I eat men like air

25. they/them. high femme lesbian.

[earlgreydyke]

i love love love being in lesbian love

[rootsoil-deactivated20260521]

reading list

stone butch blues

the persistent desire; a butchfemme reader

powers of desire; politics of sexuality

a fragile union

an interview with stonewall veteran stormé delarverie

transgender warriors

unearthed interview of marsha p. johnson & sylvia rivera

forbidden passages

how to validate your own sexuality

lesbian poetry archive

[rootsoil-deactivated20260521]

femme: feminists, lesbians, and bad girls

transmissions - interview with leslie feinberg

crime against nature

labors of love & loss: an interview with minnie bruce pratt

gender trouble

gender is burning

paris is (still) burning

[oncce-againn]

with your whole heart or don't bother

[vanillanga]

Stone Butch Blues, Leslie Feinberg

[crimson-femme]

Excerpt from “I Enjoy Being a Girl,” The Femme Mystique ed. Lesléa Newman

[dailycatsblog]

[fairycosmos]

oh to see without my eyes the first time that you kissed me. what a wild thing to write about someone

[ryan-sometimes]

Being born a lesbian was actually one of the best things to ever happen to me

[anxeious]

[riotghou1]

[east-of-nowhere]

“Home is where the trees look normal” is the sweetest, saddest, most nostalgic truth I’ve ever heard.

[thebelladonna]

It's almost laughable what the internet and very young queer people have done to the words butch and especially femme. I think I could go on for hours and hours on how important that little yet huge letter "e" is at the end of the word. People have turned this special term into something so superficial and tedious. To them "femme" simply means hyperfeminine. It's sweet, pink, docile, delicate, soft, submissive. Which of course, certain femmes actually do identity with those words but little do these people know or understand is that to be femme is to be just as hard and aggressive as what they see being butch is. It's in gesture, in stature, in autonomy, in courage, in love that is so deep and true for other butches and fellow femme sisters. Femme is something inherently erotic and so sensual. Our history literally shows that femmes used their physical privilege to protect and stand up for butches, femmes were the ones who would go out and work due to the fact that people would not hire such masculine presenting women. In conclusion, to be femme is to be beautiful and lovely but it's also to use your fucking voice and know who and what came before us.

[nixscriptum]

[gothredy]

[future-crab]

So I follow N. D. Stevenson (comics writer and animator, most famous for Nimona and She-Ra and the Princesses of Power) and his husband Lee Ostertag (also a comics writer and animator) on Instagram. When I started following them, they were both publicly presenting as women, and then a few years ago N. D. came out as transmasc nonbinary, and then earlier this year Lee also came out as transmasc. Anyway this is all setup to say that Lee had the chance to make the funniest post of all time and he took it:

Absolutely iconic.

[mizgnomer]

David and Billie answering the question: During Doctor Who filming was there any blooper or mistake that stands out to you as your favorite?

- at FanX Salt Lake, September 2025

[divorce-enjoyer]

why go to the grocery store or to a restaurant when you can just get food delivered why go to the mall when you can get same day shipping on amazon why go to the library when you have kindle why make art when there’s ai why go to the cinema when you can stay at home and watch netflix. we are in a loneliness epidemic btw

[divorce-enjoyer]

the loneliness epidemic was invented by BIG SHIT to sell you more SHIT

[decompositie]