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#kingdomhearts #kingdom hearts #kh3 #khiii #organization xiii

has anyone done this yet

#is this a pigeon?#meme #funny #art #art meme

Anyone lucky enough to have Leia Organa as a mother has literally no excuse for being anything other than a pure fucking delight. And that’s the tea.

artoounit

petalpetal

its lavender

vinesforall

James: Maybe we shouldn’t get too greedy. That’s when things fall apart.

Meowth: Don’t worry that pretty blue head o’ yours, I got a plan.

James: [offscreen, lowkey annoyed] It’s lavender.

sapiomorph

I love this

also shoutout to @occamstireiron for not breaking up with me even though i spent an hour in the moma looking at a snow shovel once

#no one cares erin

ihategingfreecss-deactivated202

“Don’t force yourself into sexual situation just to satisfy your partner” should never be a radical statement

ihategingfreecss-deactivated202

This isn’t a matter of discourse. If you don’t like sex or are meh about it, then don’t force yourself to do it just for your partner. Sex isn’t a task. Sex isn’t a requirement for a relationship. If you are afraid not wanting sex is a dealbreaker for your partner, talk with them about it.

Sit down and have an actual honest talk about the matter. If your partner prefers to be with someone who is into sex while you aren’t then it’s more fair for both of you if you split up, than to try to keep together a relationship that wouldn’t work. A person who is sex repulsed/uninterested in sex deserves a partner that will respect that, and a person who likes sex deserves a partner who will respect that. Stop perpetrating bad sex rethoric for fuck’s sake

occamstireiron-deactivated20190

I think we need more nuance than this.

Obviously “don’t force yourself into sex you actively don’t want” or “don’t make assumptions about your partner’s sex drive without talking to them first” are both true and important statements. But as someone on the ace-spectrum myself… it’s sometimes a little more complex than that?

I’m gonna go for an analogy here. My partner loves art museums. I, on the other hand, am neutral about art museums. I would not, voluntarily and on my own, actively seek out and go to an art museum, and if I went by myself it would be boring and maybe a little frustrating.

But I like going to art museums with my partner. I like being together. I like listening to my partner get really excited and yell about art. I like the passionate discourse, even if I don’t share in the passion or the drive. I like the people that we are when we’re together, and I like spending quality time. I’m not there for the art. I am not particularly interested in the art, and I don’t anticipate that changing. But that doesn’t mean that I don’t want to go, or that I feel obligated to go for the sake of the relationship. Nor would it benefit either of us for me to stay home, or for my partner to insist that I stay home because “it’s more fair to both of us.”

Sex is an intimate activity that you share with a partner. It is absolutely possible to enjoy the secondary parts of sex (cuddling, afterglow, a feeling of intimacy) without experiencing an interest or drive in sex for its own sake. In a loving and healthy relationship, it is absolutely possible to want to do a thing for your partner, without that desire being coerced or rooted in guilt.

And I think saying “it’s not fair to both of you, just break up” is… a little acephobic? Or at least comes across as policing other people’s right to allow or deny access to their own bodies. Other people’s consent is not a thing that you get to decide.

erinhatesthings

“don’t force yourself to do something you radically do not want to do/are morally opposed to just to satisfy your partner” is a valid statement and should not be radical, I absolutely agree with that.

“don’t ever do something you’re disinterested in” is a fucking weird statement when you take it at face value.

malcubus1

#clickhole

taintedjojo

Phineas and Ferb could kill a god

bunnygirlheart

arent they a little young to kill a god

themanwiththesuitcaseofflies

Yes. Yes they are.

#jesus christ

birdfacts-deactivated20200802

Ah yes, tomorrow is the time to remove the mystery cubes from beneath the festive cone and tell tales of a large red intruder

the-memedaddy

beastoftimes

both of those things can’t be called CBT

defilerwyrm

#swEET JESUS #hannibal

gmbencompetence

We need to have a nomination for “Stupidest thing Tumblr.com has ever believed” and just move into an official Top 10 List.

For my nominations, I’m putting up:

If you eat a chocolate bar a very specific way, you will break physics and get infinite chocolate.

or

It is impossible that you spelled “Berenstain Bears” wrong and is, instead, more likely that the universe fractured into separate, overlapping realities in the last 20 years.

I can’t decide which is more beautiful. It’s why we need a vote.

jupiterjunebug

this is a picture of the human brain at the moment of death. tragic and beautiful

gmbencompetence

Fuck. That is a damn good nomination.

thisisdefinitelyacreativename

if you close your eyes when the train hits your brain will assume you are dead. Some find this comforting.

gmbencompetence

We’re getting into the good ones now. This is some classic Tumblr.

turtle-powered

Two old favourites:

“Bitch, That’s the Tubby Custard Machine” (http://imgur.com/gallery/IObQF)

and the horse dildo that was passed off as someone’s arm. (http://abakkus.tumblr.com/post/48958415162)

gmbencompetence

This is rapidly becoming a master post of ignorances and I could not possibly be happier.

analienorsutin

Rare blue watermelon

sickofimmortality

That disease where you get purple eyes, no period, and no body hair

akiraita

How have we gone this far without anyone mentioning the bird in the chocolate fountain

unicornfan

soap makes water molecules smaller

elphabaoftheopera

I nominate the “we are killing the earth” picture of the earth in comparison from 1978 to 2012

brucebocchi

the dog with the slice of ham on its face that everyone thought was a gigantic burn scar

adataraxia

“Tequila is the only alcohol thats not a depressant so you can drink as much of it as you like”

softurl

sasukehateblog

that post with the picture of the joker without makeup and people thinking it was a real person and defending him

painisthecleanser

that photo of voldemort being passed off as an aborted fetus

stankyleg-deactivated2918973

The two way mirror

rinlockhart

“listen here, cumslut.”

tenaflyviper

I can’t believe you guys forgot someone trying to pass off a picture of the inside of a fig as a microscopic view of the inside of a vagina.

nyokoko

I can’t believe I was on Tumblr for every single one of these posts.

computationalcalculator

“Scientists Successfully Implant Lungs into Fish”

achingfromjoy

An elementary school exam asks “List three things that are usually white” and we’re supposed to believe that a child can’t spell the word ‘cloud’ but he can spell ‘Disney princess’ perfectly.