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the major realization I've made is that at the end of the day, it's not the efforts that you made really matter, instead it's that rank that would ultimately make a difference, stand you out and decide who you really are
NO??
Now, many of us have goals, weâre trying to achieve, but the person we are right now, is not the person that we need to be when we cross the finish line to our dreams, so we must hard work, and pace ourselves to this journey of our goals, because right now we havenât grown enough in ourselves, so fit the shoes that we need to achieve our aspirations.
Do not fear failure, but please be terrified of regrets as giving up is the birth of regrets, after we walk out of this school, we will receive a hundred doors shut and slammed in our face. Weâll have a hundred moments that will be filled with somebody telling you no, or somebody telling you, that thank you for your application but we regret to inform you that weâve chosen a different candidate for this job, youâll sit in 100 different interviews and you will still not get the job you want. The reality of life is that we will all hear more no's than we hear yes's. And we will fail a lot, I mean a whole lot but donât be afraid of no's, be afraid of the possibility of a yes that youâve prematurely destroyed because you decided to quit before the clock strikes 12. Life the happening outside this small box, to achieve your goals, you need to jump out of these comfort zones. Telling a no should add fuel to your fire, which is now set ablaze because of that single no you were told. Challenge yourself to work harder, to fight, to not stop here, and believe so heavily in your aspirations that you too would not fear the word ânoâ but instead, you would choose to welcome them.
Nobody is going to give that to you, no one is goin to tell you, hereâs an opportunity. Go make something of yourself. Youâre going to do that for you. Because people are only goin to try and take it away, and itâs so important for us to be able to empower each other.
MOVE TO THE CITY WITH ME I DON'T WANT TO BE ALONE @th3eve archive mb
Nobody gets anybody else, not really. We're all stuck inside ourselves.
Masculine and feminine are over. Its just The Urge now. The desire. The torment.
nostalgia is a liar. nothing was ever as good as you remember it to be. there's a reason you don't talk to that person anymore, there's a reason you're not part of each other's lives. don't trust nostalgia. grieve. reflect. move on.
2021
not exactly the year to get everything you want,
this is the year to appreciate everything you have.
when you know deep down you crave intimacy but tragically the very thought of it disgust you (probably as a defence mechanism for your debilitating fear of rejection and abandonment) so you are condemned to a life of recoiling whenever you catch yourself forming the attachment you secretly seek.
âEverything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end.â -John Lennon
yea maybe this is one of the few things that are both great and true, but our lives, stories, and perspectives are not alike; therefore, our ending should be different as well. Some sure might have the perfect endings but the other may not.
"can we all just agree to the fact that 2020 was much better? "
This year, it's either happening to your family or your friend's family or your next-door neighbor. People are dying. every minute. The reality is so grim. This year, we aren't looking for new recipes on YouTube or painting a masterpiece or cultivating a new hobby. All we are trying to do is survive this pandemic, we are just trying to stay alive, or help others stay alive.
This year, breathing is a luxury. Not many can afford it. This lockdown isn't like that lockdown, because the one thing that we had is lost now- HOPE.
But someone has said it right, sometimes the faintest sense of hope can light the way in our darkest moments. And when blackness settles in, that's when the nightlight's contrasting hues are at brightest.
We are all together on this, we'll get through this once and for all, we all are doing our best to make our lives better and to make other's life better too. Everything's gonna be fine, I promise.
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is it that easy to break a relationship in a second, when it took you months and years to put it up together? are all those inside jokes, those fun and dumb moments, those memories, those efforts, that smile, that bond, that care, was everything just a day thing?
welp yea maybe, but how can you not think all about all it before breaking up? was that so damn easy for you?
that's true nothing is forever, yea that whole concept is a lie, but isn't that just not fair? i mean once it was only that one personâs smile which literally meant the whole world to you, but yeah that also true that priorities change over time, but sometimes its not just the memories you're left with but with all those scars, that one person gave you, and that's when you realise "loosing them was a winning game"
When you say a sorry, it doesn't mean that you are wrong, it just means that you value the person and the relationship more then being right. Yoy have to choose, what do you want. being right? or love? And if you want love sometimes you have to say sorry even if you are right.
maybe or maybe not
Rainy nights, sleepy eyes, blurry thoughts
And why do I still think about you?
Cold nights, warm vibes, blue skies
And I still miss you.
I know we werenât happy,
But I still miss âusâ
I know you were not worth it,
But I still want you back.
Whether you there or not,
Things are just the same.
But maybe I still miss you,
Or maybe I just miss myself.
Yes I hate you,
Because thatâs what Iâm supposed to do.
