ACE TED 🌹

call me ted • feel free to send an ask or an ace topic I should rant about! • I am NOT sex negative, sex repulsed and sex negative are different things. • safe space for sex repulsed aces!! • rants and keanu content! • and i reblog a lot hahaha

[acetedlogan]

INTRODUCING ME...

Hi, you can call me Ted!

As you can tell from this blog, I'm on the asexual/aromantic spectrum! More specifically with my micro labels, I am a primarily repulsed aceflux/aroflux individual. This means I feel fluidity in my sexual/romantic attraction but like... 87% (maybe less for romance) of the time I am NOT in for it, which is why I will typically just say I'm asexual or aroace.

I may post a lot about being sex repulsed, but this DOES NOT MEAN I don't support sex favourable or indifferent aces. I love all aroacespec, and this is a safe space for everyone! I personally write about sex repulsed experiences more frequently because they resonate with me.

AROACESPEC FOLK, SEND ME AN ASK IF YOU WANT ANYTHING FEATURED ON THE BLOG!

More about ME!!:

— she/her/any

— chinese-australian

— keanu reeves superfan!!

— kind of a writer(?)

— I love creative stuff like scrapbooking!

— huge geography nerd and flag nerd!

HOPE TO MEET NEW FRIENDS!!

[queerheadcanonsgalore]

theodore "ted" logan from bill and ted's excellent adventure is a sex-repulsed asexual !!

(headcanon by anon!)

[queerheadcanonsgalore]

theodore "ted" logan from bill and ted's excellent adventure is a sex-repulsed asexual !!

(headcanon by anon!)

[repulsed-confessions]

Why is being repulsed such a barricade to enjoying fandom

Literally 99% of fandom jokes involve characters being shipped, characters fucking each other, rule 34, or someone being impregnated.

I DON'T CARE. SHOW ME SOME FUNNY SHIT THAT DOESN'T CENTER ROMANCE OR SEX. THATS NOT THE ONLY HUMOUR TO EXIST.

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[aro-ace-culture-is]

Averse/repulsed aroace culture is not being able to filter the words "romance" or "sex" without filtering "aromantic" or "asexual"

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[your-fav-is-a-spec]

Can I get Neo from The Matrix (mainly a comfort headcanon for me lol) as sex repulsed asexual and Agent Smith from The Matrix as arospec (semi-canon as he mentions in a line that he doesnt care for or see love as a driving factor in his existence) :)

Neo from the Matrix is Sex-Repulsed Asexual

You'll have to submit Agent Smith separately because I have a rule against multiple characters in one submission with exceptions at my discretion (usually if characters are a pair, do not separate (tm), ex. Ingo and Emmet from Pokemon).

[iveeaten3humanorganz]

Being a repulsed aroace is barely engaging in fandom culture because it actually makes you sick.

It’s always about ships and it’s so fucking annoying. There’s no such thing as friendship. And the phew aroace or non romance focused things are suddenly all about romance and sex. I want to bang my head against a wall.

[janedoodlee]

what the fuck has to be wrong with people to not tag nsfw posts. what the fuck. literally just tag it. just one tag. "suggestive" "nsfw" "mdni" THAT WOULD BE ENOUGH!!!!!

SOME PEOPLE DON'T WANT TO SEE NSFW!!! SOME PEOPLE DON'T WANT TO SEE SOME RANDOM NAKED WOMAN!!! SOME PEOPLE DON'T WANNA SEE PORN!!!

AND IF YOU DON'T TAG YOUR SHIT, PEOPLE WILL SEE IT EVEN IF THEY DON'T FUCKING WANT TO!!!

LITERALLY JUST TAG IT!!! IT'S NOT THAT HARD!!!

[repulsed-confessions]

When the fandom conversation is about "gooning" and "if it exists then there's r34!!" and then you start seeing how people who claim to support LGBTQIA+ identities REALLY feel about asexual (especially repulsed) people

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[acetedlogan]

"of course I support LGBTQIA+ identities!"

*anything to do with rule 34 and smut in fandoms*

"yep! who even says they don't like sex? literally you were born for that! everyone, yes everyone, likes sex!"

Ohohoho I see your true colours ... 🤨

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

Some love to the gods strongest soldiers today (romance repulsed aromantics on Valentine’s Day)

[uccelletto-di-kokuyo]

I'm kindly asking that if someone says that they're sex repulsed or not interested in detailed sex content, that you please respect that.

Do not try to trick them into playing dirty or sex based games. Do not harass them about it. Do not "conveniently forget" each time you see them (this is not aimed at people who genuinely have shitty memories). Do not try to convince to just get over it. Do not leave your lingerie/sex gear on the fucking guest room door if they're staying over (that's also just generally rude). Do not make comments, especially snide ones, about them. Do not stare them down when they tell you they are sex repulsed.

Generally, just do not be cruel. Please. I'm begging. It's not going to hurt you to not have everything revolve around sex during the time you are around this person. If you have questions regarding their boundaries, ask them. Be conscious that not everyone will want to explain why they are sex repulsed.

If you really cannot stand to not have things revolve around sex during that time, maybe consider you and this person are not compatible as friends or maybe (especially if this is for a few hours or a couple days out of the year) that you may need to see a therapist/consider why this upsets you so much.

[moonprismpower456]

I wish there was a “Never show me sexual content ever” button that didn’t suck

[repulsed-confessions]

I hate how so many people act as if being asked to tag their kink posts properly is the equivalent of governments putting censorship on any LGBT+ content. Also as a romance repulsed person, I wish people tagged their romance posting too. No it's not "purity culture" if a romance repulsed person doesn't want to see your constant romance posting actually. And these people claim to not be aphobic, just because they "accept" (read: tolerate) aces and aros who can still feel some sexual and romantic attraction and/or can perform sex and romance at some level.

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[isuggestnotbeingabigot]

"puritan" and it's a sex repulsed asexual

"emotionally abusive" and it's an asexual who doesn't have sex with their partner

"fake" and it's a sex favorable asexual or an asexual who does have sex

"straight person trying to infiltrate queer spaces" and it's a straight alloromantic asexual

ace people can't really win huh

[repulsed-confessions]

I hate how often sex repulsed people are treated condescendingly.

Like why is it okay to refer to us as "THOSE people who can't HANDLE this stuff...", "if you're TOO SOFT", "those BABIES", "the ones who ALWAYS GET ANGRY", "the PURITANS", "the ones who're too WEAK to handle it...'.

Having a boundary does not make you weak or unworthy or a baby. It makes you fucking strong for being able to protect and stand up for yourself in the face of a world that hates when people say "no".

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[repulsed-confessions]

I actually HATE being sex repulsed on any social media. Video of slime or food? Everyone is making it sexual in the comments. An innocent tag? All porn and kink posts. A ship you like? Everything is smut. A fandom you're in? EVERYTHING IS SMUT. Open the comments sections of any video even mentioning asexuality or adjacent concepts? "but s–sex is HUMMMANNN and E–EVERYONE must LOOOOOOVE it!!!" Go in any comment section ever? Sexual or moaning usernames.

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[the-graphics-ace]

some stamps on sex repulsion | f2u, credit appreciated but not obligatory

please remember to stay kind in the comments and reblogs ♡