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jac. 23. 18+.

[maja-paja]

[gunsandfireandshit]

[bace-jeleren]

[silvermoon424]

[jbt7493]

has anyone noticed that sometimes you take incorrect or undesirable actions instead of the correct and desirable ones? what's up with that

[dream-rot]

i am so cooked. nothing makes me happy anymore. i feel like a shell. i’ve barely been anywhere but work in months and i tried to take myself out on a little date the other day and ended up driving around crying instead of actually stopping anywhere. i don’t know how to make friends now that i don’t have college to rely on. my only friends right now are my roommates and i don’t even see them that often. its even hard talking to online friends i just don’t have the energy. it’s hard talking to my family. it’s hard to get out of bed. and this is apparently a completely normal phenomenon that they call being 23

[dream-rot]

not to be all “singing killed my grandma” on main but it’s so hard taking medication every single day when opening my pills is a constant reminder of the two people i’ve lost to an overdose

[epicsause-official]

just got an idea for a banger couples shirts design

[pocket-deer-belly]

Everyone wanted to be thicc but nobody wanted to be fat. Everyone wanted the dad bod but nobody wanted to be fat. Everyone wants fat mommy milkers but nobody wants mommy to be fat. Everyone wants to be a bear but not like, an actual fat bear. You get what i’m saying

[pocket-deer-belly]

Everyone wants the mistique of fatness or use the language of fatness to denote hotness without actually being fat or acknowledging that fat people or fatness can just be hot.

[grizzlekicks]

a few months ago my past roommate (who is naturally thin) said he wanted to bulk up to being “fat as fuck,” and even specified his goal weight - mine.

haven’t forgotten it and never will

you want fatness until it’s non aesthetic. i can guarantee he’d cry if he woke up in my body tomorrow

[audible-smiles]

the worst part of summer is that people get sooo comfortable expressing their disgust at having to see other people’s bodies. they’re always complaining about wrinkly old men at the nude hot springs or fat women in bikinis at the beach. I hate that shit. if you’re not capable of being normal about bodies you personally don’t find attractive, just turn your head to look at something else! and if you’re not smart enough to do that, then at least do the rest of us the courtesy of suffering in silence, because we don’t wanna hear your weird comments. thanks.

[skarchomp]

advertising lemonade is pointless. the human body already knows it needs it

[typingwithmyhandstied]

a friend with a boyfriend is a type of dead wife

[firstfullmoon]

Maria Gray, “[Years of pelvic floor therapy]”

[caspercryptid]

I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.

I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.

[squishysphealgirls]

"you understand" is a common phrase exchanged between perverts

[tropiyas]

[opencommunion]

people who tell you to stop reading the news to "regulate your nervous system" do not have your best interests at heart. if following current events makes you spiral you probably need a better analytical frame, not less information

[opencommunion]

and the analytical frame you need is probably dialectical materialism

[opencommunion]

i'm totally crazy, i freak out all the time, but you know what helps me most? learning. reading. studying. discussing. sometimes you do need a nap, but sometimes you need a conversation with someone more knowledgeable/experienced, or a day at the (physical or digital) library. and really i think everyone has a different baseline emotional register that's best for them and their circumstances, but i recommend aiming to feel solid and anchored, not necessarily "calm." of course we won't feel "calm" after reading about genocide. but if we approach what we're reading correctly, it can strengthen our resolve; feed our fighting spirit; show us paths to liberation. a lot of people in my life have diagnosed me with "revolutionary optimism" and wonder how i maintain that mindset but i'm not an optimist by nature, it all comes from studying

[storm-of-feathers]

a severe thunderstorm warning that doesnt follow through is worse than orgasm denial

[lunaotic]

The Invisible Goodbye - Lunaotic