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FIREFLY 2002 – 2003・1x14 Objects In Space
MASH s04e24 - The Interview
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Hi, question about Bridgerton diversity vs. race-blindness and assimilation. While Bridgerton does have characters of color, there seems to be zero cultural blending, with the exception of Kate’s outfits getting more Indian once married. During a Wikipedia rabbit hole, I ended up on some pages related to the unbanning of Jews in England and was wondering your thoughts on differences/similarities/connections between the real world attitude of the time of “if we treat Jews nice(ish), they’ll convert” vs Bridgerton’s world of multiple races but only as Good Christian Englishmen. Sorry, there’s no one specific question in here, I just would love to hear more of your thoughts on how Bridgerton worldbuilding is like and unlike what actually happened. Plenty of fans seem to jump over to a rose colored glasses version of “oh everyone’s accepted! Kate serves Indian cuisine at parties and the ton likes it!” or just completely ignore the characters’ races/backgrounds and you have much more nuanced takes.
Here's the thing about Bridgerton race discourse: people want to treat this show like it's Hamilton when it's actually Ghostbusters (2016) -- the all-women reboot.
Hamilton is a deeply political work of art in which race-conscious casting is the foundation of its thesis: imagining the slave-owning Founding Fathers as relevant/relatable to black and brown US citizens too. That is a very controversial argument, which is why people all across the political spectrum reacted so strongly to it. You can absolutely disagree with Lin-Manuel Miranda's politics, but the liberal patriotism is sincere, deliberate, and wants the audience to engage with his take.
The Melissa McCarthy-Kate McKinnon Ghostbusters said: "Wheeeee! What if we did that fun adventure all over again but with only ladies this time????" It was paper dolls representation at its finest. Despite the hissing of some bottom-feeder misogynists, the plan was clearly: good vibes 4 girls -> box office profit.
The cultural blending on Bridgerton is surface-level because the entire show exists only on the surface. It is a frothy little cotton candy* fantasy that has nothing to do with historical England or colonized India and everything to do with wearing a tiara and a low-cut silk gown while a scowling dark-haired man eats you out to a violin cover of Pitbull.
*I'd say "fairy floss" like the Brits do but this show doesn't care about vocabulary either.
I am not Indian but I am also not white, and as a viewer of color, I firmly believe the inclusion of "accurate" historical attitudes regarding race would be a party foul. Bridgerton's storyworld is incoherent because its writing is inconsistent and its themes are trite, but relegating any touches of India to aesthetic seasoning is at least in keeping with its position as brainless entertainment, not documentary.
Honest exploration of the East India Company's rule in Bombay belongs on the BBC/PBS Masterpiece Theatre alongside Belle (2013) -- it ruins the swoony romance to remind viewers that the Bridgerton family fortune should have been partially earned from enslaved labor, that Kate's homeland was being strip-mined, conscripted, and brutalized in order to fatten Anthony's pockets, that her dead father's caste status should impact her decision to leave Bombay, that as viscountess she would have been treated horribly by the other ladies of the aristocracy, and that Kanthony's mixed-race children would be sneered at despite title and fortune.
Kate Sharma, the most beautiful woman in the world, exists so that we Anglophile ethnic girls with a white man fetish can finally have some relatable fucking fan service for a change. I promise we can get back to the Third Anglo-Maratha War tomorrow.
ooooh, so i somewhat agree and disagree on this! i think you're very right in calling out bridgerton for what it is, which is a silly fluffy fantasy of self-indulgence, which has very little actual thoughtful commentary on race per se; and also that a historically accurate version of bridgerton would not be rosy in the slightest bit and would puncture the fluffy fantasy presented. however, i think this is also very much the result of bridgerton itself not taking its own alternate history premise seriously: that charlotte being black and marrying into the royal family prompts the ennobling of a coterie of already wealthy non-white people in order to legitimise the marriage, and that this process eventually leads to the end of racism at least amongst the aristocratic ranks of society.
