Nothing Ends

32-year-old woman. Ex-trans. Trying to get better. Was on T for about 8 years. Identified as male for almost 20. I am done. LGB Ally. There are no happy endings, because nothing ends.

[butterflyfault]

There are no happy endings, because nothing ends. Because it's never too late to start over. _________________ About Me 🦋 Feminism Tenets of Radical Feminism Radfem 101 Masterpost of Masterposts The Misogyny of Making Women Kind Terminology and Acronym Guide Radfems of Color Why Radical Feminism Cannot Center Men Who Identify as Women Why Feminism is Not Depressing Detransition Detransition Statistics Post-Trans Detransition Needs Study Micro Starter Guide for Combating Dysphoria (female-centric) What Helped Me With Body Acceptance (more gender-neutral; scroll to latest thread reply) More Dysphoria Recovery Tips (female-centric) Accurate Detransition Statistics are Unknown Cults The BITE Model Transgenderism vs Religion Chart Recruitment methods and impacts of cults and ‘organised fringe groups’ (LGB Alliance) On Discouraging Questions Dispensing of Existence Gender Ideology Trans Ideology Primer History of Transgenderism and its Origins in Sterilizing Gay People On the Social and Medical Acceptance of Lobotomies What are Trans Rights? Trans People Had All of Their "Rights" Before Gay People Did Transition Increases Suicide Rates Stonewall Summary Summary of Gender Identity Ideology as a Cult (Cult Education Institute Framework) Exceptions to Self-ID Trans Phobia Indoctrination Dysphoria vs Other Socially Contagious Mental Issues "AFAB Transfem" FTM Harm Statistics Gender Ideology Fallacies and Cult Behaviors Quicklist

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[missmentelle]

What abusers believe.

If you’ve ever had to deal with an abusive person in your life - like an abusive parent or partner - you’ve probably wondered what made them treat you that way. If you understand why abuse is happening, the thinking goes, you might be able to figure out how to make it stop. 

So why do abusers do what they do? Do they have anger issues? Drinking problems? Past trauma? Personality disorders? Do they just need to get in touch with their feelings and learn how to communicate better?

Nope. 

Abusive behaviours come from abusive beliefs. Abusers - whether consciously or unconsciously - hold specific beliefs about relationships that drive their behaviour and allow them to justify the horrible things they do. Even if your abuser has never put their beliefs into words, you’ll probably recognize a lot of these abusive beliefs:

You are responsible for my emotions. It is never my responsibility to reflect on my emotional reactions or learn better coping skills - it’s your responsibility to stop doing things that make me angry or upset.

I must act on my emotions. If I am angry, I am going to lash out. You have no right to criticize me for that, and it’s not my responsibility to learn to manage my  emotions - you have to stop making me lash out at you. Asking me not to act on my emotions is controlling and wrong.

You will always be responsible for my emotions. Even if the relationship ends, you will continue to be responsible for my emotions, and I will expect you to continue to prioritize my feelings.

If I have feelings about something, it’s my business. If something you do or think causes an emotional reaction in me, then I have a right to get involved or tell you what to do. My feelings must be the priority. You don’t have the right to tell me that it’s none of my business. 

You must judge me on my intentions, not my actions. If I didn’t mean to hurt you or scare you, then you don’t have the right to be hurt or scared. No one has the right to try to hold me accountable unless I meant to hurt someone.

I get to decide what your intentions were. If you hurt me, you meant to hurt me. If you make me jealous, you meant to make me jealous. Nothing you do is ever accidental or unintended - everything you do is intentional and malicious, even if it was a response to something I did.

My feelings are genuine; your feelings are manipulation. If I’m upset, my feelings are real and important. If you are upset, you have an ulterior motive - you’re just trying to be manipulative and get attention or sympathy for yourself.

You have freedoms because I allow you to. Every freedom you have in your life - like wearing what you want - it’s because I generously allow it. I expect you to be grateful to me for that. I have the right to take those freedoms away whenever I want, and I expect you to obey.

If you set boundaries with me, you are mistreating me. If you really loved me, you wouldn’t set boundaries with me. You are doing this to intentionally hurt me, which means I don’t have to respect those boundaries.

