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âhow would other people describe youâ why would i know this
Having a traumatic childhood means you cannot talk even objectively about your basic foundational experiences without it being "venting", even if you're not actually venting. You just straight up have a huge chunk of your life you can't talk about, full stop, without it being trauma dumping.
And it not being socially acceptable to talk about your own childhood is super alienating. Sometimes people want to know why, and any answer you can give them is going to be off putting.
It's to the point I get irritated when something I said is framed as venting when I'm literally just talking about my life experiences, doing my best to keep emotion out of it.
when I was in high school, I overheard two older students talking about a friend of theirs.
One of them said something like, "it doesn't bother me that [Friend] was in residential mental health treatment, I just wish they wouldn't talk about it ALL the time".
The other replied, "Well, that was all of last year for them. So when they say 'when I was in treatment,' it's like when you say 'last year'."
I try to remember that any time someone says something that sounds Shocking to me. sometimes one person's scary special crisis is another person's last year.
If you want to be accepting of mental illness, you need to accept the fact that some people's everyday lives are going to be terrifying to you. That doesn't mean they don't get to talk about it. Stop forcing hurt, isolated people to become even MORE hurt and isolated because you can't fathom toughening up a bit.
Fucking literally though, there are entire portions of my life that I can't talk about to friends and other people cause it just makes everyone uncomfortable, it pushes people away and makes them stop talking to us, theres a number of people that have been in our life that aren't anymore because we opened up and told them about some of our childhood experiences, we know it's not "normal" but it was for us, a normal part of friendship and connecting with people is to open up and talk about your lived experiences, but when you've been through trauma, and have had close calls with death you aren't allowed to do that, and boy does it make you feel like a social outcast
Two-Spirit
Two-Spirit is a term created by Indigenous peoples of North America in 1990 to bring together the diverse gender identities and sexualities that exist within their cultures.
It is not a single gender. Each nation has its own traditions, names, and ways of understanding these experiences.
For many communities, Two-Spirit people held important social, cultural, and spiritual roles before European colonization.
The term should not be used by non-Indigenous people, as it is specifically connected to the cultures and experiences of the Indigenous peoples of North America.
Irawhiti (MÄori)
Irawhiti is a MÄori-language term used by some people to describe transgender or gender-diverse experiences.
The term is part of the contemporary revitalization of MÄori language and culture, allowing Indigenous people to describe their identities through their own cultural frameworks.
Although it may be translated as "transgender" in some contexts, Irawhiti carries meanings connected to MÄori cultural realities and should not be understood simply as a copy of Western gender categories. ( Flag design by IrauĂ on Tumblr. ) @irawhiti
takatÄpui (MÄori)
TakatÄpui is a MÄori term used by Indigenous LGBTQIA+ people in New Zealand.
Historically, the word referred to an intimate relationship between people of the same sex.
Today, many MÄori people use the term to express both their Indigenous identity and their gender or sexual diversity.
More than a specific sexual orientation or gender identity, TakatÄpui connects a person to their culture, ancestry, and community.
The term is part of the MÄori cultural revitalization movement and demonstrates that gender and sexual diversity can be understood through Indigenous perspectives, not only through Western categories. ( Flag design by IrauĂ on Tumblr. ) @irawhiti
MÄhĹŤ (Kanaka MaĹli)
MÄhĹŤ is a traditional Hawaiian cultural identity associated with people who embody both masculine and feminine qualities.
Historically, mÄhĹŤ people held important roles as educators, keepers of knowledge, healers, and transmitters of cultural traditions.
The arrival of colonization and Christian missions attempted to erase these identities, but many Native Hawaiians continue to preserve and revitalize the mÄhĹŤ identity today.
MÄhĹŤ is not simply the Hawaiian equivalent of "transgender" or "nonbinary." It is a distinct cultural identity deeply connected to Hawaiian history, culture, and spirituality.
Tibira/ Tybyra
Tibira is a historical figure documented during the colonial period.
According to interpretations by Indigenous researchers and collectives, Tibira may be understood as a man who had relationships with other men, or as a person who lived with a feminine gender identity or expression, challenging the norms imposed by colonizers.
