Dead Inside

4B Bisexual, not a "radfem" but heavily aligned. You can pry the default avatar from my cold dead hands

[deadfish-inabarrel]

Share this with every American woman you know

31+ Female youtubers I've watched regularly (in progress)

I can't search tags on my blog so for mobile, I guess I gotta do this shit now. Also if I'm suddenly inactive, 99% chance it's that my device I use to go on tumblr died and I haven't gotten a replacement.

And yes. I know I reblogged that post before. Whatever post you're seeing and thinking "I've seen this from her before?" Yes you have.

Anyways, here's a list of my favorite, or most referenced posts, or a post that fundamentally changed my view on the subject:

Uncategorized:

There's no way to be bisexual without reinforcing negative biphobic stereotypes

stop using language that sanitizes violence

Gamete Linked Anatomy and Physiology

Butch Reidentified- Hope for Women

YOU ARE NOT OWED A BABY (+Tumblr backup)

trans activists stealing slogans

ultimate anti porn masterpost

Women either want kids or have a medical condition

Gender-neutral language is still exclusionary

Consent isn't enough-there needs to be ethical standards in how we treat people

Sex with men:

PIV is oppressive

Women are more likely to be abused during sex with man than have an orgasm

men('s lacking hygiene) are the source of UTIs

men('s lacking hygiene) are the source of UTIs part 2

Ohio bill would allow women to sue men for unwanted impregnation

the video that singlehandedly made me anti kink

males cannot have a high body count without some sexual crimes

Women's biology + Medical/Research Misogyny

Remove irrelevant men's names from female anatomy

The hymen is not meant to break (plus more links)

The uterus is not a soft nest, it's a fortress made to contain the active threat to a woman's life (fetus)

No, women's bodies don't "want" to be pregnant

Again, women's bodies don't "want" to be pregnant, it's keeping you alive.

The vagina isn't a hole

period cramps are not normal-female suffering is too normalized

Tampons contain lead and arsenic

standards of mental illness are biased in favor of men due to higher base beauty standards for women

you didn't win the sperm race

Geriatric Sperm Causes genetic issues

Alcoholic fathers give babies Fetal Alcohol Syndrome

The clitoris is censored in medicine

You uterus is not just for "making babies"

Hot takes:

Rape against males is Not The Same

[deadfish-inabarrel]

I know this is from an old post but I saw someone reblog it recently and I’m looking to be educated. You said the shinigami eyes thing were invented by a rapist? Do you mean death note? Or is this a reference to a different franchise? I’m sorry if I sound dumb, just looking for context.

Shinigami eyes is an extension you can use to make the names of feminists "red"

It was made by a man who claims to be a woman and he is a rapist.

[noblackwomannocry]

🤔

[madamepestilence]

why are there terfs in the notes

[hyeenagurrl]

why are so many transwomen on here pedophiles <3 focus on yourself timmy

[madamepestilence]

ma'am we don't appreciate it either, this post is critiquing a problem of trans women criticizing pedophilic behaviour in other users and being treated like the person on the right in response

this post is quite literally about focusing on a problem trans women are extremely aware of and have been trying to combat for months while pedophiles and their apologists just keep making new accounts

this post isn't about a strawman but is in fact talking about literal, actual pedophiles who keep trying to publicly promote, "pedophile liberation"

[hyeenagurrl]

wow how sweet. you know who else was discussing this problem for even longer than you (horseshit, by the way, if you had been ‘fighting it’ it wouldnt have gotten this bad)? those terfs you whine so much about. dont you wag your finger at me at something women on here have been talking about for YEARS!

[eclipse-strider]

"Boy who cries wolf claims vindication after wolf finally shows up."

[hyeenagurrl]

LMFAO shut the fuck up, there were rapists like laurelai bailey, cherno biko and eli erlick running around in your community that feminists were talking about far before this newest scandal. youre a dumb fucking liar and youre fooling nobody. kill yourself.

[eclipse-strider]

>your community

Lol. Lmao even.

You sound like every conservative that says gays and lesbians are all pedos because of cherry picked individuals. If terfs didn't accuse every trans person of being a predator, then the actual predators wouldn't be able to hide behind accusations of harassment.

[noblackwomannocry]

can you both get the fuck off my post

your logic only serves to ultimately defend those who have done these actions. it is an in-group's choice to block their eyes and ears to what they see around them and rally around each other against oppression. i have seen people try this same logic with black men who sexually abuse black children (i.e. "well we wouldn't doubt it if men weren't falsely accused by a racist system!") and that is a dogwater excuse for people's independent decisions to not listen to victims because #allyship takes priority over others' safety. i think this is insane to posit and insane for you to have posted.

just reiterating both of you get off the post. fight in your messages tab if you have to.

