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30+ f / esl / mdni

[gatoradegoblin]

pride is a no terfs allowed event. y’all don’t respect trans women, don’t go to an event they created.

[bastion-of-class-and-accuracy]

Some revisionist history on this lovely Tuesday

[bellaforwhomittolls]

Have you literally never read anything about LGBT history? Marsha P Johnson, a TRANS WOMAN, thres the first brick at stonewall. Trans people have been integral to the movement from the beginning and het have been left in the dust by reform.

But Marsha saying so, is still not enough for them.

@babybsweettea do YOU? Everything you said is fucking wrong. Maybe don’t lecture people on not reading anything about LGBT history when you clearly haven’t either. You’re a damn clown.

[cheesyradfem]

Anyway the first pride parade was organized by gay men Fred Sargent And Craig Rodwell and lesbians Linda Rhodes and Ellen Brody. Don’t let the historical revisionists claim that gays and lesbians weren’t at the forefront of their own liberation movement!

[weaverlegaspi]

Also… fucking LGB rights and pain is more than just Stonewall. So much damn more. Go read a history book OP, not just get cult brainwashed by Tumblr. For the love of…. arghhhhh….

[mithliya]

marsha’s words regarding stonewall: 

but ok, i guess marsha saying “i wasnt there at stonewall when the riots started” and “im just a gay man in drag” is all meaningless, and we owe every single event in our history worldwide to marsha, and marsha was somehow a trans woman despite her own statements that she’s not. and the organisers of the first pride march had nothing to do with it too. totally not revisionist.

[gendercritquinn]

Considering now a days terf is just a synonym for woman I don’t like and actual lesbian that’s not down with the girl dique, that first couple of posts is very on brand for TRAs.

Sorry OP, when you’re wrong you’re wrong.

[the-rad-menace]

In 2022, trans activists beat and shoved Fred Sargent, one of the actual founders of Pride, to the ground at a Pride event. They threw a drink on him to further humiliate him. You people know nothing about history nor respecting the people who actually fought for LGBT rights.

[dramaqueencard]

seeing men with "anti porn dni" in their bio makes me gag.

[mareshida]

if you were mentally healthy, you wouldn’t be tortured by the existence of your body , and you wouldn’t feel the need to medically or cosmetically alter your otherwise healthy body . idk why it’s so hard for them to admit that yes dysphoria is a mental illness … maybe because it clashes with the “ being trans is innate and something you’re born as ” bs ?

either way , recognizing a mental illness for what it is isn’t ableism at all . if anything , it’s wayy more ableist to treat the label “ mental illness ” as something degrading and to deny the real harm that conditions like dysphoria cause

[servin-terf-haha]

TRANS PEOPLE EXIST

In a very small, mostly quiet, largely sensible portion of the noise we hear today. Most of the allegedly "trans people" we hear from today, however, are:

autogynophilic men who get off on the intimidation, fetishization, and erasure of women

confused individuals pressured by a society that vilifies whiteness, straightness, and cisness so they must be 'something else' in order to not be the oppressor

non-binary cultists who not only have confused personality traits with regressive stereotypes about gender to the point that they'd rather invent a new gender/sex (bc they are the same) than accept actual diversity in male/female presentations but also still want to feel more 'oppressed' than just non-binary so they force themselves under the trans umbrella without due cause

brainwashed children, some now adults, who never had mental health issues like closeted homosexuality, sexual trauma, or basic fears of puberty explored before a doctor (who'll make money off of this, mind you) convinced them that they were trans and kept repeating false statistics about suicide until they believed they were going to die without these irreversible, harmful, and brash mutilations

closeted homosexuals either raised on the often-unspoken notion of 'transing the gay away' or simply genuinely believed it was better to be a trans straight than a cis gay/lesbian

And that's not even touching on their cult following who, without any true knowledge or statistics to back them up, would rather ostracize detransitioners, doxx and threaten even the most nuanced of nay-sayers, use rapey language to tell lesbians (and any woman) that not wanting dick is hateful, shut down women concerned for their spaces and identities, and bootlick for a cult that is largely more sexist/misogynistic bullshit than actual progressivism, in order to prove an allyship that shouldn't exist.