Their story is remembered as an example that gender and sexual diversity already existed among Indigenous peoples long before colonization. ( Made by me )
Ăacoaimbeguira
Accounts of the Tupinambå people mention the çacoaimbeguiras.
According to interpretations by Indigenous researchers and collectives, they may be understood as women who had relationships with other women, or as people who lived with a masculine gender identity or expression outside the norms imposed by colonization.
Their existence shows that diverse ways of experiencing gender and sexuality were already part of Indigenous societies long before the imposition of European models. ( Made by me )
"I love you , I'm glad we're friends"
i donât understand how anything works i just walk through life terrified
okay i made another quiz but this time itâs which monster youâll get to hook up with. reblog with your result!!
is it just me or did the second question have anybody else like
lmao the whiplash
also giant sea monster
Uh.. Mummy?
Thatâs honestly a new one for me
I got vampire, which tracks because Iâve never been beating the allegations of wanting to be a blood doll.
I got sea monster
You wouldnât think that flamingoes are extremophiles just from looking at them. Itâs like somebody tried to build the vertebrate equivalent of that fungus that lives inside nuclear reactors, and ended up with a gangly pink dinosaur with a spoon for a face.
For everyone in the comments asking how flamingos are extremophiles:
Flamingos can survive in low oxygen, high altitude, high temperatures, low temperatures, high alkaline, they can and will drink boiling water and they can be completely frozen at night and still get up the next morning
Donât fuck with flamingos
âŚ.. Didnât know most of that
Huh⌠so thatâs why zoos donât put them somewhere warm during winter.
Oh yeah, this leaves out what I *did* know about themâthey can also survive hypersalinity. That is, water so salty it kills practically everything elseâwater so salty it burns your skin.
American flamingos just drink that shit
(animal death) this is a real undoctored photograph (*though the body was stood up for the shot) of a dead flamingo on the surface of lake natron, a lake so salty and so alkaline that itâs naturally carbonated like soda and would eat through your stomach lining if you drank from it.
When this photo went viral years ago, most people assumed this poor flamingo must have been killed by the lake.
It is actually the lake where 75% of its global population are hatched. This is a photo from the same lake:
man sometimes friendship really is just "I saw this and knew it would give you psychic damage. please respond with agony" and then they do. and it's great
LOVE AND PEACE FOR IT/ITS PRONOUNS
saying something you know will make people laugh. And they do laugh.
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Hey all, while we're busy normalizing women with hairy legs, hairy armpits and bushy pubes, let's also normalize women with hairy upper lips, hairy chins, hairy side burns, hairy chests, and all the other places where women are supposedly magically hair-free.
HEARTBREAKING: friends who i should be going to the movies and playing dnd and watching anime and cosplaying and going to the mall and having sleepovers and exploring the woods with live one hundred trillion miles away
Accepting identities I don't understand is actually extremely easy because I just go "this isn't about me" and move on with my life unbothered by someone else's identity, it's truly that simple.
i heard someone say once, âyou donât need to speak French to acknowledge that itâs a language that existsâ. and i feel like more ppl need to keep that in mind when they come across something they donât understand.
this disability pride month lets be kinder to folks with moral ocd . no more âif you really care about this minority , youâll reblog this postâ , âsomeone will die if you donât reblog thisâ , etc etc , and all other kinds of guilt tripping reblog bait . at the VERY LEAST tag your reblog bait so we can filter it out and avoid unnecessary spirals . itâs 2026 , we need to move past using guilt to get engagement .
half asleep in a sunbeam and the sun suddenly shifted directly to my General Dick Area
(talking to a crowd of people large enough to fill a very big sports stadium) hi everybody. sunbeam on my p(crowd erupts into thunderous applause startling me so bad that I run into a wall and die)
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Belated MerMay art, because I literally just finished coloring the gal on the right even though I drew and inked her before our trip, back in May. Still kind of feeling meh about the pale wash colors on the Narwhalmaid. Maybe she deserved something brighter/stronger in treatment.