You holding me accountable for hurting you is worse than me hurting you. My pain at being called out is worse than your pain at being mistreated. If I feel bad about something I did, I have already been punished enough. You trying to discuss the issue or hold me accountable is just your way of abusing me.

If I apologized for something, you have to forgive me. If the relationship has ended, you have to reconcile with me. You don’t get to ask for more time apart or more discussion of the issue - once I’ve apologized, the matter is closed for good.

The relationship is not over until I say it is over. So long as I want a relationship with you, you must have a relationship with me. Your feelings are irrelevant. Even if we have broken up, you must remain available to me so we can get back together in the future. Not wanting a relationship with me means you are mistreating me or being immature. 

I am the authority in this relationship. I am smarter and more perceptive than you. I know what is best for both of us. My version of events is always the correct one. I have superior judgement, taste and opinions. If you question me or disagree with me after I’ve given you the correct answer, you are disrespecting and mistreating me, or you are simply immature and incapable of knowing what’s good for you.

I have the right to control you. It is my absolute right to decide what you do and who you associate with. You have no right to disobey me. I am owed obedience and control; if you don’t give me those things, you are wronging me and cheating me out of the relationship I deserve. 

If you resist my control, I am allowed to do whatever I think is necessary to get it back. Once you’ve resisted me, I am justified in whatever I do to regain control of you. I am not responsible for my actions when you resist my control; you forced me to do it, and it’s your own fault. 

I should be your main focus. Everything else in your life comes secondary to me. When you make decisions, my feelings should be your first consideration. You are expected to make sacrifices for me and put me at the center of your life; I am not obligated to do the same for you. 

If I spend money on you or do something for you, you are in debt to me. You spending money on me or doing things for me does not erase your debt to me, and I am never in debt to you. You are indebted to me for as long as I decide. I may decide that your belongings and earnings also belong to me, since I allow you to have them. I may also decide at any time that you owe me for gifts I gave you, even if they were meant to be gifts.

I am not abusive, and you are not allowed to tell me otherwise. I know what abuse is, and real abusers are significantly worse than me. If our relationship has ever had any good times or positive moments, it can’t possibly be abusive. If you accuse me of being abusive, you are the one abusing me, or you have been led astray by bad influences. 

Relationships should be effortless (for me). I am owed a relationship that is peaceful and requires no real effort from me. It is your job to make sure we have that kind of relationship. If there is any tension or conflict in the relationship, it is your fault, and you are depriving me of the relationship I deserve to have. 

Abusers and victims alike often buy into the narrative that abuse is rooted in anger issues - after all, abusers are frequently angry, and anger is an issue that can be treated. But this narrative just isn’t true. Abusers aren’t abusive because they are angry. Abusers are angry because they are abusive. 

A non-abusive partner is not someone who has learned how to control their rage whenever you spend time with your friends or get home 15 minutes late from work. A non-abusive partner just doesn’t feel any rage in those situations. An abuser’s rage is firmly rooted in their beliefs about relationships - they feel entitled to a relationship that meets their impossible expectations, and when they inevitably don’t get it, they bubble over with fury. Whether they know it or not, they have firmly entrenched beliefs about how relationships should be, and those beliefs are at the heart of their abuse. 

Can abusers stop believing these things? Maybe. If they can acknowledge that they have these beliefs, accept that these beliefs are dangerous and unreasonable and let go of these beliefs, maybe it’s possible for them to no longer be abusive in the future. Maybe. But it’s not your job to hang around and find out. If you’re in an abusive relationship of any kind, you deserve better. There are many people in this world who don’t hold abusive views of relationships, and you deserve to find happiness with them. 

[hyeenagurrl]

you should be morally outraged whenever someone says you need to respect a rapists pronouns tbh

[femsolid]

Every woman, of course, wishes to believe that the man in her life is an exceptional man, a man in a million, and that therefore she is the exceptional woman. But the odds are 99.9 to 0.1 against her (and .1 is probably a high estimate), because almost no man, no matter how gentle, no matter how liberal, could bear to reject the innumerable privileges (operant in very subtle as well as blatant ways in every sphere of his life) of being male, even if it were possible. A friend once wrote to me, "For me, the bottom line now with men is that any man (my brother, too, whom I love dearly) will sell me out if it's a choice between me and patriarchy, me and his male privilege."