specifically pertaining to the sharmas: i think people refine too much on the colonialism angle of this and fail to actually consider the historical record on how colonialism played out in india between the 1600s - 1700s. the views which people ascribe to the english are more attributable to the portuguese at this specific time period. in 1761 (the year charlotte marries george) the english have had longer standing presidencies in bombay and madras, and the presidency established in calcutta is just 4 years old following the battle of plassey in 1757. i can't speak much to the history of madras, but the bombay presidency very much did have some level of racial mingling between rich merchants trading to the company and the EIC within society in the "fort" area of bombay. most of the colonial "occupation" at the time consisted heavily of a) trade and treaties for trade and b) playing off warring local rulers against each other to protect their investments. the relationship was very much one of mutual backscratching and exploitation of lower castes and classes in india, for economic gain.
is it so implausible or impossible to believe that a venal and wealthy indian upper class and caste would jump at the chance to ascend in further wealth and status in society by assimilating into the english aristocracy and buying up land in england as well as at home? they certainly did so when they had the chance in the victorian and edwardian era (wadias, jehangirs & tatas are the ones that come to immediate mind; as also the various kings & other upper caste folks who sent their sons abroad to england to be educated). is it so implausible that the indian upper castes and classes would sign up to colonialism and its plunder, if it gave them a chance to get ahead and further their own wealth? god knows they did and god knows they're the reason india even fell prey to british rule in the first place. is it so implausible to believe that kate's father - a sharma, a brahmin by caste - might participate in that plunder? that mary's family might have participated in that plunder? in that regard, there is very little to choose between a viscount anthony bridgerton, a lady sheffield, and even a clerk in the EIC (which is presumably what kate's father is), except for the degrees of wealth.
i guess, my question is: why do we find it difficult to believe that the elite of a nation might have chosen to plunder and exploit (and racialise!!!) their fellow countrymen and sell them out to a foreign invading power for a quick buck, then choose to assimilate for status?
in other words, i don't actually find a contradiction between bridgerton and historical accuracy as far as its indian cast, colonialism, race and assimilationist dynamics go. its pretty par for the course; and as a piece of historical fiction, i think it admirably does the job of saying something as much about the present as it does about this hypothetical past, bc lbr, what i am describing above is really just the state of india post "independence". its just that instead of needing to revolt in order to achieve equality for me but not for thee, the wealthy upper castes of india get to buy in and cash in fully nearly 200 years earlier; they get to have and eat their cake too. a lot of the indians who have the largest platforms and are most visibly vocal about insisting on the colonialism piece sans caste are largely blinded by this fact because of their own positionality - inevitably their own caste and class lmao.
anyway, i agree that it would not make good fodder for romcom material, because who really wants to hear a dark comedy story about two souls finding love and joining fortunes and investment portfolios so they can continue making mint off the plunder of a continent? no one wants to know the story behind the wealth; whether that wealth is held by a white person, or a non-white person.
where bridgerton's premise begins to falter for me is in two places: a) the sheer primacy and power the british monarchy holds in the year 1761 and the total absence of parliament (or parliament's willingness to follow the queen mother's guidance, in this case - is this a whig parliament? a tory parliament? were the jacobites crushed so thoroughly that we only have a reformer's parliament?); and b) the question of slavery and the black members of the aristocracy when the slave trade was abolished only in 1807 and slavery only in 1833, and therefore, there already was a very strong and ugly ideology of racialisation underpinning the trade (and the ownership of slaves: which most of the aristocracy owned, whether as workers on plantations, or else as pages or servants), though i suppose it doesn't take much for the wealthy to rationalise people of their own shared class being fundamentally different to those of a different class, especially when their social betters have taken the lead in insisting on this.
as a side note: i do find it interesting that so much of the conversation revolves around the question of colonialism or the absence of napoleon/the french and so little of it revolves around the question of slavery and the slave trade. the latter is a genuine lacunae historically in this series, especially given that its taking place at the zenith of the abolitionist movement in england - and one, presumably, at least a significant chunk of the aristocracy would have opinions on.