[asirpa-feminist]

Any reason you blocked me on another account for saying we don’t appreciate people referring to trans pedophiles as “she” and pretending they are actually women?

Your point two is undermined because you didn’t listen to me tell you not to refer to trans identified male sexual predators as ‘women’

Trans community is full of pedophiles and pretending they are actually women because #allyship harms female survivors (myself included)

UK: Woman Who Was Sexually Abused By Transgender Pedophile Has Her Objection To His Early Prison Release Rejected - Reduxx

A woman who endured years of sexual abuse at the hands of her father has had her pleas to stop his early release from a UK prison denied. Ce

Predatory men can hide behind a femsona and escape justice through gender self identification

[mareshida]

LMFAOOO op & everyone in their replies resorting to insults because they have absolutely no counter for this is hilarious

[progfanandradfem]

Statistics - Again Men constitute 99.7% of strangulation attacks; Men constitute 99.6% of acid attacks; Men constitute 99.3% of child pornography; Men constitute 99% mass shootings; Men constitute 99% of rapists Men constitute 98% of homicide men constitute, 98% of forcible incest; Men constitute 96% of child sex abuse; Men constitute 95% of molesting cases; Men constitute 99% of domestic abuse; Men constitute 99% of drugging; Men constitute 99% of stalking men constitute 99% of human trafficking abuse; Men constitute 99% of sex trafficking abuse; Men constitute 99% of animal abuse; Men constitute 98% of bestiality; 86% of makeup companies are male, 99% of advertising male, 98% of modeling agencies, 92% of fashion media is male, 94% of the fashion industry is male; Women are 10x more likely to get raped, yet this is seriously underreported considering the dead bodies 1/3 of women internationally report being sexually assaulted. we know this number to be much higher due to autopsies reported in the census; Women are 400,000,000x more likely to DIE from RAPE not one man has ever died from rape, accounts for no coroner report ever, whereas tens of thousands of women and children die a year. 50 million women are sex trafficking victims; Women make up for 95% of labor trafficking; 70% of child soldiers are FEMALE; 25 million are forced into child marriages; > 5 650 million are in arranged marriages/marriages consummated below the age of consent; Men make up most 98% on average of every fetish community; 99% of men for pedophilia. In 70 countries - that comprise 26% of the world population, women need men's permission to learn, work, or travel. There are 50 countries in which the law states you can sell and buy women into marriage. - These countries, including India and Pakistan, make up 38% of the entire world. There are 178 countries that do not have the same legal rights for women, where written law specifically excludes women from freedom. There are 2.4 billion women globally who are born in countries that have written law that restricts them completely, but even more so without a man. 6 billion people believe in a religion that states that women are less human than men.

[kkoffin]

in retail and hospitality, typically if you ever feel frightened or threatened by a customer, you are entitled to do whatever it takes to feel safe again - go hide in the staff room, call a manager, call the police if necessary. if you aren’t entitled to do these things, you are being abused.

in prostitution, porn, and other sex work, you constantly feel frightened and threatened by clients. the men in the room with you, your “fans”, the directors, the pimp, stalkers, etc.

When fear is in the room, consent is not. that is why the “if sex work is rape because they need money then all work is slavery” argument doesn’t work. in retail you might be worried about your rent, but you aren’t expected to handle regularly being worried about your life being in the hands of strangers who often want to hurt you.

[gnomebutch]

“If you’re gay…become bisexual and sleep with people you’re not attracted to! It makes you better!” DO YOU HEAR YOURSELFFFFFF !!!!!!

[evenlesssentimentaltranslator]

”I bring a sort of homophobia that gay people don’t really like” I wonder why they don’t like that

[gender-machine-broke]

“I bring a sort of conversion therapy rhetoric to the gay people in my life” you do not deserve gay friends

[deadfish-inabarrel]

Homophobic and biphobic, gotta love gendies.

[radicalheretic]

There's a trans identified male who lives in the apartments across the street from me. I have to walk my female dog through the complex daily to get to the park, and whenever this guy is outside he tries to talk to her and pet her. My dog has reacted anxiously and gets upset.

I have told him multiple times that she doesn't want to be pet, she has a history of abuse and he completely ignores it. Sometimes this guy has a friend outside with him, and I have said to his friend IN FRONT OF HIM, that my dog is afraid of men because of abuse history.

This guy literally said, "It's okay I'm a girl". (he literally said girl btw, not even woman). And he continues to keep trying to talk my dog and bother her to the point I've now had to go completely out of my way by 15 minutes to get to the park.