- Sonia Johnson

Women feel that, without men, we will be alone and further isolated. We will have no one. We do not see relations with other women as an alternative. Without men, life isn’t worth living. This reveals the extent to which women experience our selves through men’s eyes. The more lost women feel without men, the more we have defined ourselves through our relationships with men and in relation to men.

Having most members of any oppressed group live one-on-one with their oppressors is probably the strongest possible arrangement for ensuring continued psychological enslavement. Whether the adult male is father or husband, the effect is the same: the woman is isolated from other women.

- Dee L. R. Graham

Men are thinking, writing, and creating, because women are pouring their energy into those men; women are not creating culture because they are occupied with love.

- Shulamith Firestone

Heterosexuality stands out as one of the last bastions of patriarchy where the notion of individual choice remains thoroughly unexamined. This leads to curious scenarios such as the phenomenon of feminists who might be critical of the notion of ‘choice’ and ‘agency’ in relation to oppressive systems such as pornography and prostitution, posting pictures of themselves in wedding dresses on social media, and defending their ‘choices’ as a purely private affair.

- Julia Long

Feminism is stifled by women with shifting priorities based on necessary compromises with the men in their lives. This will always create a burden for the woman to choose between her politics and the oppressor class she has an intimate connection to.

- Sustainable Separatist

Women’s magazines place young women’s ability to establish and maintain heterosexual dating relationships at the centre of women’s identities. Rhetoric surrounding the achievement of ‘wedded bliss’ and finding ‘Mr Right’ abounds, with men the ultimate source of ‘women’s fulfilment’.

- Kate Farhall

The whole world wants you to partner up with a man; the handful of us who want liberation don’t threaten your little domestic dream beyond asking you to self-reflect a bit and ponder your priorities. We’re not witches, and we’re not the monster under your bed either. We’re women alive leading fulfilling lives, and we’d love it if more women got to experience it. There’s no non-misogynistic man. Some do a good job of fooling the women around them, but none of them isn’t complicit in women’s oppression. Why do you feel such a need to put your life and your freedom in a man’s hand? Can’t you do things yourself instead of waiting for someone else’s input? At the end of the day it’s not about your feelings. It’s about doing something so things change instead of just waiting passively for men to deign to give us a few rights, it’s about women’s liberation. And that might very well be something you are not interested in, which is your prerogative, but it’s not my case.

- Floatingbook

The most exhilarating experience of my newly-divorced life was the discovery that I could be whole and happy without a man; that the fierce brainwashing to the contrary, which I’d sustained all my life, was not only composed of lies from start to finish, but was a total reversal of the truth: it’s not women who need men, but men who need women.

- Sonia Johnson

I don’t think we need to argue or defend female separatism. We just have to build it. Women who are able to speak against it obviously see no benefit in joining, so they can stay as they are. But they can’t control what we do. They can go on and on about how absolutely dreadful it would be, while we’re already building our houses and planting our gardens and having immense joy at the freedom and life. Separatism proves its points by existing and showing what it really is. Don’t waste energy telling people how stupid they are for fighting you about it, come learn all about berries and sustainable permaculture with us.

- Balkan Radfem

Friends and enemies will be clearly lined up, and the friends will be real friends and the enemies unable to hide behind phony benevolence — nor will we have to toady to them. An end to this constant remaking of ourselves according to what the male ego demands! Let us be ourselves and good riddance to those who are then repulsed by us!

- Dana Densmore

[femsolid]

Every single woman raped or abused or murdered by her intimate partner thought she was picking a good one, or at least that she could fix him. Change him. Every. Single. One. What makes you better than her? Smarter than her? Do you think she was stupid? What makes you think you are different? Do you think she just wasn't trying hard enough? That she didn't love him enough? Is your reasoning #NotAllMen?