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I Defeated the Demon Lord but it Turns Out the Demon Army was Largely Unaffected and I Fell Victim to a Flawed Belief in Great Man Theory
I Executed The Demon Lord With One Flawless Strike And After A Brief Power Struggle The New Demon Government Is Substantially More Committed To The War Because Of Some Reason I Don't Know
I Successfully Overthrew The Demon Lord And Instituted Demon Democracy But They Voted For A Commie So The CIA Not Some Fantasy Equivalent The Actual CIA Who Have Known About Magic And Alternate Realms The Whole Damn Time But Won't Just Unisekai Me Launched A Counter Coup And That's When Things Really Went To Shit
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Alas - I did go, but they were already sold out and I had content myself with the snacking bacon
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now all the things you guys have told me about american high schools are starting to make sense
holy shit.
You're not really supposed to say it this way, because its considered crass, but here in the US children are culturally and legally considered essentially the property of their parents.
Note that its considered more crass to point this out than it is to treat children as property in the first place.
"this is unbecoming of me" is genuinely a useful thing to have in your mental toolbox
This is not a particularly original thought (I've probably made this exact post before myself) but one of the bleaker vast cultural gulfs out there is and likely shall remain the one between 'material children can understand and engage with' and 'material guardians and gatekeepers are comfortable thinking about their children engaging with'.
The beautiful but brief period where video stores just threw every animated movie in the same section and vast numbers of parents just assumed all cartoons were for kids was a little golden age in this regard. We need to come up with a new way to trick middle class helicopter parents into letting their 7-year-olds watch Watership Down again.
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I always think of the description I saw years ago: Self-imposed deadlines don't help me, because I know the person who set them, and they're full of shit.
Give yourself the treat before you start. I'm serious. And ideally during the task and afterwards too.
Executive dysfunction comes from a lack of available dopamine. Common advice is wrong. You need to provide your own dopamine before you can start. Otherwise you're trying to run your car on empty.
"But what if I still don't do it" well you already weren't getting it done anyway. Now you have a little treat. Try again later.
You deserve kindness and care even when you aren't being productive.
(Also read How to Keep House While Drowning by KC Davis)
I give my students a LOT of techniques for starting writing when it feels overwhelming or daunting, but one of them is exactly this: dopamine load BEFOREHAND. It may sound weird to people on tumblr dot com, but a lot of people seriously struggle with executive dysfunction when it comes to writing literally anything, to the extent that it can cause such symptoms as panic, depression, and AI chatbot use.
I usually suggest this technique as a "Reverse Pomodoro." In the original Pomodoro, you work for 25 minutes and then take a break for 5 minutes (the times vary, but that's the essential ratio). People with executive dysfunction often find this insurmountable, and they get even more frustrated, and then the task seems even more difficult. So instead, flip those times.
FIRST, spend 25 minutes doing something energizing and engaging that you like to do. Not scrolling social media passively, not watching tv, not napping. Try something like colouring, doing yoga, running/walking around the block, talking about your favourite tv show with someone in real time, playing with the dog or cat, making and eating a lovely sandwich, hula hooping, something active. Having a little treat absolutely falls in this category!
(on the subject of little treats: refusing yourself food until you do work is for fucking Puritans and you can be kinder to yourself)
Then, after 25 minutes (or however long it takes to eat the sandwich or finish the yoga routine, it doesn't have to be exact), spend 5 minutes writing (or doing whatever you're struggling to start). Most people can coax themselves into doing something they find difficult for five minutes, if they have already filled up the joy/energy/engagement bucket. You can put a timer on for the 5 minutes if you want, or if you find that annoying, just work for as long as you like.
The other key is: don't push yourself to keep going when you're frustrated or tired—that will just reinforce the negative belief that you already have, which tells you that this task is painful to do, and needs to be avoided. If you've commonly had to force yourself to do this kind of task, that's likely part of why you think of it as painful and have trouble starting it now. Also, you should just, at a basic level, try not to put yourself in pain for the sake of productivity. So just do it till the good feelings run out. Then start hula hooping or colouring again for another 25 minutes. When the tank's refilled, try another 5 minutes of work, if you can. Adjust times to taste.
Not every technique works for everyone, but I've seen this one work for many students who are genuinely and seriously disabled by executive dysfunction. And many people find themselves getting more and more excited and engaged in the "difficult" task—because the good feelings from the hula hooping carry over, and because they're suddenly able to do the task without feeling pain, and feel accomplishment without feeling pain.
Oh, she was so close to getting it. Like she could almost reach out and grasp the point…