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Human relationships are not transactional but they are reciprocal, which I think many of you with your ‘i don’t owe anyone anything’ shtick are too happy to forget

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Transactional: everything has to be exactly 50/50 all the time, pay me back for the £5 sandwich or buy me something worth exactly £5, I refuse to make an effort for you if there’s nothing in it for me

Reciprocal: you were there for me when I needed help, and I’m going to do the same for you, it doesn’t matter if one of us needs more or is capable of less, because the point is not equivalent exchange but mutual care

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zhongguo yuanzi·mengxiyuan, 中国院子·梦溪苑, hangzhou, zhejiang province of china (photos by JunC)

#nature

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#winter #comfort

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#me as a person I think #winter

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I shall hold the child.

#bug friends

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can't stop thinking abt this image. he smelled an icky smell and it was soscary

#me in public in proximity to someone wearing too much perfume/cologne

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brb trying this

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#god I wish a wolf would eat boulder #lmao

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What my soul craves

We weren't followed, were we?

Gouache, 9x12 inches, Feb. 2025

A HUGE thank you to @wild-e-eep for taking the most beautiful and inspiring photos of moss, lichen, and fungi. Stunning photography and ever so kind as to give me permission to use as reference.

If anyone needs a soundtrack for gazing at my artwork just look up Thomas J. Curran it's all I listened to while painting this one.

Prints available hereeeeee

This is partly a love letter to the rocky landscapes and caves of Tennessee. An ancient nature spirit, patient and wise. This piece is avail

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Some process photos, for funsies! I’d say this one was a 8 to 10 hour painting, done over like a week and a half? Two weeks?

this too shall pass

HURRY UP

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#nature #comfort

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IF YOU ARE UNMARRIED, DON'T HAVE KIDS, AND HATE YOUR PARENTS PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD HAVE A FUCKING WILL

this has been a public service announcement from your friendly neighborhood probate lawyer

charmedatlaw

Again:

1. The law doesn't care how long your parents and family have been out of your life

2. The law doesn't care about your long term friends or "found family"

If you don't have legal documents that say otherwise, your biological family calls all the shots.

This goes especially for LGBTQ+. Please do not get deadnamed in your obituary.

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How to make a will.

How to make a living will (Advance Healthcare Directive) so you don’t get fucked over by biological family if you end up in a situation where you cannot make your own healthcare choices.

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If youre trans, this video is a good ref to start with and she provides links and organizations that can help

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also have a designated medical power of attorney. even worse than your shitty parents getting control of your estate is your shitty parents getting control of your still-living but incapacitated body.

no, having a chill adult sibling isn't enough, it still defaults to parents for some dumbass reason even if your parents are old as balls. if you want your chill adult sibling to be your emergency decisionmaker, get it in writing.