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☀︎ febfem
☀︎ mid thirties
☀︎ australian
☀︎ actual misandrist
“We are unwilling to remake the ‘jjimjilbang’ haven we have worked so hard over many years to build and preserve, simply for the sake of pro
”women need to be nicer to men!!! women are so awful to men now and that’s the reason they’re all misogynistic dickheads!” oh? so you agree? you agree that the mistreatment of one sex by another is what causes them to turn mean and cynical towards the other sex? so you agree misandry is men’s fault? that feminists being so mean to men is men’s own fault? you agree that women are justified in their judgement and alienation of males?
women are being murdured daily because of gendered based violence and you’re here telling me its sad man ‘can’t’ cry.
What? And females have historically had a walk in the park? Right?
Fuck all the way off.
When you think you can win a “going through torture just because of who you are” contest against a group that experiences 80-something percent of all rapes and perpetrates only 2%. And that’s just in the West; just look at the little African girls whose vaginas get cut up with no pain relief.
It’s ridiculous that the trans community sees even respectfully not engaging with their beliefs as an act of malicious bigotry. What I mean by this is things like referring to a trans identified male as they/them or with no pronouns instead of she/her. That is a respectful way of not going against your own beliefs, while also going out of your way to not be abrasive by calling him he/him. It’s simply not engaging with somebody else’s belief while trying not to be overly hurtful about it. That’s not evil. “But it hurts to know people don’t see you as your gender!” TOO BAD. You have to grow a thicker skin and understand that nobody is required to engage with your beliefs to spare your feelings.
To me, it’s just like when I go to an event that includes saying grace or a prayer. I’m an atheist and anti-theist. I could easily be openly disrespectful and flash a devil sign, or stick out my tongue, or make noise, but I don’t. I simply don’t bow my head, I don’t recite the prayer, and I don’t say “amen”. Might this hurt people around me? Of course! I’m sure there’s religious people who would be deeply offended to see somebody not engaging in group prayer. But that’s simply not my problem. It’s their problem to accept that not everybody believes what they do, and that nobody is required to play long to spare their feelings.
The harsh reality is that if you believe in something that isn’t proven to be true (like the idea of a gendered soul, or a soul that needs to be saved by a higher power), you have to 1. Accept that it’s a belief, 2. Accept that not everyone will believe in it, and 3. Understand that somebody’s disbelief is not a slight against you.
I’m so tired of how men keep co-opting any joke or trend women come up with. The bear or man question, men turned it into tiger or woman. Hot Girl Summer becomes Hot Boy Summer or whatever. And now the ‘women in male fields’ trend which men have co-opted and ruined it once again. In all of the ‘women in male fields’ jokes, these are real horrendous interactions women have had with men, literally not a single one is exaggerated or wrong. So men decided to co-opt it and of course they spout the most misogynistic BS, but not a single joke lands. They claim to be the funnier sex, yet they can’t even come up with their own original jokes or trends without making them sexist and lame. They take jokes women create and turn them into misogynistic, painfully unfunny ‘jokes.’ They constantly do this to undermine and overshadow us but even in that they’re failing miserably.
just saw this on pinterest and it hit me like a truck
motherfuckers could just do anything in the 80s and pulled the ladder up so you can't
One man has the internet divided after he confessed that he and his wife don't want their baby his surrogate gave birth to because of a 'mix
Okay for anyone not into links:
Man starts shitstorm by asking reddit if he's the asshole for wanting to discard the infant he and his wife hired an agency to surrogate
Surrogacy agency makes (afaik) UNPRECEDENTED mistake by using the wrong man's sperm to inseminate his wife's egg.
Man throws a tantrum because the child isn't "all theirs"
Goes through entire post describing a human infant as "it" because his sperm wasn't used to make it
"They" decide to put her child up for adoption because the sperm wasn't her husband's
Is he really the asshole though 🤔🤔🤔
This is partially why, in my professional work (bioethics with a focus on reproductive technology), I don’t talk about surrogacy without also often talking about gamete donation because no, this isn’t unprecedented. On several occasions clinics have either mixed up embryos, sperm, or eggs. This isn’t a matter of the fertility industry making a big gaffe, the fertility industry is inherently unethical because they make people for profit. There is no reason for them to reign it in.
