slowly becoming the court eunuch for middle aged socially awkward straight men who are trying to rekindle their friendship like, "let me consult with my lesbian"
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slowly becoming the court eunuch for middle aged socially awkward straight men who are trying to rekindle their friendship like, "let me consult with my lesbian"
being a little too into clementine morrigan is the femme-y afab (who doesn't hang out with trans women especially) equivalent of listening to joe rogan
gf 1 telling gf 2 to stop coming to a local zine making workshop bc she feels uncomfortable and at some point I gotta bring up the prospect of moving into a communal polycule living situation with gf 2 and dreading it. chef's kiss poly bullshit. maybe don't fuck your metas ppl
"I can fix her" "I can make her worse" fuck if I know what I'm doing to her but she's barking now
i need everyone to know that community is what will save us all in every single way imaginable. you forming a bond with your neighbour or coworker might help them move house or feel less alone or have the courage to leave an unhealthy living environment. you helping a stranger might provide them with hope. in turn, being able to lean on your community in times of need will save you. your broader bonds with your community are the revolution we need. our society seeks to divide and separate us in so many ways but we are all so much more united in our struggles and joys than you are made to believe. we need to hold onto each other very tightly.
happy hallowing you can take TWO pieces
holding my trans girl friends softly by the cheeks, close enough we can feel each others' breath, making intense eye contact, and telling them "you have spent so much of your life living for others. it's time for you to live for yourself. you deserve to exist and be safe and comfortable in public. you deserve to take up space. you deserve to be loud and silly and angry when you need to be. you deserve to be comfortable with your body and feel pretty and cute and beautiful and sexy. you deserve to be horny. you deserve to be fucked like a girl, if you wanna be fucked. you do not need to apologize for existing. you do not need to apologize for smiling and laughing. you do not need to apologize for your 'cringey' fandoms. you do not need to apologize for your kinks. you do not need to apologize for enjoying sex. you deserve laughter and love and happiness and support."
inspired by this post (and also by recent events in my/my friends' lives that are making me sad and angry)
i was actually born 9 months premature. they had to give me to a dust mite as a wet nurse.
I love getting "post without tags?" on my stupidest ever posts. oh my god sorry tumblr how could i forget. #dust mite #wet nurse
I can’t believe this was a real tweet
popping my vagina into another woman’s vagina… candace owens is creating new forms of sex im not even able to visualise
met a casual friend's ex at a local queer meetup who I had heard stories about and I mentioned my friend to her and she poured her heart out to me about their failed relationship and this girl is not over it and tbh my friend is not worth all that angst but also there's a lot of dysphoria and first relationship nostalgia attached to that relationship for her (she's a trans woman and my friend is a cishet woman) so I think that's a factor but damn strangers are always pouring their heart out to me, like this is just a thing that happens and my gf M was there and sat there awkwardly the whole time like "wtf is happening"
So, I guess the difference between anarchists and MLs is that the former believe people are fundamentally good, while the latter believe people are fundamentally bad?
marxists don't believe that people are "fundamentally" anything because we are all ultimately shaped by our material and social conditions. "The tradition of all dead generations weighs like a nightmare on the brains of the living" and all that innit
there is a very real tendency for people with liberal-idealist methods of thought to recognise that there exists a certain disagreement between themselves and marxists on, e.g., the question of the state, of the inherent natute of man, etc., and assume that the latter simply hold the opposite, complementary position, within the same idealist framework. they themselves believe the state is inherently evil, so marxists must believe the state is inherently good; they believe people are inherently good, so marxists must believe people are inherently evil; and any explanation by marxists of the qualitative differences between these schools of thought is, more often than not, simply rejected in favour of fighting against the shadow projected by marxism onto their own two-dimensional field of bourgeois politics.
it might just be because im sleep deprived from jetlag rn but this r/relationship_advice post is making me cry actual tears of laughter. i read the post at first and was like yeah pretty standard whatever but im nosey so i clicked on the drawing op linked and i was not mentally prepared for it. putting it under a read more so you can get the same experience as i did
It’s very funny how much of Lovecraft’s work can be seen as, effectively, an aristocrat’s existential horror at the idea that, as Rosa Luxemburg said, “Bourgeois society stands at the crossroads, either transition to Socialism or regression into Barbarism.”
In 1921, Lovecraft wrote ‘The Outsider’, one of the more clear expressions, in his works, of a fear of lacking a place in society. A man wakes up in a decaying, decrepit castle - once great, now in ruins - and descends, down to the townsfolk, who have renovated an old mansion, turning it into apartments. Upon seeing him, they panic, finding him terrifying and disgusting. Looking in the mirror, he sees that he is, in fact, a beast; even going so far to describe himself as “a stranger in this century.” In 1921, as the aristocracy gave its final breath, it’s not hard to see why.
