༒︎𝖈𝖗𝖚𝖊𝖑 𝖈𝖆𝖓𝖓𝖎𝖓𝖊༄ @cruel-cannine - Tumblr Blog

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𓆩♱𓆪 NSFT 18+ 𓆩♱𓆪 sir cane de sade 𓆩♱𓆪 25 𓆩♱𓆪 U.S. 𓆩♱𓆪 EST 𓆩♱𓆪 aries 𓆩♱𓆪 he / him 𓆩♱𓆪 bi / omni 𓆩♱𓆪 audhd 𓆩♱𓆪 dom-top 𓆩♱𓆪 primal sadist 𓆩♱𓆪 stoner 𓆩♱𓆪 read DNI 𓆩♱𓆪

Blog Trigger Warnings: nsft, horror, swearing, bd$m, extreme k!nk, vi0lence, mental health, dr*gs/alc0hol, medical/hospital, religious/sacrilege, hypn0sis, fantasy man!pulation/coerc!on, fantasy tra*ma, fantasy abu5e, fantasy r@pe, fantasy murd3r, fantasy t0rture, fantasy st@lking, and more (ask to add triggers).

DISCLAIMER:

Everything posted on this blog is to be taken strictly as fantasy. I do not condone actions that could result in substantial harm of any variety. I do not condone engaging in kink without enthusiastic consent, intensive discussion, clear boundaries, designated safe-words, and thorough aftercare, even if a post of mine does not specifically restate such nuances.

If you do not like my content, I ask that you please refrain from reporting me just for having extreme kinks. Again, my blog is purely fantasy, and I care a lot about safety and consent, both in physical and digital play. Please simply block me and move on, as I would do for you.

If I accidentally violate your DNI, I do sincerely apologize. I read every pinned post I come across before following someone, but I don't check every author of every reblog that I interact with. Please feel free to block me and move on. If you violate my DNI, I will do the same.

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sounddesignerjeans-deactivated2

I wish kinky sex ed wasn't so stigmatized even among left-leaning "sex positive" circles. Everyone's all "uwu I'm a sub I'll do anything you ask" okay mommy wants you to read The New Bottoming Book so you learn how to sub without hurting yourself since your sex ed up to this point is porn and your ex boyfriend Jared who liked to choke you incorrectly

sounddesignerjeans-deactivated2

I’m so glad you asked! Let me list off what I’ve got for you:

Books I personally recommend:

- The New Topping Book and The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

If you’re having kinky sex at all, you need to read at least one of these two books. Point blank. They’ll teach you the very basics of negotiating properly (which is critical!), and help you identify what you are and aren’t into.

- Mindfucking Mindfully, by Sir Ezra Where this book really shines isn’t actually in helping you “mindfuck” people, it’s in taking a close look at how to do so ethically. It’s a great answer to the question “how do I get someone to consent to something and still surprise and shock them with it?”

- Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny This is a slightly niche pick but there simply isn’t a better book on the subject. It’s written from a 24/7 M/s perspective, which is not what I do, but the book itself is an indispensable guide to giving and receiving service. The phrase “if the Master doesn’t want it, it isn’t service” will be burned into my psyche for quite some time. I love this book a lot. Maybe my favorite out of all of these.

- Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation, by Princess Kali This one’s high on my reading list; I’ve heard it recommended by a number of people whose opinions on these things I trust.

- Pretty Much Anything Midori Has Ever Done Midori is a great resource for this stuff - I haven’t personally read much of her work, but she’s a well known sex educator and great at what she does. She’s known for bondage, but has a lot of range beyond that.

- This Negotiations Worksheet from Bex Talks Sex This is what I default to using a lot of the time for negotiations. Forget BDSMtest, you don’t need that, it’s no good. Just look through this worksheet’s wordbank with your partner. Big fan especially of the “how do you want to feel?” section.

