I’ve been thinking about how Adrien is generally not an empathetic person. He’s well mannered and generally nice but I’ve yet to see him share a moment of vulnerability with someone that wasn’t about himself. There were the times he’s given Ladybug pep talks but he never seems legitimately concerned for her emotional well-being, simply smiling after she hugs him instead of showing any interest in why she was feeling the way she was and how he could help her. He literally felt the pressure she’s under every day and didn’t feel any need to change himself to help alleviate it. Of course, a large portion of empathy is learned and he hasn’t had great examples and sometimes people just don’t have the energy to genuinely care and all that but the point remains: Adrien rarely thinks about other people’s feelings. Despite how it sounds, this isn’t a criticism of him, just an observation.
Something else that goes with his lack of empathy could very well be the Umbrella Scene.
Just a friendly reminder to everyone who says he apologized to Marinette during Origins Part 2, there were only three instances of someone saying “sorry” in the transcript for that episode, and none of them came from him. His actual canon line is as follows:
Adrien: Hey. (Marinette still ignores him; he opens his umbrella) I just wanted you to know that I was only trying to take the chewing gum off your seat. I swear. I've never been to school before. I've never had friends. It's all sort of new to me. (He hands her his umbrella, and they share brief eye contact through the exchange, before the umbrella closes over Marinette's head, causing Adrien to laugh, resulting in Marinette smiling and laughing as well and Adrien sighs)
...I’m not seeing an actual apology anywhere in there. He does give an explanation, but ultimately makes it about himself. And without revealing Chloe either, so he’s still more concerned with protecting Chloe than apologizing or making it up to the person he inadvertently helped bully.
It could arguably be a means of manipulation. But it’s certainly not very empathetic. It’s about getting her to understand HIM rather than try to understand HER and HER feelings.
I know there’s way earlier examples but how does anyone walk away from Puppeteer 2 where Adrien’s “prank” brought Marinette nearly to tears and his apology still managed to make it a pity party for himself and not realize this guy just Can Not think about anyone else’s feelings or situations?
This. Is not. About. YOU.
Here : this is Dr.Robert D.Hare psychopathy checklist. It is used to define psychopathy and recognize psychopaths. So, if you check at least 3 of these behaviours, a psychologist should diagnose you as a psychopath, in the clinical sense of the word of course.
Now I think 4, 5 and 6 at least are checked for Adrien. Some episodes like Copycat could add the 3rd but there are not that many of them (because there aren't many episodes where Adrien gets screentime ?). Adrien also checks the 9th as other than his day dreams about him and Ladybug, he hasn't shown any goals on a long term. Like, what does he want to become ? What is his dream ? (Thanks wish maker). And there might be the 10th too ...
So ... Yeah. What I'm trying to say is that Adrien is a clinical Psychopath.
On one hand him being a psychopath with no sense of empathy definitely explains his obliviousness.
On the other hand, HE IS the writers' self-insert !! What does it say about them ??



