However, ‘The Call of Cthulhu’ stands as the most direct example of the ‘existential horror’ of capitalism. Luxemburg’s quote, that bourgeois society - capitalism - stands at the transition to socialism was not just an expression of a specific historical period. Capitalism innately, inherently works towards its own destruction. Capitalism develops and expands the proletariat, the class that aspires to destroy it. As capitalism develops science and technology, as it develops the means of production, it makes itself obsolete. Capitalist relations of production become limiting factors for new forms of industry - just as a nation that remained feudalist would be left behind and destroyed in the age of steam and industry, a nation that remains capitalist is dooming itself to the march of history. It is precisely the development of capitalism that makes possible, if not historically inevitable, the building of socialism. Compare this with the passage from ‘The Call of Cthulhu’:
The sciences, each straining in its own direction, have hitherto harmed us little; but some day the piecing together of dissociated knowledge will open up such terrifying vistas of reality, and of our frightful position therein, that we shall either go mad from the revelation or flee from the deadly light into the peace and safety of a new dark age.
Of course, socialism would seem like madness, in the eyes of the aristocrat. Comprehending, but briefly, the idea of communism, of a society without class, without class conflict and class oppression, might drive one to conclude that “mankind would have become as the Great Old Ones; free and wild and beyond good and evil, with laws and morals thrown aside.“
Historical materialism, the scientific understanding of human society, cares very little for the ideas or desires of individuals, as far as shaping the course of society goes. It is quite resolute: the only options are class society, and the inevitable march towards communism, or no society. This would have been a very pressing fact in the 1920s, with the establishment of socialism in Russia, and socialist movements across the world spreading like prairie fire. ‘The Call of Cthulhu’ describes Cthulhu’s dream infecting the human psyche - “average people in society and business“ in the west are unaffected, though scientists and artists stir with it. Across the global south, however, there is great unrest, especially among indigenous peoples - even Ireland gets rowdy - and in South America, “a fanatic deduces a dire future from visions he has seen.“
The idea that class society is a specific historical phenomenon, one which is unerringly moving towards its own abolition, must be a frightening one for a member of the upper classes. I’ll leave it to Lovecraft to express this existential horror: “Old Castro remembered bits of hideous legend that paled the speculations of theosophists, and made man and the world seem recent and transient indeed.“
As a result of the Great Depression, Lovecraft reexamined his political views. Initially, he thought that affluent people would take on the characteristics of his ideal aristocracy and solve America’s problems. When this did not occur, he became a democratic socialist. This shift was caused by his observation that the Depression was harming American society. It was also influenced by the increase in socialism’s political capital during the 1930s. One of the main points of Lovecraft’s socialism was its opposition to Soviet Marxism, as he thought that a Marxist revolution would bring about the destruction of American civilization. Lovecraft thought that an intellectual aristocracy needed to be formed to preserve America. His ideal political system is outlined in his essay “Some Repetitions on the Times”. […] He also outlines the need for an oligarchy of intellectuals. In his view, power must be restricted to those who are sufficiently intelligent and educated. He frequently used the term “fascism” to describe this form of government, […]
Internationally, like many Americans, he initially expressed support for Adolf Hitler. More specifically, he thought that Hitler would preserve German culture. However, he thought that Hitler’s racial policies should be based on culture rather than descent.
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talking shit about fat poly people has always been the most bitchless behavior
Anti-poly sentiment and biphobia do definitely stem from a lot of the same ideological places, all of which are either direct reinforcements of or sociocultural remnants of heteropatriarchy, of the historical precedent of men literally owning their wives. This has evolved and shifted gender dynamics, but the core of it remains the same. The suggestion that their partner may be bisexual is "threatening" to these kinds of controlling, possessive people because it suggests that their partner may be attracted to people who are not them, or who are not "like" them, superficially (i.e. of the same gender). There is a long-running expectation for bisexual people to eventually "settle down" - i.e., become monogamous and cease identifying as bisexual. Why would you keep identifying as bisexual when you're with me? Because you want to cheat on me? And anti-poly sentiment carries the same idea - "my partner belongs to me, my partner can never look at anyone else, if I even had to think about my partner having sex with someone who is not me I would kill them and then myself" is exactly the same as the rhetoric deployed by controlling, biphobic partners to bisexual people. I don't even want to do the "well polyamory isn't for everyone! Monogamists are super valid too!!" thing because quite honestly, I think you NEED to be able to grapple with the reality that it is extremely unrealistic to expect your partner to only ever be attracted to you, and that you have been fed the lie that a "healthy relationship" means expecting two people to fulfill all of each other's romantic, sexual, and emotional needs for their entire lives by a patriarchal society. I genuinely think more people need to think about polyamory in the way I think more people should think about bisexuality - accept that it might happen, accept that it isn't a slight against you if your partner is bi or poly, accept that you will not and SHOULD NOT be the center of your partner's universe for the rest of your life, and if you can't accept these things I really don't think you're emotionally mature enough for a long-term relationship at all.
(and of course not all bisexuals are polyamorous and not all polyamorists are bisexual but I am both and it's my post. so.)