The Ancient Magusâ Bride Revisited: Yup, Itâs Still Bad
Thereâs something I find wholly unpleasant about the way many fans discuss The Ancient Magusâ Bride. 1) itâs the same few ideas expressed nearly verbatim and 2) itâs very centered on dismissing very troubling trends in narratives that involve toxic, abusive relationships between girls and adult men. Anyway, sit down, have a taco, this spiel might take a while.
It should go without saying that romantic relationships between teenagers and adults are always unhealthy. Ephebophilic/pedophilic relationships really shouldnât be justified or defended. However, The Ancient Magusâ Bride tries its damnedest to portray the focal relationship as anything but inherently dangerous and as something the audience should avidly support and root for. Despite what some fans claim that the series isnât necessarily focused on a romantic pairing between Chise and Elias, the narrative does in many ways convey a budding romance with both characters. The images below depict Chise and Eliasâ intensely intimate interactions and convey rather overtly romantic overtones, and even sexual undertones at times:Â
For the record, I hated putting this together. Just looking at these images make me sick. Itâs so fucking gross. A 15/16-year-old girl should never be portrayed like this with a grown man, itâs revolting.
Thereâs no denying that there is a burgeoning romantic love between Chise and Elias and itâs one that isnât depicted as abhorrent. Whether or not the characters are themselves aware of the romantic, sexual chemistry between them doesnât matter because the creator knows and we the audience know better. Â
Another excuse often utilized by fans to condone this romance (or at least very dubious relationship) is the idea that Elias is childishly naĂŻve; that he doesnât really understand that he shouldnât propose to marry a scared, traumatized teenage girl he just bought, that he doesnât know itâs inappropriate for him to forcibly disrobe and bathe said girl, that he canât really control his emotions and actions much like a petulant child, and so on. Firstly, it doesnât make sense that he wouldnât understand basic human behavior, social constructs, and standards. Heâs worked alongside humans for centuries, so his ridiculously selective ignorance only exists for the author to excuse his dangerous behavior toward Chise. In fact, when Angelica rightfully admonishes him for treating Chise poorly, Eliasâ reaction indicates he knew what he did was wrong.
Elias just bought a teenage girl as a slave, proposed to her, and forcibly undressed and bathed her. Now, heâs being called a pervert for doing all that! Isnât human trafficking and child grooming hilarious!! ROFL!!!11!!đđ¤Łđđ¤Ž
Eliasâ feigned naivetĂŠ is a clumsy attempt to make him palatable and sympathetic, and while I would like to say it failed it clearly hasnât. Most viewers and readers are more than willing to infantilize âboneheadâ Elias to defend or understate his actions.Â
Goddammit! Human Supremacy strikes again!!! Elias said non-human monster rights!!! I am the Wokest of all, you see!!!!Â
Despite how little sense it makes in-universe, even if Elias doesnât understand the implications of proposing to a girl, the creator understands, and the audience understands that Elias x Chise is the endgame. Why else would it be called âThe Ancient Magusâ Brideâ? Though no matter how hard the creator and fans try to coddle and baby Elias while supporting his forced, noxious relationship with Chise, all I see is a manipulative, possessive man whoâs gradually grooming a vulnerable 15-year-old girl into his ideal future bride. Still other fans, while they donât necessarily infantilize Elias, they treat Elias and Chise as if theyâre virtually equals. Nevertheless, despite these fansâ insistence, the pair are not on equal footing in their hazardously dysfunctional relationship. It really doesnât matter that Chise occasionally scolds Elias and stands up to his abuse, because she has very little control of their relationship (i.e., sheâs a child, he bought her, heâs a more experienced magic user, he has an established career, a luxurious home, etc.) and unless she leaves him permanently, her safety will never be guaranteed. Their relationship is too riddled with unsettling power imbalances, stemming mostly from Chise being a child, far too many for them to be even remotely compatible. Â
Even if the story had avoided that innate nastiness of child grooming, Elias is still very possessive and manipulative. If ephebophilia/pedophilia werenât enough of a red flag with him, the writer had to make the slow burn between Elias and Chise even more sickening with Eliasâ controlling and domineering tendencies. While fans argue that his behavior is acknowledged as detrimental, as Chise leaves him for some time as a result. However, fans fail to consider how his actions should have ended the relationship, permanently; Chise should never have returned to him. Even when âcalled outâ nothing will ever change the fact that he BOUGHT her and that she is, technically his SLAVE. He didnât save her from servitude or worse by being a âgoodâ master. Itâs despicable that this story tries to make human trafficking and enslavement seem like itâs justifiable. Also, Elias continues to spy on Chise, claim that she is his as if sheâs an object, and generally discourages her from engaging with others. He destroyed college admission offers for Chise! He almost killed a child due to his possessiveness of Chise!!! He even seemingly almost eats Chise because of his maniacal jealousy???
Excerpt from Wikipedia episode synopsis: âChise becomes afraid Elias may be about to eat her and sends a distress signal to Ruth. [âŚ] Chise realises Elias is jealous of Stella and having a childish temper tantrum.â This fucker physically assaults her, but sure itâs just âa childish temper tantrum,â because heâs a violent man-baby who canât control himself. Fuck this godforsaken pile of shit. Â
These actions canât be forgiven or dismissed like a partner who tends to forget anniversaries, is a bit of a braggart and know-it-all, borrows clothes without asking or some other minor flaw. No, these are HUGE red flags that read âGET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN.â Not only is he controlling, but he also claims to not be able to control his most primal and destructive urges if he doesnât get what he wants. There are predatory people who act exactly like Elias. Abusive people who claim that they canât control their fits of anger that result in physical, psychological, and emotional trauma. These abusersâ behavior canât be âfixedâ by those they abuse; it shouldnât be Chiseâs responsibility to repair a broken, troubled yet extremely dangerous man who wants to wife her up. This isnât some obstacle to be overcome by the pair, itâs a clear reason for Chise to remove him from her life. The best outcome for Chise would be to get away from an absolute menace like Elias. Plain and simple. Though of course thatâs obviously not going to happen, because it is a wretched nightmare of a story.Â
I know Iâm not the first person to express all these ideas about The Ancient Magusâ Bride, and I know I wonât be the last. Itâs just that direct rebuttals to typical fan assertions are lacking whenever critics of the series take issue with its flaws regarding the main characters and their interactions. Anyway, this was my take on the most common defenses of Elias Ainsworth and his reprehensible relationship with Chise Hatori which is so central to the plot of the series. Now pardon me while IâŚÂ
