lgbt ppl force their lifestyle on ppl? Try telling a straight woman at a hair salon you, a woman, want a buzzcut
Ashckdb when I was getting my hair cut off I showed lady the picture and she went to my mom to ask and my mom was like “….she 19” and then lady argued with me about during the ENTIRE cut and everytime she cut it shorter she said “this is nice, right? Keep it like this” I DONT WANT A BOB KAREN JUST CUT IT OFF
When I chose to cut off 24 inches of my hair 3 years ago I went to the salon and showed the hairdresser a picture of the undercut I thought was cute (it was even a picture of a woman but I guess it was a “masculine” style)
The hairdresser treated me like it was a bad idea and refused to go as short as I wanted. She told me that I should go with a longer pixie because in her opinion it looked “more flattering and feminine”. When I said I didn’t really care about looking feminine she pursed her lips and started cutting my hair the way she wanted. When I got home I buzzed off the extra hair myself lol. People always tell me I shouldn’t dye my own hair and cut my own hair but honestly I’ve had so many bad experiences with hairdressers being judgmental and not listening that it’s just not worth it to me.
I had a similar experience. I had just gotten some fantastic news about my health and wanted to do something amazingly out of my norm to celebrate. The plan was to cut off the under half of my hair and leave the rest to flip to the side. No big deal right? Wrong.
Salon lady refused, said I would look like a boy and that's not cute. I'm 33, I don't wanna look cute Samantha, I wanna celebrate living with a new hair cut. She refused. So I left.
Pissed off, I went down the road to a barbor. She said "what would you like?" I told her, and she said "awesome! Have a seat."
She was so nice and asked me why I wanted the hair cut. I told her my story, she cried, and said she'd gone through the same health problems and thought my celebration was fantastic! And now she feels brave enough to do the same to hers.
So not only did I get an awesome haircut, I also have a new barbor and new friend!
I'll take a barbor over a stylist any day!
