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21. Blog for whatever, mostly venting about BPD and Social Anxiety Disorder, with a bit of shitposting sprinkled in.

[gothamgeek-86-deactivated202101]

[parentless-suggestions]

Your kid shouldn’t be relieved to know you’re not home. Your kid shouldn’t have to double lock all of their stuff up because they’re scared you might go through it. Your kid shouldn’t have to think “Here comes the screaming” or brace themselves for the worse because you’re angry or stressed. Your kid shouldn’t have a genuine fear of you even being close to touching them. Your kid shouldn’t be afraid of you; your kid shouldn’t be afraid of the thought of you.

[furiousgoldfish]

abusive parents in private: just look at yourself, you'll never fucking amount to anything, do you think someone will want you like that? Do you think you'll ever be successful? You need to start living in the real world, you're a fucking failure and pathetic waste of space, ungrateful little monster, you should be beaten and forced to work for us every single day of your life, we've been too easy on you, should have abused you more.

abusive parents in front of relatives and guests: oh, we worry about that child so much! we do what we can but we're still concerned- /continue talking about the child like they know what they're going thru and identify outer factors as the cause for child's stress and pain(just look what a lovely worried parents we are, it's obvious from our act we can never be responsible for the obvious trauma symptoms on this kid right?)

[hellokittyismyspiritanimal]

Listen.

It’s not okay to have your child be scared of you. That isn’t respect. That’s control. 

It’s not okay to have your child obey you at all times in order for you to love them. That isn’t high standards. That’s manipulation.

It’s not okay to force your child become what you wanted to become. That isn’t wanting the best for them. That’s living vicariously through them.

It’s not okay to take away your child’s basic needs as a punishment. That isn’t teaching them. That’s hindering them. 

It’s not okay to dictate your child’s sexuality or gender. That isn’t normalizing them. That’s repressing them.

It’s not okay to berate your child’s appearance or intelligence for being what you think is sub-par. That isn’t toughening them. That’s bullying them.

It’s not okay to take out your stress on your child. That isn’t parenting. That is abusing.

It’s completely okay to distance yourself from your parents. That’s not unloving. That, sometimes, is self care.

[iamfinallybreakingfree]

Me: *exists*

My parents: you are doing it wrong

[hashtagparksandrec]

[a-splash-of-the-sun]

i knew the punchline was coming and it was still hilarious 

[executiveoutcomes-deactivated20]

Some nurses be on tumblr like *smug story about medical malpractice* 

[methotrex8]

*commits HIPAA violation in order to make fun of the patient*

[lesbostomping]

fun fact: research on people with violent tendencies show that aggressive and abusive young men very often grow up to become cops, while female bullies tend to choose a more innocent looking career path while still getting a position of power over weak and helpless people - yep, they become nurses.

[paper-mario-wiki]

[bgm05]

A site demonstrating anime faces generated by StyleGAN neural networks

you know that website that makes AI generated photos of people? well now there’s a version that makes anime girls

[delmondo]

[domhnall-of-zena]

[dashaibo]

[such-justice-wow]

Her hand!

[mister-christmas]

Her neck! You created an abomination, an affront to god.

Mine looks pretty normal, blue hair not withstanding

[such-justice-wow]

Found these beauties

[coming-like-a-ghost-town]

Yes but have you seen this??

[such-justice-wow]

Shes just a little different

[eyelessdraconia]

like if the girl on the left is just as beautiful as the girl on the right

[archivedtdp-deactivated20240111]

Okay, but this could be super cool for roleplays. If only there was a husbando version. SMH. 

[servals-dank-meme-machine]

Mine has a scar. I feel I got a besto here.

[the-magnificent-otaku-taco-chan]

Squad

[danidorito]

I have best girl

[jigokuhana]

two of my favorites…

…and this beauty XD

[fatsoxmainewildlifeblog]

Wonder what they think of us? When I see them only peace comes to mind! So simple yet so connecting……why can’t we just get along? Thank you Jesus!

[ruinedchildhood]

[neurodivergentaf]

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

Please reblog, this is so important.

[notoriousthuggg]

I needed this

[amuseinherfeels]

Is this foreal?

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

Yes it’s a real service. I do volunteer work for a rape crisis support service in my city and texting is one of the features we provide as well. But just to boost its credibility, I tried it myself:

[thatdiva]

reblog to save lives!

[espressokisses]

You can also text “Steve” to 741741 if you’re a young person of color. The website for more info is stevefund.org

My understanding is that it’s more multicultural and some folks feel more comfy with that in mind!

[miseducatedmelanicmuse]

^^^^^THIS

[nikator]

get help guys, please. if you’re hurting, don’t let that hurt consume you. seek help.

[politicalprof]

I never knew this. It’s spectacular.

[radioactive-egg-survivor]

THIS is what I was looking for a few weeks ago when I was in crisis; reblog to save a life!

[parentless-suggestions]

’Your mental illness ruined this family’??? Fuck you. Your emotionally abusive family CAUSED my mental illness.

[howlsnteeth]

what god did this to me

[howlsnteeth]

[howlsnteeth]

comm for @starpunkfox! very very cool monster design >:3 please no kin/me tags as this is their oc, cheers!