying really really hard to find the beauty and comfort in them because that shit is hard and takes a lot of time and is emotionally exhausting. i’m proud of y'all.