-- drachenstochter

I see now how empty and pointless my relationships with men have been, and how they were just distractions from fulfilling my potential and creating real connections with other women. I often think of a time when a really kind female coworker bought me a coffee on a break and seemed interested in getting to know me, and all I could think about was seeing my idiot boyfriend (who would later abuse me and cheat on me multiple times.) So many wasted opportunities for something potentially more pure, substantial, with truly good motivations behind it.

Now I'm on the other side of this - longing for connections with women, but finding that all they're interested in is centering the men in their lives. If they hang out with you it's only when they've had a breakup, their man is busy or they're having relationship problems. They only want to talk about their relationship drama, using you as a counsellor. Often they don't even ask how 𝘺𝘰𝘶'𝘳𝘦 doing. And then when things are going well between them they become completely unavailable. In short, spending time with women who still date men makes me feel used.

-- thesolitarygoblin

[beware-the-water]

really tired of men making fun of women for saying “i’m fine” when they are clearly upset

cause i bet you most of the time they are upset it’s bc of something that is so obvious that it’s insane to her that you don’t recognize what is wrong

i also bet she’s saying she’s fine because trying to bring up any issue to u is like pulling fucking teeth cause yall make fun of women for tryna discuss issues in the first place and joke about it among ur male peers

[meepertonton]

The other thing is, they frequently know what they did to make her mad. What they do sometimes is give a shit test. They wanna see if she has the guts and/or mental clarity to pinpoint what's wrong and then express it. And if not, he knows he can push that button again.

This is where gaslighting comes in too-- if she can tell him what's wrong and sufficiently describe it. but can't remember the evidence to back her claim perfectly, he's still off the hook and she will start to disbelieve her own eyes.

[newlyy]

Also good advice for TRAs who like to claim that no one is saying lesbians *have* to date trans women. Make a post saying “lesbians don’t have to date trans women.” See what happens.

[deputy-shayy]

Exactly. I’m getting so sick of these lying fucks trying to gaslight us.

[river-grunfeld]

do you know of any resources for finding radfem/detransition circles/conferences irl? i don’t have the resources or the safety to form one myself but i’d really like to find people out there in real life who share my opinions and experiences. i tried looking online but all the info is either conservative/turning point bullshit or articles about detransition conferences being protested/shut down :(

I would look into lgb allience, they have a bunch of groups in different countries. At least in the states they also have online hangouts. You might also be able to email them and ask for resources, they will likely be able to get you in touch with people in your area.

[butterflyfault]

http://www.radfemcoalition.org/p/local-radfem-meetups.html

See if you have a local representative to contact. If there's a radfem group, it's semi-likely that there will be detransitioners in it. They don't have their own IRL groups.

[butterflyfault]

Does anyone have that post about an old court case (pre-transgender activism) trying to alter the definition of woman in order to deny women rights (healthcare rights probably)? The post was about arguing that the undefining of "woman" is not new. I cannot find it right now, nor the relevant case or cases.

[wombwarriors]

No one asked but I've been thinking about a few posts I've seen where women lament discovering radical feminism because it made their outlook on the world so depressing. And I feel for everyone who goes through this, but I think its actually much better for you to know why you're suffering.

Before I knew about feminism, everything that happened was an isolated incident. My mother's childhood abuse wasn't connected to the domestic abuse she experienced as an adult, and my friend's childhood abuse wasn't connected to the sexual abuse she faced from her peers as a teenager. Eating disorders had nothing to do with rape, and neither did cutting yourself, and neither did transitioning. Everything women go through was random, unpredictable, and unavoidable, and nobody was ever to blame.

Except, something is always to blame. Everything happens for a reason- it's all caused by something else. Humans have an innate urge to rationalize traumatic experiences and understand their cause, so that we might avoid experiencing the same pain in the future. But without the language of feminism, there is only one way to rationalize all these things. When you're a little girl, you grow up learning that male violence is the law of the land. These are the way things are, and everyone is happy with it, so if you're unhappy then you're too sensitive for this world. You need to deal with it. You rapist will sneer this at you, and so will your mom, your grandmother, and your friends. And you will believe it.