As for the parents, though, it’s like, yeah, of course you’re the assholes. But, also, this is what happens when we commercialize women’s bodies and turn children into products. They paid for a “product” they didn’t want. This isn’t the first time someone has tried to “return” their product.
Take, for example, the British woman who abandoned one of her twins because she was disabled. She said she didn’t want a “dribbling cabbage” for a daughter so she didn’t take her. She is not a unique case. It’s even worse with couples who go to Asia (and even parts of Eastern Europe) to hire surrogates. If they don’t want the child, there is sometimes not even the “luxury” of adoption or some kind of custody battle, there have allegedly been cases where the child is just abandoned on the streets and is, for all intents and purposes, stateless and orphaned.
Surrogacy, gamete donation, so many things the fertility industry does is unethical. Mishaps are not unique by any means.
I know this is gonna make soooo many pseudo rads turn the edgy mode on and accuse of pearlclutching but if you use the r slur you're genuinely the lowest lifeform to me. so many autistic and mentally disabled radfems report feeling alienated and seen as less than but I guess you made a couple of men online mad, hope it was worth it
andd if you use anti romani slurs I hope you house catches fire genuinely
btw
I cannot emphasise this enough: if you do this I don't empathise with you, I don't like you, we are not friends, you cannot argue with me about this in a way that matters and the best thing we can do is part ways and never intersect again
shoutout to all of the radfems who had (or have) eating disorders. discovering radfeminism has opened my eyes to how horrible i treated myself while struggling with an eating disorder.
It won't make the little girl who comes in 12th faster, but it will make sure she has fair competition.
It won't make her faster but it will make sure she isn't being sexually harassed in the change room by a biological male
It won't make her faster but it will make sure that she has a crowd of female teammates to compare herself to and work to emulate, rather than a male who has a male body that she can't achieve.
It won't make her faster but it will make sure she can enjoy her sport in a safe environment.
It won't make her faster but it will make sure she's and all the other girls, have a team full of actual girls to support each other rather than be pushed aside for a male.
“If we dont give men what they want then they’ll turn on women politically.”
Yes we know that’s why it’s important to not date or become financially attached to them in any way
ΤΗΝ ΣΕΒΟΜΟΥΝ ΠΕΡΙΣΣΌΤΕΡΟ ΑΠΟ ΚΑΘΕ ΑΛΛΗ ΤΗΛΕΟΠΤΙΚΉ ΜΑΓΕΊΡΙΣΣΑ ΕΒΕΡ ΗΤΑΝ ΠΡΟΣΙΤΉ ΣΤΟ ΚΟΙΝΌ ΔΕΝ ΈΚΑΝΕ ΜΠΕΛΑΛΙΔΙΚΑ ΚΑΙ ΓΚΟΥΡΜΙΕΔΙΕΣ ΚΑΙ ΗΞΕΡΕ ΌΤΙ ΑΠΕΥΘΥΝΌΤΑΝ ΣΤΗ ΜΕΣΗ ΕΛΛΗΝΊΔΑ ΝΟΙΚΟΚΥΡΆ ΟΠΟΤΕ ΤΑ ΠΆΝΤΑ ΗΤΑΝ ΑΠΛΆ...Θα μου λείψει τόσο πολύ
This woman was Greece's first and most famous TV cook (when Greece eventually joined the genre in the 1990s). She started her TV career when she was in her mid-50s. She instantly became famous because her recipes and her way of hosting TV shows was done so simply and friendly, like having a beloved aunty, or granny, or even neighbor or friend come over and show you how to cook that recipe she had served you a few days before and you asked her for the recipe. All the Greeks that grew up in the 1990s and the 2000s remember her as a trademark of their childhood. But she was a powerhouse in her own right.
She eventually became a successful businesswoman. Her business, Vefa's House, was selling kitchen items that she used in her own TV appearances.
She's the only Greek TV cook who cooked next to Martha Stewart.
When she started to appear in morning TV shows as a cook (that's how she became famous), she was doing it for free. Cooking was probably so under-appreciated by the media 'moguls' of the day that they didn't pay her, they didn't even pay the food she was cooking with, and when she demanded her payment (because she did help increase their ratings) - guess what happened? They refused to pay her, and she quit on her own accord (later on went on to have a separate cooking show of her own. She's perhaps the first cook in Greece - male or female - to achieve that)
She's famous for the simple way she wrote and presented her recipes. She really made it easy for people to learn how to cook! Plus, in the early-to-mid 2000s, she published an entire section of cookbooks with special plastic paper, because plastic was more durable than 'regular' paper in the kitchen and it could be easily cleaned up if dirty!