The TQ part of the LGB has done more harm for actual trans people (again, those being a small fraction of the voices we hear from today) and exponentially more harm to those they've brainwashed and irrevocably damaged in their persuit of validation.

[its-terf-or-nothin]

[biblicallyaccuratemoth]

A cis woman mentions misogyny to a cis woman and they’re allowed to commiserate and show solidarity together.

A trans woman mentions misogyny to a cis woman and the cis woman trips over herself to remind the trans woman that she signed up for this and has no right to complain.

Some people really do see trans women as just tourists visiting womanhood for kicks but never really living in it.

[liberate-women-now]

"trans women" are men and do not experience misogyny whatsoever.

[hyacinthsgrimoire-deactivated20]

Trans people don't experience misogyny, they experience transphobia and they did sign up for that. While cis gendered women actually experience misogyny and they have done since birth, and it isn't a choice.

[thecoloredcanvas]

And transphobia isn't a systemic form of oppression. No country is denying you your basic human rights bc you're fucking confused about what biological sex you are due to misogynistic brainrot.

"Transphobia" 🙄

Like, most of the shit people claim as "transphobic" is just misogyny and homophobia. The only shit that's really about trans people and trans ideology is people simply . . . not believing in trans ideology. Which is neither hateful nor harmful, in the exact same way that it's not hateful nor harmful to scientologists to not believe in scientology.

Anyway, transwomen are men; they don't deserve to even speak about womanhood, let alone identify as women.

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

making up a brand new definition for a word that has had a clear definition and usage for over 100 years, and then being like “um it’s the LITERAL definition.” okay and if I changed the definition of zebra to mean 5’8 lesbian with brown hair, I’d be the LITERAL DEFINITION of a zebra. like…?? we all can change definitions but it doesn’t mean shit to the general population. if you come out to someone who’s normal and doesn’t have blue hair, a septum piercing, an associates degree in tumblr discourse studies, a bachelors in queer theory, and a masters in reposting liberal instagram infographics, they will interpret it to mean you’re a female homosexual, because we all fucking know what lesbian means!

also i was trolling and pretending to be nice and queer when im actually evil an gay in the third comment screenshot baiting these idiots into saying that two gay guys can be lesbians, and they actually did! sam smith and jonathan van ness could actually be a LESBIAN couple if they just decided to be one. wonderful. that’s so fucking wonderful.

[femratical]

What women’s only spaces are transwomen even complaining about? They’ve invaded and destroyed almost every single one of them. They’re in every lesbian bar, every female social club, every women’s shelter, every woman-centric event, every hint of girl power must also reference them or risk being called transphobic. Hell, women just looking for female roommates are called intolerant bigots. What more could you possibly want from us?

[a-lesbian-feminist]

It's our vaginas. When I was part of the trans movement, I asked the TIMs in the group I was part of what they actually wanted, what the "cis women only" spaces are, because they'd already changed policy to make sure they'd be allowed into female bathrooms and locker rooms, which were the only gendered spaces around.

They said they were still excluded socially, from social female spaces. I asked them to elaborate, and I was told that it was very common for "terf lesbians" to refuse to have sex with trans women. That it was a barrier to inclusion, and that lesbians have "more power than anyone" because we "deny their identity" by refusing to have sex with them.

That's it. They can be allowed into any place they want, but they won't stop until they're allowed inside our bodies as well. That conversation was my crack in the brainwashing, and it's what led to me leaving the group and questioning gender ideology again.

[dramaqueencard]

boobs - the most essential aspect of womanhood.

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

hint:

if you find your dick getting hard while watching lesbian porn, it is not a sign that you are a lesbian, it’s a reminder that you’re a man. lesbians don’t have penises.

[dramaqueencard]

it's like "becoming a woman" is nothing but a trend and something people do because they want to feel special.

