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Claire Keane
we're not kids anymore.
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taylor price
I'd rather be in outer space 🛸

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What is your new year’s resolution?
I want to start dating and meet new people
Not let my anxiety ruin my mood or plans
Not letting negative people that don’t matter take up space in my mind
to stop my anxiety from stopping me doing the things i wanna do
Try and draw once a week, wear my hair down more and pursue my dreams of becoming a pastry chef
Not let my mental illness ruin my relationship, remember to communicate.
Be more true to my self, exceed in my passions, and be healthy.
Order out less, cook more, start baking, start seriously working on my mental health
Finish grad school, take care of my physical and mental health, purchase my first car
Be more kind and grateful and take care of my mental health and communicate better
I’m????
Oh my God this actually explains so much.
So there’s a known thing in the study of human psychology/sociology/what-have-you where men are known to, on average, rely entirely on their female romantic partner for emotional support. Bonding with other men is done at a more superficial level involving fun group activities and conversations about general subjects but rarely involves actually leaning on other men or being really honest about emotional problems. Men use alcohol to be able to lower their inhibitions enough to expose themselves emotionally to other men, but if you can’t get emotional support unless you’re drunk, you have a problem.
So men need to have a woman in their lives to have anyone they can share their emotional needs and vulnerabilities with. However, since women are not socialized to fear sharing these things, women’s friendships with other women are heavily based on emotional support. If you can’t lean on her when you’re weak, she’s not your friend. To women, what friendship is is someone who listens to all your problems and keeps you company.
So this disconnect men are suffering from is that they think that only a person who is having sex with you will share their emotions and expect support. That’s what a romantic partner does. But women think that’s what a friend does. So women do it for their romantic partners and their friends and expect a male friend to do it for them the same as a female friend would. This fools the male friend into thinking there must be something romantic there when there is not.
This here is an example of patriarchy hurting everyone. Women have a much healthier approach to emotional support – they don’t die when widowed at nearly the rate that widowers die and they don’t suffer emotionally from divorce nearly as much even though they suffer much more financially, and this is because women don’t put all their emotional needs on one person. Women have a support network of other women. But men are trained to never share their emotions except with their wife or girlfriend, because that isn’t manly. So when she dies or leaves them, they have no one to turn to to help with the grief, causing higher rates of death, depression, alcoholism and general awfulness upon losing a romantic partner.
So men suffer terribly from being trained in this way. But women suffer in that they can’t reach out to male friends for basic friendship. I am not sure any man can comprehend how heartbreaking it is to realize that a guy you thought was your friend was really just trying to get into your pants. Friendship is real. It’s emotional, it’s important to us. We lean on our friends. Knowing that your friend was secretly seething with resentment when you were opening up to him and sharing your problems because he felt like he shouldn’t have to do that kind of emotional work for anyone not having sex with him, and he felt used by you for that reason, is horrible. And the fact that men can’t share emotional needs with other men means that lots of men who can’t get a girlfriend end up turning into horrible misogynistic people who think the world owes them the love of a woman, like it’s a commodity… because no one will die without sex. Masturbation exists. But people will die or suffer deep emotional trauma from having no one they can lean on emotionally. And men who are suffering deep emotional trauma, and have been trained to channel their personal trauma into rage because they can’t share it, become mass shooters, or rapists, or simply horrible misogynists.
The only way to fix this is to teach boys it’s okay to love your friends. It’s okay to share your needs and your problems with your friends. It’s okay to lean on your friends, to hug your friends, to be weak with your friends. Only if this is okay for boys to do with their male friends can this problem be resolved… so men, this one’s on you. Women can’t fix this for you; you don’t listen to us about matters of what it means to be a man. Fix your own shit and teach your brothers and sons and friends that this is okay, or everyone suffers.
The next time a guy says, “What? You don't want to be my friend?” I’ll text him this and then ask if he really wants to be friends or just have another potential girlfriend.
y’all I am living for these analyses where the new way to fight the patriarchy is to teach men to love each other and themselves
Im a communication student and can confirm the above is absolutely 100% accurate and it’s called agentic vs communal friendship theorized by Steven McCornack
Marvel owes me my sanity
Istg they owe me 4 a level grades and a stable mental health and a working liver
Avengers endgame
I can't even how did Scott get out will Tony die gidnsosk I can't even guys
How was fp so cool and hot and Jughead such a loser
I just saw
The kissing booth and to all the boys I’ve ever loved and I’m crying
BOTH MAIN GIRLS ARE LEFT HANDED 😭😭😭 I’m left handed but where’s my peter kavinsky or Noah flyn 😭
list of men i trust:
john mulaney
andy samberg
Terry Crews
• Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson
• Tom Holland
• Lin-Manuel Miranda
john cena
Bob Ross
Mr. Rogers
All of the Fab 5
Jeff Goldblum
Keanu Reeves
taika waititi
Hugh Jackman
Chandler bing
Ted mosby
So I’ve started watching The Vampire Diaries
And I love it sooo much and I’ve also started the originals and I ship klaroline 😍😍😍😍
Please polly not the babies or I’ll have Cheryl arrow you if you touch her niece and nephew
Love always wins ❤
Prince Harry married a biracial, American, divorced woman who is older than him. That too, being a British royal who is 6th in line to the throne.
I am so happy for Meghan, having a difficult childhood and strained relationship with her father and facing racism was not an easy journey but she made it. I hope they live happily ever after.
sometimes your 13-year old self teach you things. good things.
this is actually so damn important
I should do this at least once
i still keeping my old art since i was 9 years old XD
and i still proud of it :’)
i was about to cry a little bc i needed this
I have art from 5th grade. My art teacher loved me and asked for my 3rd and 4th grade art for a while as a sample but then I changed schools and I never got that art back and it still breaks my heart
How I react when life approaches me
Riverdale logic
Betty does the dance and doesn't get a jacket
Cheryl plays tonsil tennis with their queen and boom she a serpent with a custom jacket wow
And of course hal was the blackhood
I feel like riverdale is now based upon fan theories. Cause not only was Hal being the Blackhood obvious since day 1, but it was also theorized that there are multiple blackhoods that was mentioned in the promo for the next episode
I doubt jughead is actually dead cause it takes long for tombstones to be made and secondly they wouldn't show that scene in a promo and also he's the narrator and said he's never gonna die unless he was messing with us
And betty holding his hat was probs to pay respects to whoever from jugheads side