Books I can kind of recommend:

- The Ultimate Guide to Kink, edited by Tristan Taormino This book is weird. There’s a lot of good info for experienced players, but some of what’s written here skeeves me out. I think if I had a top that thought the way some of the tops in here think, they would not be topping me for long. But there’s some good techniques and so on to pick up that I wouldn’t have otherwise. I liked the distinction one of the authors makes between being sadistic in the sense of inflicting pain and being sadistic in the sense of doing something your sub doesn’t “enjoy.”

- The Ritual of Dominance and Submission, by David English Man, this book fucking sucks. The writing and editing are garbage, and the fear and protocol play described need way more careful negotiation than he ever lets on, let alone recommends. This is some 50 Shades bullshit. The only time I recommend this book is to tops like me who tend to be very affirming to their partners and need a guide on how to really scare them - when their partner consents and when you negotiate it, which this book sucks at teaching you. Really good content on fear, punishment, and protocol play, really terrible presentation of the topic though. Don’t read this if you don’t already know what you’re doing.

- Paradigms of Power, by Raven Kaldera I love this book. Great book. Very focused on 24/7 M/s play though, and, being an anthology, some chapters are better than others. If you can’t read something and pick out what is and isn’t for you, don’t bother. But some really great inspiration, and generally pretty well written. Big fan of the discussion of leather throughout the book.

Hope some of these are helpful for people ^-^ for the average person reading this I recommend New Bottoming/Topping, but they’re all important parts of my library and I’ve recommended all of them to friends at some point or another.

sparklefartstheunicorn

May I also suggest Hell on Wheels and Kneeling in Spirit by Raven Kaldera, d/s companion books that address kink with a disability. They're a should read for everyone, imo. You never know when you or a partner are going to have changes in your body that affect what you can physically do. Temporary illness/injury and even just age can affect your sex life.

dogspouse

I'd like to suggest Better Bondage for Every Body! It goes really in depth on anatomy, pain processing, self-tying, and has chapters specifically focusing on how to do rope bondage on/for someone who is disabled or has chronic pain, which was really important to me.

friendlycoffeefiend

reblogging specifically for these last additions bc I don't think I've ever seen resources for kink w/ disability

#cruel-reblogs #important post of all time

ickybrunette

hey i’m really glad u liked my post u sick disgusting perverted freak

#cruel-reblogs

y0urmindisg0ne-deactivated20260

When someone really cares about you; they will want to brainwash you and control you. It's a love language to be hypnotized and mindfucked until you're a drooling toy.

#cruel-reblogs #normal people get mild cute aggression from things like puppies #i get extreme cute aggression from pathetic subs #it's a compliment that i want to make you stupid and docile; it'll make it easier to take the beatings

the-sensitive-sadist

Mating press feels so fucking feral it's unbelievable how good it is for cnc breeding. I need to force myself inside you, dig my fingers into your hip, wrap a hand around your mouth, sink my teeth into your shoulder, and forcefully thrust into you until I bottom out in your hole, holding you as tightly as I possibly can while I brutally victimize you for my own pleasure.

#cruel-reblogs

the-sensitive-sadist

I get off so much on spanking it almost feels genuinely problematic. I'm obsessed with the unbelievable power I hold over you when you're pinned over my knee, tied to a spanking bench, or bent over something, vulnerable and waiting to be painfully used. I constantly think about the progression from surprised yelps with each slap, to pained screams and tormented moans. I adore the way skin goes from a pretty shade of pink to a dark, glorious red, to deeper, beautifully dark purples and greens.

I love how pretty bruises look the day after a hard spanking. I love changing my tempo of swats, slowly down or unexpectedly speeding up so you don't have any time to brace before I hit you. I love groping your ass and digging my fingers into the marks I'm leaving on you. I love pulling your hair and making you kiss me while I beat you, sticking my tongue in your mouth while I slap you again and again. I love biting your ass between rough swats. I love groping your chest when I hit you, so you really feel like a powerless piece of meat. I love pausing for a few seconds and teasing you between your thighs, playing with your crotch for a few seconds or even sticking my fingers inside you before I start hitting you all over again. I love forcing toys inside you and spanking you while you keep them inside you. I love forcing your head down and making you gag for me while I hurt you. I love sweetly talking you through the pain, telling you how gorgeous you look when I fuck you up.

