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Debating silently showing this to one of the flight attendants while boarding

I SHOWED IT TO MY FLIGHT ATTENDANT WHEN HE GAVE ME MY COOKIES AND HE LAUGHED SO HARD HE TOOK MY PHONE TO SHOW IT TO THE OTHER FLIGHT ATTENDANT

bippysaurus-rex

I don’t know how you got a good grade in being a passenger on an airline but that’s a totally normal thing to achieve and I’m not seething with jealousy at all.

abouquetofdaylillies-deactivate

Pre-menstrual depression is always depicted as like "He He! I had a box of icecream bars and cried while watching the Titanic!" But in reality, it's more like, "I'm standing the edge of an abyss. There is nothing good inside of me, I'm filled with rage and desperation."

It's crazy that being told how to deal with that is never a part of anyone's menstrual sex education.

headspace-hotel

This has already been said in the notes, but if PMS causes extreme depression and even suicidal ideation, that is in fact something that most people do not experience and it can be treated

Like for the majority it really is "oh i'm hungrier and moodier than usual"

^this should be a part of sex education so the point still stands

godesssiri

I went to my doctor after I was walking to work one morning and saw a bus coming and actually took a step to throw myself in front of it before I pulled myself together. Later that day I started bleeding and was literally like someone flipped a switch and I didn't feel suicidal anymore. Which made me feel like I was loosing my mind because who goes from 'I want to throw myself in front of a bus' to 'I'm perfectly fine' just like that? I did some research, I went to the doctor and described my feelings, he looked me in the eye and gently asked what I thought it was, I said I'd read about PMDD and I thought it might be that, he said 'I think so too' and wrote a prescription.

If, before you get your period, you feel furiously angry, suicidal, irritated by every tiny thing to the point you want to murder someone, stuck in a black hole you'll never escape from. If you are experiencing extreme emotions for what seems like no good reason, especially if you get your period and those extreme emotions just go away. You're probably not just PMSing , you may have PMS's feral big sister PMDD and it's treatable.

Also this is something that can develop as you get older. So if you used to get normal PMS but what I wrote above sounds more like your norm now then don't just write it off as regular PMS.

wordfather

being overstimulated on your period makes you really understand what its like to violently transform into a beast. everything HURTS and is TOO MUCH and i wanna TEAR EVERYONE APART with my TEETH

goqmir

setting up a tiny detail in one chapter to pay it off in the next few chapters feels sooo devious like oooh i can't wait to write the small little reference here that 70% of readers will miss but 30% of readers will cheer for

dialupmodern

it feels so good loading the gun when you're Chekhov

scumrunner

This happened on my dash

stealingpotatoes

the other day the vet referred to me as my cat's mum, as if he's my son and not literally my noble eunuch advisor and most trusted vassal smh

guerrillatech

sew-birb

My friend takes this one step further and refers completely accurately to his girlfriend Danielle as "My partner, Dan"

charismat1c-megafauna

Also i hate to say it but for some people, boyfriend/girlfriend feels a bit juvenile, say, if youre over 30, or perhaps youve been with someone for a very long time and are committed life partners but not married for whatever reason. Maybe husband/wife feels a little watered down to you and you want to establish the equal nature of your relationship.

Partner is a wonderful word and it should be normalized.

caitas-cooing

Also makes you sound like a cowboy which is cool I think

thefloralmenace

Fun side effect to this: Someone thought I was queer because I mentioned MY LAB PARTNER as "my partner." Are you gay? Are you a scientist? Do you just like the term partner? Are you a gay scientist who just likes the term partner? The world won't find out until a year later apparently.

allthebooksandcrannies

It's also shorter than "significant other" but can function the same. So you can use it for other people when you don't know if they're married or just dating, or if you're discussing multiple couples with varying marital statuses and/or genders.

Ex: "Everyone is welcome to bring their partner to the office holiday party"

7-inches-of-satanic-panic

sigh

wholesome-animal-images

basicmyth

EPILEPSY AWARENESS MONTH !!!!!

do not forget there are so many different types of seizures, some you can’t see. Shout out to those who suffer with non-epileptic seizures too!!

Be safe this November <3

#epilepsy #epilepsy awareness #disabilties #seizures #epileptic

write-on-world

#writing #writers on tumblr #writers #this feels accurate

importantcatpics

prokopetz

Concept: doing the thing where a specific, named fictional or folkloric beastie is reinterpreted as a species of monsters by the same name (e.g., "minotaurs", "medusas", etc.), except backwards, starting with popular generic fantasy beasties and reverse-engineering an "original" mythical figure they're notionally based on.

wizardshark

The first goblin was just some guy

kara-luthors

Morgana Pendragon in every episode: 4.12 The Sword in the Stone - Part 1

aroace-polyshow

honestly i never thought the phrase “i want that twink obliterated” was like a sexual thing. like when i read the phrase i imagine “a meteor like the one that killed the dinosaurs is summoned from the heavens and hits the twink in question” type situation