the kind arobi

Ray ☽☾ they/he/bun/it+ | 19yo | venezuelan

[aromanticmina]

¡ WELCOME TO MY BLOG !

Hi! my name is Raylen (u can also call me ozzie), my pronouns are he/him, they/them,bun/buns and more (en español uso él/elle y zey/ae con terminación en -e)

♥ I'm a gnc genderfluid trans guy, polyam aromantic (+lovequeer and lovepunk) aplatonic and bisexual!

★ I am 19yo + latine, I know how to speak spanish (fluently) and english (b2/c1 level I think)

In this blog I'll mostly talk about: aromanticism,my interests,lgbt+ headcanons and queer stuff in general!

my interests: bnha,toh,saiki k,atla,omori,undertale,death note,rottmnt,hh/hb and many more!

☆ my tags: #raysaystuff , #ray is tmi-ing

notes! please don't drag me into discourse.

DNI: transphobe,transmed/truscum, terf/radfem,prolife,racist,ableist,aspec exclus,anti-neos/xenos, xenophobic ,anti-alterhuman/otherkin, pedo/(no)map,dsmp apologist,harry p*tter fan,nsfw blog,use slurs u can't reclaim,just don't follow me if ur a jerk ty very much.

》 check out my ao3 acc !!

[thescholars]

[asexualfitzroy]

The aromantic agenda is a good one.

Go and think about what kinds of relationships you want. Don't think about labels like romantic or platonic or sexual, think purely about what relationships would make you happiest.

When I realized I was aromantic, I was asked things like "Would you still date? Would you have a QPR? Will you ever kiss?"

But the aromantic community didn't ask that. Instead, they focused on "What do you want in a world where anything is possible?"

And I realized I want to be alone, surrounded by friends and family I love who are close enough, I can bring them fresh baked scones when I overbake.

They asked me "What do you want?" and the question was so broad, I could weigh labels in my hand like queerplatonic partner and nonpartnering and significant other. I could look at these and shrug and say, "What I want is to not worry about questions I don't care about." I could shelve these indefinitely. Maybe even forever. And just enjoy being myself.

The aromantic community celebrates exploration. Tells people asking if they are aromantic, "This is a personal decision. Your personal decision. If this label helps you, take it. If this community helps you, stay as long as you need. You don't have to be labelled anything, aromantic or otherwise, unless it would bring you comfort. You don't have to be anything you aren't."

It's a good community with good philosophies born from a unique experience, not rooted in missing out, but in being forced to consider what you want when you don't want what's expected.

[genderkoolaid]

you see there's nuance between the generic valentine's day hater (is single and distressed by this, unaware of what amatonormativity is, resents the holiday for making them confront their perceived lack of worth, spends the day miserable) and the enlightened valentine's day hater (probably arospec, knows what amatonormativity is, sees the holiday as an opportunity to raise awareness and community, spends the day in joyous defiance)

[yesornopolls]

Do you have plans for valentines day?

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Voting ended onFeb 19, 2025

[valtsv]

[critical-bug]

Valentines Day soon:

Aromantic Awareness Week soon:

[visterical]

arospec themed valentines. I'll take requests

AROSPEC ONLY DON'T TAG ASEXUAL (aroace okay ofc)

[northlight14]

Yo, happy Valentine’s Day to any aromantic’s feeling particularly isolated today. Y’all rock💚🌹

Plz remember that there are other forms of love worth celebrating. And for those of you who are loveless and don’t feel a connection to the idea of love, I hope you have an amazing day as well and are able to celebrate the things that are important to you

[aroxbetchio]

oh ur aro? name every arrow that exists

[aromanticmina]

amatonormativity day? WRONG, AROMANTIC BEAM

[aromanticmina]

returning to this blog to make the aro tag trend LET'S GO AROS LET'S GO

[willgrahamscock]

“they’re queerbait this, they’re not canon that” they’re whatever i want them to be on ao3 actually

[willgrahamscock]

they’re thrice divorced and pregnant, if you’re not a fucking coward. free yourself from canon

[willgrahamscock]

I’ve personally strayed so far from canon I no longer know if some details are from the source material or some multi chapter mind fuck porn I read at 4am

[willgrahamscock]

It’s okay paulmccartneyprostateorgasm I agree

[habken]

teacher deku doodles <3

[hemipenal-system]

thank your local trans girl for being alive right now

[hemipenal-system]

good job soldier. now turn around and thank your local trans boy for being alive right now

[hemipenal-system]

ok now turn to your nearest nonbinary person and thank them for being alive right now too

[gender-snatched]

You could not make me immortal because even if I faked my own death and left I would not be able to stop using ao3. Ao3 going back 100 years with 5k fics or something

[marlinspirkhall]

People would accuse you of backposting your fics to seem cool and mysterious but then someone points out there are comments on there which are dated from long-deactivated accounts 100 years ago and it's a whole thing

[gender-snatched]

I would have to be like "yeah it's a thing where I inherited this account from someone dead and he had a whole thing about passing the account on"

[marlinspirkhall]

So the fannish-next-of-kin feature was really just devised to disguise the existence of vampires.

[somestorythoughts]

It's a multipurpose tool.

[dragons-locator]

You could not make me immortal because even if I faked my own death and left I would not be able to stop using ao3. Ao3 going back 100 years with 5k fics or something

dragons

DRAGONS LOCATED

[habken]

deku doodles!! 💚

[what-even-is-thiss]

You ever watch a couple argue and realize that literally all of their problems would be solved if they just actually talked to each other

[what-even-is-thiss]

I’ve witnessed a few explosive couple arguments in my time and most of them have involved both parties sucking big time at saying words to each other on the regular

[what-even-is-thiss]

Talk to your partner. And let them know that they need to talk to you too. Let them know that you don’t like touching garbage. Because if you don’t let them know and discuss the details of what that means they’re gonna start wondering why you never take out the trash when it’s your turn and you’re gonna wonder why they keep expecting you to do that when you don’t like touching garbage and then one day it’s all gonna boil over and you’re gonna have an explosive argument about trash day in front of your friends at potluck night as they awkwardly sip their drinks and wait for you to be done yelling