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25 ways to be a little more punk in 2025
Cut fast fashion - buy used, learn to mend and/or make your own clothes, buy fewer clothes less often so you can save up for ethically made quality
Cancel subscriptions - relearn how to pirate media, spend $10/month buying a digital album from a small artist instead of on Spotify, stream on free services since the paid ones make you watch ads anyway
Green your community - there's lots of ways to do this, like seedbombing or joining a community garden or organizing neighborhood trash pickups
Be kind - stop to give directions, check on stopped cars, smile at kids, let people cut you in line, offer to get stuff off the high shelf, hold the door, ask people if they're okay
Intervene - learn bystander intervention techniques and be prepared to use them, even if it feels awkward
Get closer to your food - grow it yourself, can and preserve it, buy from a farmstand, learn where it's from, go fishing, make it from scratch, learn a new ingredient
Use opensource software - try LibreOffice, try Reaper, learn Linux, use a free Photoshop clone. The next time an app tries to force you to pay, look to see if there's an opensource alternative
Make less trash - start a compost, be mindful of packaging, find another use for that plastic, make it a challenge for yourself!
Get involved in local politics - show up at meetings for city council, the zoning commission, the park district, school boards; fight the NIMBYs that always show up and force them to focus on the things impacting the most vulnerable folks in your community
DIY > fashion - shake off the obsession with pristine presentation that you've been taught! Cut your own hair, use homemade cosmetics, exchange mani/pedis with friends, make your own jewelry, duct tape those broken headphones!
Ditch Google - Chromium browsers (which is almost all of them) are now bloated spyware, and Google search sucks now, so why not finally make the jump to Firefox and another search like DuckDuckGo? Or put the Wikipedia app on your phone and look things up there?
Forage - learn about local edible plants and how to safely and sustainably harvest them or go find fruit trees and such accessible to the public.
Volunteer - every week tutoring at the library or once a month at the humane society or twice a year serving food at the soup kitchen, you can find something that matches your availability
Help your neighbors - which means you have to meet them first and find out how you can help (including your unhoused neighbors), like elderly or disabled folks that might need help with yardwork or who that escape artist dog belongs to or whether the police have been hassling people sleeping rough
Fix stuff - the next time something breaks (a small appliance, an electronic, a piece of furniture, etc.), see if you can figure out what's wrong with it, if there are tutorials on fixing it, or if you can order a replacement part from the manufacturer instead of trashing the whole thing
Mix up your transit - find out what's walkable, try biking instead of driving, try public transit and complain to the city if it sucks, take a train instead of a plane, start a carpool at work
Engage in the arts - go see a local play, check out an art gallery or a small museum, buy art from the farmer's market
Go to the library - to check out a book or a movie or a CD, to use the computers or the printer, to find out if they have other weird rentals like a seed library or luggage, to use meeting space, to file your taxes, to take a class, to ask question
Listen local - see what's happening at local music venues or other events where local musicians will be performing, stop for buskers, find a favorite artist, and support them
Buy local - it's less convenient than online shopping or going to a big box store that sells everything, but try buying what you can from small local shops in your area
Become unmarketable - there are a lot of ways you can disrupt your online marketing surveillance, including buying less, using decoy emails, deleting or removing permissions from apps that spy on you, checking your privacy settings, not clicking advertising links, and...
Use cash - go to the bank and take out cash instead of using your credit card or e-payment for everything! It's better on small businesses and it's untraceable
Give what you can - as capitalism churns on, normal shmucks have less and less, so think about what you can give (time, money, skills, space, stuff) and how it will make the most impact
Talk about wages - with your coworkers, with your friends, while unionizing! Stop thinking about wages as a measure of your worth and talk about whether or not the bosses are paying fairly for the labor they receive
Think about wealthflow - there are a thousand little mechanisms that corporations and billionaires use to capture wealth from the lower class: fees for transactions, interest, vendor platforms, subscriptions, and more. Start thinking about where your money goes, how and where it's getting captured and removed from our class, and where you have the ability to cut off the flow and pass cash directly to your fellow working class people
I mostly talk about transit and local politics but seriously do as much of this as you can, it really does help
Well, you know how we always teach you that sharing is caring? These business owners aren’t very caring, so even though they should pay their employees a living wage, they just don’t care about their employees :)
Somehow the most gender-affirming thing at my job is my admin supervisor, who makes a point of greeting everyone in the morning. Men get a handshake, women get an air kiss to the cheek. (He’s French, don’t ask.)