Without feminism, you internalize that all your discomfort, all your trauma, it's a consequence of your failure to adapt to reality. It's your fault, and so is everything that happens to you, and everything that happens to every woman like you. There's no deeper meaning to anything: it's Nicole's fault for marrying a psycho, it's Aileen's fault for running away from home, it's Amber's fault for not leaving sooner, and it's Ariana's fault for never visiting an ED clinic.

All these women brought it onto themselves, and so did you. You invited that man to touch your toddler body by having a vagina. You invited that boy to hold you down and rape you by talking to him. Without the language of feminism, you can only communicate through the rules of misogyny, where everything is women's fault, and men are never responsible for anything. It's a way of life that is fundamentally hostile to women, and the vast majority of women have internalized it, at a great personal cost, because they have never been offered another way to look at the situation.

Only feminism can break you free from that endless cycle of guilt and shame. Only feminism can give you the language needed to forgive yourself and all other women for how we've turned out after years of violent abuse. And only through that forgiveness- that recognition that women are largely not to blame for the sorry state of our rotten lives, can you begin to heal from your own trauma.

Feminism allows women to redefine our lives and our identities in a world where men have always had the final say. If being able to take that power for ourselves didn't matter, then men wouldn't work so hard to strip it away.

[yassifiedgollum]

Radfems are so annoying but they're also just really sad. Just now one of them tagged my post with "walk home alone says the wolf to the sheep" and it's like. Why do you imagine all women are prey animals incapable of protecting themselves and all men are carnivores compelled to hurt them?! That's not how the world is. Why don't you conceptualize yourself as an intelligent, autonomous being with agency and maybe you'll calm down

[anxiouslyliquidcurse]

youre taking an allegory literally and then congratulating yourself for it. saying "walk home alone says the wolf to the sheep" isnt claiming women are helpless animals or men are biologically evil.

its pointing to a social reality where male violence is predictable and women bear the cost. women do defend themselves and then they get arrested, jailed, disbelieved for it. thats the system failing them, not a lack of agency. pretending that recognizing patterns of violence means you dont see women as autonomous is just a way to avoid talking about the real problem.

"maybe you'll calm down" is such a male thing to say, treating womens rightful worries as hysteria. you insist women are these intelligent beings but also talk to them like an upset child who just needs to stop imagining things and relax.

half of trans people on tumblr claim to be puppies, transwomen compare themselves to female hyenas but one radfem allegory is what gets you?

[capricorn-season]

[marmorada]

As per fucking usual everyone ignores the fact that hormones are not even slightly the end-all be-all, given males' proportionately longer bones, larger lungs, different center of gravity, and larger hearts.

[patronsaintofweepingmothers]

2005

[sandmandaddy69]

[oarfjsh]

they probably cant love me back in a human or even mammalian sense, but my goldfish with their smooth pea-sized brain have learned to trust that i will make them better when they are sick. i feel like crying about this often

[cantabilechaos]

Maybe Princess the tarantula never had anything resembling what we as humans know as emotions, but she still came out of her burrow and up to the glass when we’d talk to her and used to stare at the drawing I’d tape to her terrarium. Maybe she couldn’t even comprehend what we were, but she knew we were there to take care of her. And even if she never showed that sort of curiosity or trust we’d still love her.

[gay-jesus-probably]

Idk if Munchie the praying mantis felt love for me, but I do know he trusted me enough to climb onto my hand when offered and was comfortable with allowing me to carry him places despite me being absolutely massive in comparison to him. So that's close enough in my book.

[anarchistmemedistro]

[asteroidtroglodyte]

The preponderance of Scientific Evidence is that Insects are entirely capable of Emotions. Bees are perfectly capable of both Joy and Despair. Social Insects can miss individuals. No matter how inconvenient it may be, the Fact is that the Bugs have inner lives.

Do Insects Feel Joy and Pain?

Insects have surprisingly rich inner lives—a revelation that has wide-ranging ethical implications

Contend with the ethics of this in your own time.