And it's just funny because my dog obviously doesn't know what a fucking transgender is. She is following her natural instincts based of past experiences. She recognizes a man and is afraid because she has been hurt by men before. And it's no different than women recognizing potentional danger.

Everytime they try to force and convince us they are women, they are trying to get women to ignore their natural instincts. Natural instincts that keep us safe. I find it even more dangerous when I think of little girls who are now being taught to ignore their instincts from the get-go because they are being lied to about what a man is and what a woman is. Trans activists are teaching them to be disconnected from their feelings, intuition, and reality.

When I was little girl I was left alone by my grandmother in the book isle of the grocery store because I was well behaved and liked to read. A strange man came up to me and I remember feeling immediatly nervous and uneasy. I was a kid so I never would have been able to articulate why I automatically felt that way. But I was right because he started showing me porn from a book and asking me if I knew what that was. I had no idea what that was, but I knew he felt wrong and I ran away to find my grandmother.

I had never felt this unease around stranger women, but this is just one example of where as a child I felt uneasy around a man and when I followed that instinct I protected myself.

So imagine what it's doing to these girls when trans activists tell them, no that's not a man, that's a woman. You know women are safe and that's actually a woman.

And it frustrates me so badly because trans activists say that kids are so accepting, they don't complicate things like adults do. You see this often with the teachers who teach trans ideology. They tell us how little kids are so understanding and just go with it when it's explained to them. News flash, they aren't "understanding and accepting", they're taking everything you say at face value because they are children and easy to manipulate and lie to.

This is what we mean we say trans identified people and trans activists are grooming children. Groomers teach a child to ignore their gut instincts and feelings, they trick them and gain their trust.

I usually just talk about trans identified males and all their bullshit, but the women who take part in this are just as responsible for grooming a generation of little girls.

My dog knows what a man is. I know what a man is. Little girls know what a man is. Manipulating women into ignoring their instincts is just trying to make us have our guard down so they can take advantage of us.

[radfemme-rage]

[gloomyrelaxing]

This is so true because wasn’t there a silly goofy but not so funny trend on TikTok where women shared the excuses they used to avoid sex with their man? The top ones were like I have a headache or I’m on my period. Women kept a counter of how long their men would wait until they finally gave in to what he wanted because he would get too impatient.

[gnomebutch]

genuinely howwww do straight women do hookups without spiraling from paranoia . if I had any chance of getting pregnant from a stranger I would not let him touch me . I would use a rube goldberg machine to safely top him from a room away.

[evenlesssentimentaltranslator]

From what I’ve heard, that’s what the pill or IUDs are used for. But as someone who has been on side effect-heavy medication and dealt with bullshit preventable pain during a medical procedure for an illness I had, I resent the fact that if I were willing to hook up with men, I would need to go through that, all for sex where I’m statistically unlikely to even have an orgasm.

[evenlesssentimentaltranslator]

And now I'm thinking: do any women just straight up scream out loud when a doctor is putting an IUD in them without proper pain relief, and if so, what happens? Because that's what I did during the abovementioned painful bullshit and if that's something that only works when the problem pertains to body parts that men also have, that is interesting information.

[theoretical-terf]

Becoming MTF is an extension of rape culture.

Men have been raping women freely for tens of thousands of years, but women are now fighting back as a class. When rape became illegal, men responded by coercing women to marrying them. When marital rape became illegal too, they legalised or decriminalised prostitution to keep raping women by coercion. When they still had trouble doing that without social consequences, they started shaming women who were raped in an attempt to silence us.

But then that didn't work either, because then there was the #MeToo movement. They tried to silence women and were unable to. Countless women were open about the assault they experienced on social media, calling out the men who made it happen.

Men do everything they can to subjugate women, but they can't escape the accountability. So now, the transgender movement is yet another attempt at pretending men raping women doesn't happen, and isn't a large scale issue. They couldn't escape the accountability of raping women through marriage, or prostitution, or social silencing. So now they're trying to escape it by claiming to be women themselves.

With women becoming more aware of rape culture with every generation, men are losing the ability to control us. They've invaded our bodies, our spaces, our communities, and we call it out every time. The only thing left for them to invade is our minds, by trying to convince us that they're one of us.

It worked for a while, with a lot of women being genuinely convinced that maybe these men could be women on the inside, maybe transgenderism is real. But it didn't last long, because the men only wanted our minds to get to our bodies. They had almost fully integrated themselves into womanhood as wolves in sheep's clothing, but they just couldn't help themselves, they went right back to raping.