He always hesitates when he gets to me.
And SOMEHOW, so far he’s always gotten it right. On days I’m feeling more fem he goes for the kiss, on days I’m feeling more masc he opts for the handshake.
Important to note: I’m not out as genderqueer/nonbinary at work, do not wear pronoun pins or other identifiers, and have never expressed a preference for either greeting. It’s literally just vibes.
Admin supervisor, a very meek, normcore-y middle aged man with a wife and 3 kids, has ultra-sensitive gender vibes detection.
You know. Somehow.
This is just absolutely amazing.
Yes
i just wanted to say if you're a bi/multigender, genderfluid, genderqueer, intersex, two spirit, non binary, gnc, butch, stud, or other trans woman who isn't a 100% binary trans woman, society owes you so fucking much. there's no wiggle room in transfemininity under our cisheteronormative patriarchal panopticon. people freely and openly misgender you for their comfort and then act like you were the problem to begin with. people love to silence and invalidate your identities every day for the sake of their own mental "wellbeing". and it's not your fault and you don't fucking deserve it.
here's to every non binary trans woman who gets told they're not feminine enough. here's to every trans lesbian who gets told they're "invading" lesbian spaces. here's to every gnc trans woman who gets told they "dress too masc to be a trans woman". here's to every genderfluid trans woman who gets told being a man sometimes makes them not a woman. here's to every genderqueer trans woman who gets told they can't be masc or it invalidates their womanhood. here's to every butch trans woman who gets misgendered and told they're "just a man". here's to every bigender trans woman who gets told identifying as a man as well as a women isn't a thing, and that being a man cancels out being a woman.
here's to every trans woman who gets told how to be their own gender.
you are the arbiter of your own lived experience. you don't deserve constant unsolicited advice on your gender. you know what transfemininity looks like for you. you know who you are and you don't deserve a constant barrage of invalidation. society does you so dirty, you deserve so much better. your experience with gender is beautiful and deserve to be talked about, not silenced and spoken over. hang in there. you know who you are. you don't have to listen to anyone else tell you how you identify or who you "Really" are- you're the only one who knows that.
i dont consider myself a 'fashion guru' by any means but one thing i will say is guys you dont need to know the specific brand an item you like is - you need to know what the item is called. very rarely does a brand matter, but knowing that pair of pants is called 'cargo' vs 'boot cut' or the names of dress styles is going to help you find clothes you like WAAAYYYY faster than brand shopping
this also goes for aesthetic or -core titles. 'y2k tank top' is going to get you resellers and fast fashion brands advertising to people looking to meet a current trend. 'thin strap crop tank top' is going to get you a diverse group of results and not upcharge you to hell and back
additionally, shop second hand when you can, second hand and thrift sites typically organize clothes by the cut and color. theyll be more affordable than a depop seller curating you a style to sell you
useful terminology for different kinds of clothing shapes :)
Now, for legal reasons this is purely hypothetical and I would NEVER condone political violence of any kind 😉. But there’s been talk of assassinating trump because duh he sucks but then JD Vance would just take over and Republicans will be in power no matter what for the next four years. What we need to do is assassinate as many of the most conservative Supreme Court Justices as we can within these next two months so that Biden gets to elect new justices before Trump takes over. Hypothetically of course, political violence is bad, especially assassinations. Just saying.
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Literally the best thing ever!! I’m so happy I have this, my life is complete!!
Gender is a performance and I’m an improv actor
Being me is so weird.
One day I desperately want to be born in a female body.
Another day I want my body to be more androgynous .
Another day I kinda like my body.
I honestly don't know what to do... If I transitioned to female there would be some days that I want to be a guy, so I wouldn't fully solve the problem.
The best solution I found is to have a prosthesis of a breast, make-up, and some female clothes, so when I feel more femme, I wear them, and when I don't I simply don't. In any case I can't do any of these things at the moment. I'll think about it in a few years.
I keep flipping backward and forwards on this exact thing because I want to have boobs, real genuine boobs so bad but I know that if I get them, I’ll only like them half the time so idk.
dear USAmericans,
VOTING WORKS!!!
French people showed up, French people voted, turnout was higher today than it has been since 1997, and we kicked the far right to 3rd place
a week ago, the far right was the biggest party in France, we were slated for a far right parliament, prime minister, and government
this week, we voted against them en masse and we won!
VOTING WORKS!
you're up next in November! it's very rare we get to say this, but this one time, take example on the French! show up and vote!
because VOTING WORKS!
*Slams the reblog.*