I hate you for you fucked it,
And yes I hate you for you just ruined everything.
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Your ex is your ex for a reason
Breaking up is like knocking over a Coke machine. You canât do it in one push; you got to rock it back and forth a few times, and then it goes over.
We see it from time to time â couples get back together, even after a major break-up, and make it work. But much more often people get back together only to realise that the story ends the same way â a rehash of why they broke up in the first place.
Well, letâs be honest, if you were wiser, you wouldnât even entertain the thoughts of getting back with your ex. This fleeting feeling of nostalgia will pass. You donât need to get back with your ex â err, you should not get back with your ex.
You got together, gave it a try and it failed. Some people simply donât work together. You may still have feelings for this person, but it doesnât change the fact that you are not as compatible as you first imagined. If you let your ex go once, let him or her go forever.
If the relationship was toxic before the break-up then chances are the toxicity could increase on your return. He or she may think also that you are willing to deal with a certain level of toxicity and might not put any effort at all into purging the union of these toxic features and energies.
If you were the âother womanâ and you left the relationship, a return may cause you more emotional pain and suffering. It also sends the message that you do not know your worth, you are willing to accept anything, you don't mind being just the other woman, and even sometimes he will take it to mean that you love him more than you love yourself. Chances are, all he will do is to continue to give you all the âwhat leftâ. Save yourself, work on yourself, and you will attract a man who will give you the love you have been searching for.
Things don't always work out the way you planned or the way you wanted it to happen, and that's totally fine, you just need to accept it the way it turns out to be, we have to make it work the way it is, and also you donât need to hold it to yourself always, iss okay if it just comes out. Itâs okay if you lose someone, itâs okay to have bad days, you don't need to push yourself always, it's totally fine to take a break, maybe sometimes all you need is some good music, sleep and a lil time for yourself, a lil time to figure things out, or maybe just a lil time for making some major decisions.
â............ Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness...........â â Steve Maraboli
"..........if i love myself, i love you. If i love you, i love myself....."
âAlwaysâ is a promise! How can someone just break the promise?â
because sometimes people donât understand the promises theyâre making when they make them,
right, of course? But you keep the promise anyway, because love is keeping the promise anyway, and ins't that what true love is?
I donât have an answer, but if true love did exist, that was a pretty good definition of it.
Anger: as a Weapon, Brave or Reckless?
Scientists believe that the capacity for anger has been hardwired into the brain over millions of years of evolution. Anger can trigger the bodyâs fight or flight response, causing the adrenal glands to flood the body with stress hormones, preparing us for physical aggression. But whether we actually end up swearing or scowling or even punching someone depends on a second brain area, the prefrontal cortex, that is responsible for decision-making and reasoning. This puts our anger in context, reminds us to behave in socially acceptable ways and for most of us, most of the time, keeps our primal instincts in check.
It is true that anger can destroy a person, cause severe harm to your mental health, cause depression, alter your views, change the way you think, make you hate somebody and sometimes even risk your lives. When we feel angry, we tend to think more negatively and in a more prejudiced way about outsiders. Angry people tend to seek someone to blame. Anger can make us brave or reckless.
Anger always has a negative reputation when compared to positive emotions such as happiness, enthusiasm, love and hope. Many of us believe we would be better off without anger as an emotion. However, that's not very true, many psychologists, brain scientists, and mental health professionals have suggested that anger has it's own valuable qualities and can be beneficial to the human condition. Anger is not just aggressive reaction. When we loose our temper, our capacity to adapt the pain increases even more, we get through the worst. Yet, of course, extreme anger can be detrimental to our well-being.
I know most of you must be disagreeing with me right now, you might be having questions like, "anger causes stress" "anger causes anxiety" "anger causes depression" "how is it even beneficial" so let me tell you, anger can serve as a powerful motivator, it provides us a sense of control, it also energizes us, it motivates us to solve our problems, it makes us aware of injustice, anger improves our negotiating positions, it covers our painful feelings, makes us even more stronger and invulnerable. In a 2010 study, Dutch scientists showed volunteers pictures of objects such as pens and mugs on a computer screen interspersed with subliminal images of angry or neutral faces. When an angry face had flashed up first, people rated objects as more desirable and worked harder to win them in a subsequent game. Interestingly, the participants were not consciously aware of this motivation â they said they just liked the objects more. Science suggests there could be some benefits for the angry individual, if not for society at large.
"....... anger, like a fire, is a primal force, when left unchecked, it can be destructive, yet when managed and used wisely, it can be a beneficial and powerful instrument that leads to enlightenmentâŠ."
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