[butterflyfault]

I recently put out fruit daily for some fruit flies. This was mutually beneficial: they get to live out their little lifespans safe and fed; and because they had a consistent food source, they did not feel the need to go search for other fruit, so I just replaced it every night and put the old food out in the cold so that the eggs would not hatch. I do not know for sure what fruit flies feel and think about. But even in their short lifespans, they stopped darting away in fear when I got close. They started expecting their morning banana slice and came sooner every time. Though they liked the strawberry more when I had some. It's not really clear if that's trust. But it's enough proof for me that it meant something to them. I did not give them fruit because I expected them to provide something in return. How could they, as fruit flies? I just thought they should have a peaceful life, and I was able to provide it for them. That's it. That's enough. It is also very precious to watch them calmly gather on a little piece of fruit and stay with it all day. Wild fruit flies, who graced me with their presence for no reason. That's enough, too.

[marbleguard]

the huge amount of everyday women who "cannot stand" to have pubic hair, ever, and insult themselves and their bodies whenever it grows, is so insane. And everyone thinks this is normal. So normal, that women will just make these self deprecating jokes about having pubic hair out loud to others because they assume that everyone thinks it's disgusting, like it's an objective fact.

[she-is-ovarit]

Trans medical history and its origins in Nazi medicine focused on sterilizing gay people.

Curiously, I am unable to seem to be able to find my last post I made in sharing Malcolm Clark's posts; it seems to have been removed. I would like to share Tumblr's anti-terrorism clause: "We don't tolerate content that promotes, encourages, or incites acts of terrorism. That includes content which supports or celebrates terrorist organizations, their leaders, or associated violent activities". I would also like to take a moment to recognize that Tumblr promotes and supports quite a lot of "gender affirmation" and trans healthcare related content. As a lesbian who is Jewish, I would also would like to express my appreciation for Tumblr's anti hate speech clause, which describes not promoting violence and hatred among several groups, which I hope includes homosexual people and Jewish people. I hope that Tumblr staff are not removing anti-Nazi posts made by homosexual and/or Jewish people that educate people on some of the origins and horrors of the Holocaust and conversion therapy.

Moving forward, I as a Jewish lesbian would love to share with you important history regarding the oppression of Jewish people and same-sex attracted people as described by Malcolm Clark:

Thread by @TwisterFilm on Thread Reader App

@TwisterFilm: 1./ Trans Healthcare and the Nazis. The LGBTQ+ lobby likes to claim trans people were a key target of the Nazis. They weren't.

(Link: https://www.sfgate.com/opinion/article/Eugenics-and-the-Nazis-the-California-2549771.php)

Link: https://web.archive.org/web/20181226033626/http://www.transmediawatch.org/timeline.html

Edit: Here is an archived webpage of Malcolm Clark's thread: https://web.archive.org/web/20230925022852/https://threadreaderapp.com/thread/1662967081191497728.html

[please-grow-a-brain]

Is this true? Want a non-terfy person to tell me

[she-is-ovarit]

Well, of course a "non-terfy" individual or believer in gender ideology would tell you that it's not true. Why would they tell you it's true? I encourage and empower you to do your own research and not just accept things people say on Tumblr as truth (this post included).

This information is to the best of my knowledge publicly available and you can look up the papers he's quoting on Google Scholar, or I think PubMed might also have some. You can then use Sci-Hub to read if you don't have access.

I also outlined another post pulling from an academic paper that describes more about trans medical history shortly after it originating from Nazi research. Transsexual (as they were called/called themselves back then) patients were overwhelmingly homosexual male people who, even post vaginoplasty and HrT, considered themselves as and wanted to be considered as gay men, but simulating the appearance of women. They overwhelmingly did this to be able to dress like women typically did and assimilate into cultural roles associated with women. It was conservative doctors within transsexual medicine who first pushed on these patients that they weren't really their sex to begin with. They did this because they felt is was the only way these men would live "fulfilling heterosexual lives".