[dramaqueencard]

apparently being assaulted is the same thing as being murdered.

also:

[gendercriticalbutch]

since pride month's coming up just a friendly reminder that the stonewall riots were sparked by biracial butch lesbian/drag king Stormé DeLarverie's resistance to an NYPD raid at the Stonewall Inn.

it was NOT Marsha P. Johnson who "threw the first brick." Marsha arrived to the riots hours after they had already started. he also was not a transwoman, and has described himself as a gay man/drag queen in multiple interviews. (massive credit to twitter user Zombie_Jesus_v3 for finding all these clips. if you have twitter I'd recommend giving that entire thread a read. it puts to bed all the Marsha P. Johnson myths people are still constantly perpetuating for some reason) anyways some respect on Stormé's name. thanks.

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

what a condescending, patronizing, mocking thing to say to women who are worried about being raped, harassed, used in a public fetish act-out, and flashed with genitals. those terrifying creatures with penises actually are terrifying. every women has experienced some level of creepiness from a male, usually starting at a very young age. beyond that, a very huge amount of women have been raped by males, by penises. despite the near constant threat of sexualization, degradation and misogyny from males, no one is advocating for the majority of daily life to be sex-segregated. women are being very reasonable about the whole thing really. just places where we are in states of undress (remember that whole thing I mentioned about being sexualized if not outright raped) like bathrooms and locker rooms, or where male-female integration leads to harm being done to women, like sports, where male inclusion leads to female self-exclusion, injuries, and again, exposure to male genitals in locker rooms.

i’m sure these people would agree that they are all for consent. in a post “me too” world, most people who consider themselves progressive would say that consent is important to them. do people not retain the right to CHOOSE when they see genitals? when you encounter a female locker room, you know that there is a chance you will some naked female bodies, breasts, and female genitalia. based on that, you can choose if you would like to walk into the locker room. if you encounter a female locker room, it is not a reasonable assumption that you will possibly be exposed to male naked bodies, and male genitalia. confronting women who decided to make that choice, and walk into a female locker room, with a naked male body and a penis, is not fair. when the sign outside the door saying “women’s locker room” actually denoted a co-ed, mixed sex space, you are taking away women’s ability to have informed consent when deciding whether they want to to walk into that space. i heard a story on the podcast Women Are Real told by a mother or grandmother (I can’t remember) living in California (of course) whose daughter/granddaughter who I believe was no older than 16, who had never seen male genitalia in her life before, was confronted by a naked male body and penis in the gym locker room, because of “inclusivity”. this young girl’s right to choose if and when she sees male genitalia for the first time was taken from her. it is a big deal. on the street, when deliberately confronted by unexpected genitalia, it is called flashing, and recognized as a sex crime. how exactly is this different? i hate to be dramatic, but these people who advocate for spaces presented as being single-sex to actually be co-ed and based on internal gender identity, are anti-informed-consent and advocating for women and girls to be flashed. sorry, but it’s true.

if the locker room was labeled “co-ed locker room” and then people complained about seeing male and female naked bodies and male and female genitalia, yeah that would be stupid. but you are not giving women and girls the choice to walk into a co-ed space, because you’re labeling the co-ed space as FEMALE!!! what about consent? what about choice?

[shewolfbite]

Something I’ve observed in certain corners of gender discourse: a version of “womanhood” that feels less like lived female experience & more like a direct caricature pulled from porn tropes.

The exaggerated hyper-femininity, constant emphasis on sexual performance, exaggerated body proportions, heavy sexual signaling, & framing femininity almost entirely around male gaze fantasy. It reads like they studied adult videos as the blueprint for what a woman is, then tried to embody the most surface-level, over-the-top version of it.

Real womanhood has never been this one-note or performative. It’s layered with biology, social reality, resilience, & depth that goes far beyond bedroom aesthetics or constant availability.

Porn is truly the enemy of women & the costume for modern trans identity.

[dramaqueencard]

in case you didn't know: you can't be a trans woman without also being a misogynist. it's simply not possible.

[quinntheestallion]

Something that pisses me off about troon logic is that they don’t even just want to be women. They think some pills and wigs are gonna make them the hot, popular girls who model and prance around looking perfect in miniskirts? 😂 Like you think that just comes for free with “being a woman”?

It’s like a girl who thinks transition will automatically make her into LeBron James or the jacked male athlete.

Like it’s not even about “gender”, they’re after a hyper specific experience and form of social status they’ve fetishized.