She's also credited with rescuing traditional Greek cooking. Not an exaggeration. She wrote tons upon tons of cookbooks about the traditional recipes of various parts of Greece and she recorded all of them in writing. Ilias Mamalakis (another famous Greek TV chef and everyone's favourite 'uncle') also did that, but he's more famous for the TV show he used to host where he travelled all over Greece and gathered local recipes.
I saw people on X/Twitter who had met her say that, even if they met her abroad - diaspora Greeks - and they complained about how her recipes were turning out badly because they couldn't find the right (Greek) products she advised on using, she told them precisely which other products to use in that foreign country and also where to find them. That's passion!
She outlived BOTH of her daughters and she ended up raising her grandchildren. Yet she was criticized for still showing up in public with her famous blue eye shadow because, apparently, a woman who's outlived both children and had grandkids to raise had to stay home all day and sink into depression *rolls eyes*
Towards the end of her life, she became outspoken politically and she participated in rallies that supported that Macedonia was Greek. Mikis Theodorakis had taken part in these marches also, but he was criticized less than Vefa Alexiadou - apparently, because his wife and both his children were still alive.
She always showed up with a smile on her face and nicely dressed. Even towards the end, she was still perfectly coiffed and bejeweled, and still the kind person we've always known her to be.
In her funeral, no one from the famous Greek cooks - except for Ilias Mamalakis - showed up. Not Argyro Barbarigou, not Andreas Lagos, not even Akis Petertzikis. Greek TV now is filled with cooking TV shows in her format (literally the "she walked so that they could run" meme), she also supported young Greek cooks by including them in her shows or cookbooks, and not one of these people showed up to honour her.
Vefa Alexiadou was so beloved by an entire generation of Greeks and losing her feels like losing a grandma or a beloved aunty to most of us who grew up with her. We may have turned out horrible cooks (sorry, Mrs. Vefa!) but at least we still remember her fondly and we can still turn to her recipes if we want something simple yet tasty. But she was also an amazing enterpreneur and a person who refused to give up on living, no matter the hardships that'd come her way.
I'm close to crying even as I write this, but if I knew where her funeral was held sooner, I would have genuinely gone. It may seem small, I never even knew her, but she was THAT BELOVED.
Another fact: she was a chemist, she graduated from Aristotle University and then she continued her studies in food science in Berkley College in California, USA. And again, she was 91 years old when she died, born in 1933... so put that in perspective.
[runs in soaking wet, panting, out of breath] SALMON HATS ARE BACK! [runs out]
Orcas off the coast of Washington State are balancing dead fish on their heads like it's the 1980s, but researchers still aren't sure why th
Last month, scientists and whale watchers spotted orcas (Orcinus orca) in South Puget Sound and off Point No Point in Washington State swimming with dead fish on their heads.
This is the first time they've donned the bizarre headgear since the summer of 1987, when a trendsetting female West Coast orca kickstarted the behavior for no apparent reason. Within a couple of weeks, the rest of the pod had jumped on the bandwagon and turned salmon corpses into must-have fashion accessories, according to the marine conservation charity ORCA — but it's unclear whether the same will happen this time around.
Researchers think the orcas sporting salmon hats now may be veterans of the trend when it first appeared nearly 40 years ago. "It does seem possible that some individuals that experienced [the behavior] the first time around may have started it again," Andrew Foote, an evolutionary ecologist at the University of Oslo in Norway, told New Scientist.
The motivation for the salmon hat trend remains a mystery. "Honestly, your guess is as good as mine," Deborah Giles, an orca researcher at the University of Washington who also heads the science and research teams at the non-profit Wild Orca, told New Scientist.
Salmon hats are a perfect example of what researchers call a "fad" — a behavior initiated by one or two individuals and temporarily picked up by others before it's abandoned. Back in the 1980s, the trend only lasted a year; by the summer of 1988, dead fish were totally passé and salmon hats disappeared from the West Coast orca population.