the bear

hobster he/him | 22 reblog heavy. just looking header by @/hysterical_melancholy on insta

[nonlynear]

Let me put it this way : Hi

[portaltomb]

this lettuce smells like dog

[iamoutofideas]

you bought dog lettuce

[swarnpert]

[parakeet]

hatberry model

[el-im]

Joan Didion, writing about the shock that followed after the death of her husband, John.

[bignosedlegend]

I've become a slut for metal gear solid get ready

[woodmeat]

Me

[woodmeat]

Boy I forgot to add da damn post

[papigetbusy-deactivated20221012]

We not even trying no more here

[lavenderfoxboy-deactivated20240]

i wish there was more it/its positivity that wasn't just "hell yeah look at you go funky little goblins/otherwordly beings/freaks/objects"

[oupydogcity]

this is really important actually i wanted to link one of my fav tweets on this subject :>

[ID: A tweet by Lemon (synthesighs) that says, "When ppl Who aren't familiar with them encounter "it/its" pronouns, they usually assume diminutive connotations. Little things are "it". A rock is it. A pencil is it. They rarely consider that "it" may refer to a mountain or music or the sun or love." /end ID]

[everythingfoxes]

[foxpost-generator]

it fucken WIMDY

[foxpost-generator]

girk at my work discovered my terrible secret

[atomic-chronoscaph]

Zora la Vampira - art by Alessandro Biffignandi

[rocatex-deactivated20260317]

When the Bart is running low

And the Homer starts to grow

And the places that you know

Feel like Simpson house

[martindykewood]

not to sound like a christian facebook mom but some of yall need to have grace in your hearts for the people in your lives or the people you pass once on the road and never see again like you literally need to stop assuming the worst of everyone and their intentions it is poisoning your brain. you can be careful and responsible without being a miserable person. it is possible i promise

[martindykewood]

you are a tar pit and you live this way because you choose to.

[martindykewood]

honestly i have been responding to some of these replies at face value bc i do also think you have a duty as a human being to be nice to people. but if you think this post is scolding you to be nicer to people then youve already lost the plot. this post is about how assuming that everyone you meet is hostile and wants to hurt you is bad for you. it ruins your life and it is a choice you are continually making.

[rottendia]

kawaii solid snake :3

[sunclown]

Meet Puppyhira Miller and Meowdamska

[therealdodachka]

Let's Forget About This ™

[gothvince]

i talk about transitioning and all anyone ever says is "I hope you don't regret it" what if instead we said I hope you love it. I hope it's everything you ever wanted. I hope you live the rest of your life in utter bliss. etc etc.

[gothvince]

I hope you transition and I hope it's the best thing you ever did and I hope you never look back and I hope you finally feel comfortable in your own skin

[toastyglow]

"everyone is paying super close attention to everyone else all the time" actualy statistical error. hypervigilance georg, who enters fight or flight when someone starts breathing differently, is an outlier adn should not have been counted

[bakurapika]

#this one's for the people who hear 'people aren't paying that close attention to you! I mean do YOU pay that close of attention to them?'#and go: unfortunately yeah!!!!!!!#you are georg hope this helps. love u#hang in there one day u will be able to pay less attention all the time

[mousidy]

"if I ever say something transmisogynistic you have the right to smack me" ok but like. can we maybe just have a conversation about it instead

[mousidy]

I know it's a jokey funny thing to say but like I hope the people who say this sort of thing do realize that transmisogyny is not, like, a sin for which they must repent by suffering. we actually just want you to understand your mistake and adjust your future behavior. no suffering necessary

[mousidy]

like this goes doubly if we're friends! if I'm your friend I would take no pleasure or sense of justice in your suffering. I want you to be happy! I just want to know that I can trust you enough to have a conversation with you if something you do doesn't sit right with me. if we can do that it will lead to a happier and lovelier friendship for us both. I don't want to smack you I want to frolic through the flowers with you and sing lalala

[mousidy]

see this is another common attitude that I find completely ineffective. you cannot simply disown and wash your hands of any potential transmisogyny you might perpetuate by saying you "didn't mean it." not even us trans women are immune to internalizing and reproducing the transmisogyny that pervades the culture we live in. if you assume that you are somehow immune, that the only way you could possibly perpetuate transmisogyny is via some slip of the tongue that wasn't representative of what you actually believe, that does not make me feel safe. it only shows me that you will not be willing to reflect on your beliefs should they actually come into question. you cannot own your mistakes by disowning them

[mousidy]

"that's a lot of work"

yes, it is! it's a lot of work for us too! lucky you, though, there are basically no consequences to simply choosing not to be an ally to trans women. you have the option to simply ignore us. take it if you like! there's nothing we can do about it, despite how loud we may be on the internet. you hold all the cards! I imagine you'll find that nobody who can do anything about it will care, you won't be #cancelled, and you'll just move on with your life. it may feel scary to take criticism from a marginalized group, but there's no gun to your head. doing this work is a choice, and it's all yours!