It also describes how trans medicine was popularized because surgeons and psychiatrists smelled money after the media sensationalized Christine Jorgeson's looks and Dr. Hamburger (who "transitioned" Christine) published hundreds of (I'm sure private and personal) letters to him by other people interested in obtaining transsexual surgeries to escape homophobia, because they experienced gender dysphoria (or sex dysphoria), or due to paraphilias (interestingly, at one point in transsexual medicine, there was a divide in what sexologists and surgeons considered as "true transsexuals" vs. those who sought transitioning due to other extreme behavioral issues; one doctor had to segregate his lobby because one subpopulation of transsexual people were harassing the other). In 1960 transsexual surgeries were barely heard of. By 1970 there was over 20 centers globally treating thousands of transsexual patients. Psychologists and psychoanalysts didn't have much power or influence in this at all, and most didn't like it - this became rapidly popularized and considered "normalized" before it was even presented to the APA in the 1970s. By that time psychologists had their hands tied.

Trans History (long post sorry)

This post uses "transsexual" in place of "transgender" as this was the widespread accepted terminology until fairly recently and is what was

[asoapylife-deactivated20240815]

I find your assertion that a “non-terfy” person would deny this laughable. This is publicly available information and not all that unknown in trans circles.

your inability to see, however, that this does not disprove the fact that trans people were profoundly persecuted by the nazis. Your inability to realise that this has done nothing to disprove the century of continued scientific research in this field. And your inability to realise that all modern medicine, especially surgical medicine, has been based in nazi science. Your inability to see all of these things and more is pathetic.

[she-is-ovarit]

If it's publicly available information that transsexual modern medicine is rooted in the Nazis specific, concentrated attempts to genocide away homosexual people, if it's known that actual Nazis and German eugenicists - such as Erwin Gohrbandt and Hamburger - founded and initiated much of transsexual "medical" procedures for eugenics intentions, if it's understood in trans circles that conservative doctors in the 1960s were who began convincing predominantly gay transsexual people (who at the time still considered themselves as their sex and wanted to be considered as their sex) that they weren't really their sex to begin with to attempt to publicly eliminate homosexuality as much as they could...

And you still want to protect this, then you're shrugging off facism and fine with believing and internalizing a belief system that promotes the concept of a superior white race, male supremacy, and the massacre of gay people.

It isn't "trans people" who were targeted by Nazis, it was the mentally ill and it was the homosexual population. It was the Nazis who intended for the mentally ill and homosexual people to be sterilized and erased through transsexual surgeries. This wasn't just a building of medical knowledge from Nazi experimentation. The current result of trans-identifying people was literally a goal of Nazi sterilization research—and it's not just surgical, cosmetic techniques that came from it, but also the underlying beliefs.

[butterflyfault]

[Image ID: Screenshot of the Tumblr report field.

Describe, what you are reporting

OP uses “bitch” in the tags and says that they will continue using it regardless of what any women say.

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Describe, as best you can, how it violates Tumblr’s Hate Speech Policy

“Bitch” is a hateful and misogynistic slur directed at women. It should not be used against women on this website, the same way racist slurs are not permitted. It is hate speech.]

[quinntheestallion]

The trans movement: black women are seen as men/male adjacent 1.Enslaved black women were wet nurses to white babes (side note: do people know how hungry and drained breastfeeding makes you? A child is literally sucking the calories out of you on top of the fact that your body has to exert energy making the milk) 2.Were repeatedly raped and impregnated against their will to give birth to more slaves- aka their female reproductive labor specifically exploited and pimped to directly financially profit slave masters. 3.Were raped and used as sex toys by both black men and white slave masters. 4.Were forced to do traditionally feminine roles like childcare, cooking, cleaning IN ADDITON to all the back- breaking, hard labor the men had to do. 5.In the founding of gynecology- enslaved black women had their guts cut open and wombs and uteri taken out and experimented on. Had their breasts, vaginas and buttocks, all sex organs, pickled in jars and shown in museums. In other words, our female ancestors experienced the absolute worst assaults on their SEXED bodies. Experienced horrors and mechanisms of torture designed for and exclusive to THE FEMALE SEX. And you people let transfemmes say we're seen as males. Unchecked. I'll never forgive or forget this. I'll never forgive. I'll never forget.

[corotrangul]