#cruel-reblogs #reblogging this with my special Evil reblog button

rabbitdyke

sex is when i kick you in the stomach with my boot as hard as i can

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houndmother

“i’m just so subby i can’t say no even when i really don’t want it” you are an unsafe play partner.

this-world-of-beautiful-monsters

recipe for disaster (from the revolution starts at home)

houndmother

reblogging this a second time bc i think it’s really valuable to look at what abuse in kink CAN look like instead of just discussing what it DOESNT look like. I wanna talk about this more but frankly, this isn’t where my experience lies. if anyone has posts on the topic i’d love to read them.

cruel-cannine

I do hope it's alright to comment on this without knowing OP personally, but I happen to have at least some input on one way that abuse in kink can look.

For anyone who is unaware, bratting is a high-level submissive skill. You must adequately understand what will and won't break "the game." If you do things like use the safeword to get out of a punishment and then keep on bratting, you are not respecting the terms of the game.

You are looking for a way to "win," but real brats brat with a desire to lose in the end. What they like about egging on their Dom is the aftermath, and sometimes, the feeling of having earned what's coming to them. Some do it specifically to encourage a more intense "loss."

To safeword and keep going is to leave your Dom with no moves to make. Responding dominantly after you've used the safeword should not occur, even if it appears the sub is not quitting. The risk for abuse is too high. Repaying abuse with abuse should never be in the Dom's playbook-- nor anyone's. In order to be a safe Dom, they must respond to the safeword with immediate release of the power dynamics and be ready to provide aftercare, discuss what happened, or whatever else is in your agreement-- and in whatever order specified, if applicable.

When the sub keeps bratting at this point, they are seeking a thrill or power trip not agreed upon by both parties. This constitutes a misstep at best (when the situation is brief, new, low-impact, and quickly learned from), or abuse at worst.

Three very similar, slightly different things:

Do not use the safeword as a weapon to disarm your Dom, just so you can do what you want without the consequences you agreed on.

Do not yellow-light a punishment you've agreed to, and then continue bratting or misbehaving just because your Dom can no longer do anything about it without invoking a punishment you did not agree to, thus violating your agreement.

Do not repeatedly do things which you've both outlined as "disobedient" in your agreement, and then keep yellow- or red-lighting right before you receive the agreed-upon consequences, just to again "disobey" and keep playing chicken with the aftermath.

Your safety tools are not a toy, nor a weapon.

If you desire the immersive, CNC thrill of safewording and having it ignored, agree upon a fake safeword that you both can easily distinguish from the real one.

If what you want is to experience a power trip, you and your partner must both consent to it. Just ask them if you can Dom. If they say no-- or you know they'll say no, which is why you won't ask-- so your solution is to exploit bratting in this way to get your fill, you are non-consensually dominating your partner, which is abuse.

And as a last side-note, for the love of fuck, don't use bratting as an excuse to genuinely trigger your Dom, and then get upset when they're the one who ends the scene. Doms are not robots. We can have limits, too-- as well as genuine psychological triggers that should not be invoked in an effort to earn consequences.

#cruel-reblogs #important post of all time #tw kink #k!nk community #k!nk tag #k!nk blog #bd/sm sadist #bratting

whateverimhthr

a “brat” is a thing you hit until it’s not anymore. hope this helps. 👍

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knittedmittensstuff-deactivated

Do u get hard from hurting me be honest (say yes say yes say yes please say yes say yes plseas pleae)

#cruel-reblogs #it just so happens that your suffering is my lifeblood.

puppygirllaika

people act like CNC is some evil irredeemable kink as if it's not literally just you and your partner(s) deciding that today opposite day.

puppygirllaika

"But if we let people play the floor is lava around the house, it normalizes being careless around real lava!" that's y'all. that's how you sound.

