still coping

bipolar with a mental sidearm (aspd) - 29yo - 18+!!!

[antisocialcrow]

"Stalking?" God forbid I'm detail-oriented and curious by nature.

[inaloversquarrel]

[dark-paradise-dp]

[katliabitch]

[inanotherunivrse]

in another universe i died when i was supposed to

[emotionalgraveyard]

more and more every day i think i have nothing left to lose and i just want to feel something, this is a dangerous state for me to be in

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

I'm technically bisexual but I describe myself as a lesbian because I'm totally uninterested in men. this upsets men, which is one of the many reasons I am uninterested in them

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

"theoretically, I could want to fuck you, but I don't want to fuck you" voted #1 most controversial fact about a woman

[maxxie-or-smth]

who do you think i am? looking for recommendations

[innerchildabortionclinic]

psychologists piss me off badlyyyy

[unbelievablekats]

Felt weird and now its everyones problem

[caspercryptid]

I would actually go as far as to say that MOST abuse is unintentional. I think most people will go through their lives without ever experiencing intentional abuse. People are abusive because they're selfish, because they're stressed, because they care more about what society thinks they should do than the impacts of their actions on their children and partners, because they think what they're doing is correct, because they've made it make sense in their own heads, because they think they can fix their victims, they think they can fix their relationships, they think they can stop you from leaving, they think they can make you a better partner to them, they think that means you need to do what they want. We've sort of constructed mental illness in a way that doing this shit to other people counts as a form of mental illness because it is anti social behavior in the literal sense— it is behavior that causes social harm.

I don't say any of this to excuse it. I think everyone needs to be more aware of this because if you think abuse has to be intentional you will never realize you are capable of abusive behavior. You will never realize you are being shitty to the people you love, because YOU know what you mean, YOU know you don't mean any harm. But you're doing harm. You need to pay attention to the impact you have on other people, and you need to do it all the time, Especially when you feel least capable of doing so. Sorry! You live in a society. Get your head out of your ass.

[bold-baddie]

[taxidermybunnyy]

[theehorsepusssy]

[kaomoji-kun]

A lot of self-proclaimed "psychopaths" and "sociopaths" on tumblr seem to think that constantly saying slurs and being far-right is what being a psychopath/sociopath is all about.

That's not a lack of empathy, that's a lack of intelligence. Lacking intelligence isn't an ASPD thing. Stop trying to make it one.

[gothredy]

[sapphling]

i'm just not going to tolerate any hand-waving sentiment towards forcible institutionalization to the effect of "oh, you know, that's mostly just done to the real crazies." i have been the real crazies! suicidal people and homeless people and schizophrenic people and people with "intrusive" symptoms are not asides in your argument about how soon this might start affecting real people who actually deserve freedom and self determination