AceTalk

Mother of Dragons, Queen of Aces, Secretly a Holmes Welcome in my wordy jorney in the world

[acetalk]

Yesterday I went to pride in my city.

My boyfriend was with me, my friends were with me, it was not so hot, I wore my mask all the time and I never felt safer in a crowded place more in my life.

I was happy and proud, so much that I post pictures everywhere for everyone one to see.

And I saw flags that match mine everywhere.

But mostly lots of young people where there wearing ace/aro flags and I find this so important

Het it's not the norm

But love and sexual attraction isn't too

We are not broken, life its other than this things too

Be ace

Be happy

[acetalk]

This is the first week I feel like myself in a wile.

And for what I'm the most happy? The fuking horny hormones are gone.

I practically lived an entire month or more of every day aces crisis

Now I just want to sleep for a week

[acetalk]

The most ace thing I could do was buy a vibrator, used it one for the original propose and then used it ot my sore neck almost every night for a week.

[aceofsquiddles]

When you’re trying to figure out if someone could be ace or aro

Aspeculation

[asexuology]

There are no better puns. That’s it. The end of all puns.

[fanghusband-remade]

vampire that corrects all the historical inaccuracies on wikipedia

[zzinvolterra]

vampire that’s responsible for all the historical inaccuracies on wikipedia

[notgreengardens]

That's how they meet

[acetalk]

Been gay means that u never sit properly. Try to be gay, with a new piercing and having the anxiety that it will be rip off your body every time u don't move carefully...

[nerdygaymormon]

[acetalk]

I'm fuking crying coz I don't like Italian music if not like 3 band/singers? AND MY FAVOURITE ITALIAN ROCK BAND THAT IT'S SO FUCKIN GAY HAS WON THE FUCKIN 71 FESTIVAL OF SANREMO!

Today we made history

I have a new hope for my country

This is it, I write this down now

If we ll win eurovision I'll coming out to my wole family

[acetalk]

From like 11/12 to 14/15 I struggled with anorexia.

I was lucky that it never became that bad that was really a problem, but it still was there.

It's still there.

Around 13/14 I grow up a lot without gaining weight and I was able to overcome it.

Since then I grow up more. I was 1.40m tall at 13 weighting like 45kg? Now at 25 I'm tall little less than 1.70m and the last time I weighted myself was around 53kg. At 17/18 I was perfect. At 22 my boobs still grow and ruined everything.

I wear an xs most of the time, but I wear a 3c of bra so I have to wear an m or an l on top and an xs on bottom.

But in my mind I'm never and xs.

Every fuckin time I go shopping a take an m, thinking ill fit it? Maybe an l it's better.

And every fuckin time I have to come back for an xs.

My significant other wear an m. I know I'm smaller than him. I know I'm practically half of him. But still in my mind I see myself like that.

Been intollerant at everything it's not helping either way, coz my stomach it's always blow up.

I know I'll not starve myself to death, but there will be a day were I will see myself for my actual size??

[acetalk]

Here I am, having another aro ace crisis coz apparently I didn't realise how much cheesy I am with my significant other infront of other people. I know my behaviour changed in the last months but apparently I smile without noticing when I'm with him, how much I'm touchy and afectionaly. I hate this, this is not me but I will not change this.

I'm happy

I want to work to still be happy in a long time

[acetalk]

What about kissing with your eye closed? Like why you close your eyes wile kissing someone on the lips? What brings you more?

It really don't came natural to me closing them, and I like see the face of my significant other (that enjoy kissing way more than me), so please share your opinion with me!

[acetalk]

Always read lot of fan fiction , lot of NSFW fan fiction, but lately at the first hint of porn the caracher shift form them to me and my significant other and I'm nope not want to read this anymore.

Yet to figure it out what this means for me

[ace-thinks]

“Trying out sex” is not how you confirm or deny your asexuality. It might help you decide whether or not you enjoy sex. It might even help you decide which gender you prefer to have sex with.

But it will not, under any circumstances, confirm someone’s asexuality.

Because asexuality is not about whether or not you like sex. It’s about whether or not you experience sexual attraction.

Stop telling asexual people to “give it a try.” 

Stop questioning asexuals based on their sexual history or lack thereof.

You are missing the point.

[acetalk]

Today I became a mother, next step ruler of mandalor

[saschagemruler]

Can...... we normalize not wanting to be pregnant but still wanting kids.

I want kids.

I want to be a mom

This is a very strong desire I’ve had since I was very young.

I don’t want to be pregnant, for many reasons.

I’m non-binary and it’d be extremely dysphoric; the thought of having something inside my belly, growing, disgusts me; I’m ace and the thought of having sex is horrifying to me; even if I wasn’t ace, I’m terrified of having sex; there’d be no guarantee I’d be with an amab who WOULD or COULD impregnate me; and I don’t wanna deal with a baby or toddler, only a kid/teen.

I still want a kid. Badly.

Normalize THAT

also plz don’t derail and make it about not wanting kids, this is about wanting kids but not in the “you need a romantic and sexual partner to have one biologically”

[acetalk]

I don't really like kids, so I don't want them badly, but I can't live with the idea that there are children in need of a parent that I know I can be.

I hate the idea of a pregnancy, I know I'll be depressed af after delivery, I don't want to deal with an enfant, but give me a child that need cares and I'll give them the world

[acetalk]

I'm tired that my values in the society is determined by the colour of my hair.

My skills and knowledge should not be determined by my apparence.

In 2021 i still have to dye my hair in a natural colour if I want to find a job and this make me sick.

It make me sicker knowing I'll not live long enough to see this change in the world

[acetalk]

Oh My Valentine

It started as a joke and now i found myself gathering the ingredients for dumplings to make for Valentine's Day coz my significant other is a dick head but i still want to make something special for him.

I have a general despise for romantic things, i especially hate the cheesy red and pink decoration, but what i hate the most is that i can make dumplings every day of the year but this batch would be special just for this commercial festivity.

But feelings make you stupid so catch me this weekend using my Italian pasta machine for making perfectly thin Chinese dumplings.