#cruel-reblogs

predbaited

the only people welcome on my blog are insane people, deplorable sexual perverts, drug addicts, and people trying to either get more insane or more perverted and deplorable or more addicted to drugs.

predbaited

if you are all six, however, i must insist you see me in my office immediately for. reasons.

#cruel-reblogs #don't mind if i do.#just to be clear this is all doubly true for my blog.

predbaited

the only people welcome on my blog are insane people, deplorable sexual perverts, drug addicts, and people trying to either get more insane or more perverted and deplorable or more addicted to drugs.

#cruel-reblogs #and what do i win if i'm six for six bunny?

95 + 96 for the hypno ask meme?

95. Resistance Play

🌀🌀🌀🌀🌀/5

As a hypnodom who rather arrogantly enjoys both total control and winning, resistance play is highly attractive. The overarching theme of inevitable defeat persists throughout most forms of my domination, frankly. Yet resistance play hypnosis is unique in the way that it can be used to forcibly manipulate my subject's efforts to resist defeat into a tool to directly cause said defeat. It feels deliciously powerful.

96. Fractionation

🌀🌀🌀🌀🌀/5

A cornerstone of hypnosis, in my opinion, and coincidentally it pairs well with the above topic, as it does with most. Not only do I enjoy how severely it can deepen a trance, but I love to watch them lose over.. and over... and over again. Give them a few actions to carry out when triggered to drop— like rolling their eyes back, sticking their tongue out; especially if they'd find it too humiliating to do out of trance— and it's a real treat for both the eyes, and the sense of control that my soul craves.

#beggars can be askers #cruel-games #hypno ask game #hypnodom #hypno k1nk #resistance play #resistance play hypnosis #fractionation #fractionation hypnosis

hypnoticdom1

Hyper-Specific Hypnokinks Ask Game

*Set in fantasy or consensual, safe kink context*

Send an ask for thoughts on/rating of

1. Puppeteering

2. Robotization

3. Controlling someone/being controlled with a remote control

4. Body/Mental Transformation

5. Zombification

6. Alien Hypnosis

#cruel-reblogs #cruel-games #hypno ask game #as a tist only (non-negotiable)— i will likely be using the simple 0-5 spiral rating scale.

Perhaps a post this, dare I say, vulnerable is a bit out of the ordinary for me, though I am plagued with this nagging urge to express in its entirety this shadow of sadism looming over me today. I find myself, on days such as this, with a near-overwhelming desire for outright cruelty. I find myself tortured by the need to develop an airtight agreement— outlining every hard limit we can conceive, and implementing highly-communicative safewords for when we encounter those we hadn't— so that I may shed my humanity fully and completely, let go of every inhibition, and lose myself entirely in this animalistic, monstrous lust for violent relief. A longing to channel the discomfort— the suffering, the pain— of a health flare-up this bad into a truly disgusting display of sadistic release.

I need to make you scream. I need to make you cry. I need to see you claw helplessly at the floor as you try to get away. To surprise you with the extent of my brutality; to see your fear and desperation grow. To hear you beg with the decoy safeword that I get to ignore. To push up against your real limits consistently, over and over, for hours; to keep you so close to tapping out— to offer you just enough mercy to stay in the game for me. To get wholly lost in the fantasy; to get you wholly lost in the fantasy. To watch you break down; to watch you cycle through every stage of grief. And, in the end, to turn your head towards me under my boot— your face so carefully bloodied— and watch you smile, gasping to catch your breath. And you thank me. And maybe without such explicit wording, I thank you, too.

soluksuret-deactivated20260516

#cruel-reblogs #primal sadist #primal dom #dom sadist #cnc k!nk #con noncon #r@pe play k!nk #i tend to be a mildly-distinguished text-based blog #but occasionally i find a good deal of fun in being rather blatantly perverted.#in general i dislike being degraded— though something about the desperate way in which rapemeat spews insults as i'm groping them #definitely does something for me.#i love watching them fight a losing battle with all they've got. it's cute.

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