And that's why they're failing yet again. They can never keep their dicks in their pants, they can never stop themselves from raping women and girls and female corpses and female animals. So now the women whose minds were invaded by their ideology are waking up, and seeing the pattern of rape culture that's always been there.

Rape culture is what has motivated every male movement in history, and that's what will stop them from ever succeeding. They can lie and cheat and hide, but they'll never get away with it for long, because women have known for generations that to keep ourselves safe, we'll look for the rapists. Men can identify as whatever they like, but we'll always be able to identify them as men, because we know that to find the men, we look for the rapists.

[vampirefeminazi]

sometimes I think I'm being too harsh when I think most women are extremely boring and hard to be around but then I open tiktok

[blackswallowtailbutterfly]

about that "male firefighters actively sabotage equipment that female firefighters use"you said... were there documented cases or just something you personally noticed?

This isn’t the article I recalled, but an example anyway:

Morningstar was hired but given a 90-day probationary period; for men it was 30. Then the gear theft and tampering started. Her gloves, hoods, and radio vanished (2007); her mask was sabotaged (two weeks after 9/11). She found what appeared to be semen on her bed (2012). Clothes continued to be stolen and destroyed. Word of the harassment rose all the way to Mayor Don McIlroy, and the department issued a warning against equipment tampering, but nothing substantively changed. 

Another:

Her concerns included having her firefighting gear tampered with several times

And another:

Ever since Judy Brewer became America’s first female firefighter 45 years ago, women have been hazed in the fire service, including sabotaged oxygen tanks and glass in their boots.

More:

You're living twenty-four hours a day in a firehouse and nobody will talk to you. Shit in your boots. Women at the front end of a fire hose and a fire scene and the water gets cut off from her.

I can’t even find the article I had in mind (it was around four or five years ago), but it looks I didn’t need to.

[swedepea]

And men wonder why women don't want to go into male-dominated career fields. 🙄

[officialweatherwax]

I love when MRAs are like "women make men do all the hard and dangerous jobs" while the women who do enter those fields have to put up with men trying to kill them

[vladscastle-deactivated20231022]

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/female-firefighters-bullying-sexual-harassment-fifth-estate-

Female firefighters face bullying, sexual harassment, fifth estate finds About 600 of Canada's 22,000 firefighters are women, and workplace issues can be hard to negotiate

[radical-feminists-anonymous-dea]

Bisexuals categorically refusing to date trans people IS transphobic full stop. It's nothing like gay or straight people not dating trans people since bisexuals are innately capable of attraction to both sexes, they willingly choose to reject trans people. Their reasonings are also indirectly really shitty towards GNC non-trans people. "I don't want a woman/man who looks like a man/woman!" "But I don't agree with trans ideology!" GC trans people exist, you know.

[womenfrommars]

Reblog if you support transphobic bisexuals

[rantingcrocodile]

TRA biphobe believes in random biphobia and is angry that bisexuals have boundaries because they think bisexuality = permanent consent at all times, more news at - 

Wait, no, this isn’t news to any bisexuals.

[boganclarke2-blog]

Bisexuals aren’t a public sexual resource trans people are being unfairly denied access to. They are people. No one is entitled to sexual activity from anyone. Sex isn’t a right. Demanding people fuck you isn’t activism. Looks like you should just go fuck yourself anon.

[niiwa-angel]

Bi does not mean we're the public bicycles. We have standards. Read the "Dump Your Puppygirl" article and then ask again why bisexuals don't want to date trans people.

[philipkindreddickhead]

The thing that I find so exhausting about "if the roles were reversed" is that the roles will NEVER truly be reversed. There is too great a difference between a man doing something, his motivations, his capabilities, and a woman doing something with her motivations and capabilities. Fundamentally a woman breaking a restraining order to show up at her ex's wedding will never be the same threat as a man doing the same. Not when women commit only 10-20% of violent crimes and carry guns at half the percentage men do. Not when the average man can overpower the average woman.

[noblackwomannocry]

being white and making a black character the mouthpiece for your "these white hags are so MANNISH I thought they were just someone who can't pass. you know, one of us" comic...

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

wait, obvious racism aside, this little comic is a hilarious self-own. "I thought those hideous fucking hag bridgetroll chuddington women looked like USSS!!!! lmaooooo imagine literally looking like USSSS omg ewwww!!! they're so ugly that they literally look like USSSS before we got hormones and surgery to look 6.7% less ugly lmaooooo!!"

so, you agree? you think you're really ugly?

[gnomebutch]

lol could you imagine seeing a grotesque fetishized parody of your identity hit the mainstream . I am glad us lesbians never have to deal with that !