a sorta fairytale

Foxy | she/they | 40s | realm of the elderlings (spoiler warning) & fitzloved | and other stuff I fancy | header by @roostercrowned & Icon by @dappermouth

[yamada-ryo]

I have got to stop wandering in the woods

[prophetandcatalyst]

I completely forgot I did this! I must have done it earlier this year but my mind completely deleted it from my memory.

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[were--ralph]

I CCAN'T BREATHE

[anistarrose]

asexuals who experience sexual attraction but don't like sex 🤝 asexuals who like sex but don't experience sexual attraction:

being allowed to confuse people with their identities, and in fact, should be encouraged to confuse people even more

[ashomaly]

i thought asexuality was purely about the lack of sexual attraction tho?

can someone clear me up on this? genuine question i wanna know for sure.

[anistarrose]

I've got a whole post about this, but basically, the "little to no sexual attraction" definition of asexuality was created on AVEN for Ace 101-level visibility, not to actually enforce who can call themselves asexual. People who don't meet the "little to no sexual attraction" definition — or people who technically meet it, but who feel their asexuality revolves around a different criterion that's more personally meaningful to them than attraction — have been calling themselves ace for as long as ace communities have been around. But unfortunately, the "visibility" definition worked a little too well, and the modern ace community has forgotten a lot of that crucial history!

You'll hear "asexuality is purely about attraction, not action" a lot in defense of how asexuals who have sex are still asexual — and, to be clear, asexuals who have sex are still asexual, resoundingly so, and including them is important, I highlighted them in the original post for a reason — but "attraction only, not action" is not the correct argument to make for their inclusion! The correct argument is "different asexual people will be asexual for different reasons, where some people consider their attraction/lack thereof the most important factor, regardless of whether they have sex, whereas other people consider their aversion to sex the most important factor, regardless of whether they experience sexual attraction — and they are all equally asexual." The point is that we all get to decide for ourselves what the most important factor in defining our sexual orientation is. Attraction for some, actual sexual interest for others, probably a secret third thing for even more people too.

Personally, I identify as ace because I experience feelings that meet some subjective definitions of sexual attraction, but definitely don't meet the criteria of others, and rather than trying to decide which of those flawed definitions is most correct, I find the fact that I don't like having sex to be a lot more personally important to how I conceptualize my orientation. It frees me from having to agonize over what sexual attraction really is, when the concept is 95% irrelevant to me anyway. I don't know what being forced to define my sexual orientation based on attraction would do for me other than making me really annoyed about sexual attraction as a vague social construct, while impairing me from communicating any aspects of my relationship to sex that I actually find meaningful or relevant to my life. That's not quite the same as being an ace who experiences sexual attraction, since my whole view has been shaped by being in that gray area, but hopefully it gives you an idea of the problems with the attraction framework being mandatory instead of optional.

[gayvampyr]

if you want to dress gay but aren’t sure how, you need to focus more on finding clothes you actually like and that make you feel good when you look in the mirror. develop your style independently of what you think looks gayest and trust the homosexuality will follow. it goes where confidence and self acceptance are

[drizzleli]

iconic scene

[corvidcall]

to anyone in the areas impacted by the wildfire smoke, my #1 biggest piece of advice as someone whos been dealing with wildfire smoke in the NW united states for years, is build yourself a Corsi-Rosenthal Cube

they perform as well as expensive HEPA air cleaners, and are comparatively VERY inexpensive. all you need is a box fan, 4 air filters, a piece of cardboard, and some duct tape!!!!

i think it took us maybe a half hour to put ours together, if that, and we replace the filters every 3 months. it's really made a HUGE difference, both when the air quality is bad, but also with our allergies

[o0fyuu0o]

Saw these easy to read instructions on Twitter. Stay safe 💚

[sarahthecoat]

where i am, a box fan and the filters run about $20 each, so if $100 is too much of a stretch at the moment, get the fan and one filter. tape the filter to the intake side of the fan, all the way around. this is also good if your space is small and a 20" cube won't fit.

[cheeso]

theres no difference between exercise and black magic both of them hurt your body at first and drain you of energy but the more you dabble in it the more powerful you become

[urulokid]

this is the most inspiring thing i have ever read

[dontlistentothemmoose]

reblog to reclaim your power

couch to 5k necromancy

[pansylair]

A great place to donate to First Nations groups impacted by the ongoing wildfires 👇

True North Aid provides practical humanitarian support to northern and remote Indigenous communities in Canada through community-led project

Also consider Mikinakoos' as they're extending support beyond their traditional service areas due to the scale of this emergency!

Donations for Namaygoosisagagun First Nation:

Individuals who support the goals and vision of AN7GC can make a donation. The ways to donate: call us, mail your donation, use Paypal or Ca

Donations for Whitesand First Nation:

[cryptic-forge]

i got inspired by antique furniture -> decided to try and make a wooden doll.

she is whittled entirely out of balsa wood with a craft knife, and colored with wood dye. the cabinet has miniature hinges made of tube beads and a metal rod, and closes with a magnet. she absolutely should hold a sentimental & important object, but i don't have any that are the correct size, so i just put in some cute trinkets.

[berdymane]

[skeliss]

tenrose wip i started months ago that i don’t think i’ll ever finish 😔

we need to start recognizing the pillow fort potential the tardis holds

[luckyladylily]

So the thing is boobs really do be jiggling. If having breasts has taught me anything it is that the ladies frolic. I don't even have that large of boobs but every time I go down some stairs all I can think about is that stupid quote about boobing breastily down the stairs or whatever it is because God Damn.

But anime and video game boob jiggling is like. The most uncanny valley shit I've ever seen nine times out of ten. You would think people this horny about tits would have actually looked at some but I guess not.

What we really need is some pervert to compile the ultimate visual guide to boob bouncing physics that's just like 500 hours of meticulously organized videos of breasts of different size and shape and under different fabrics bouncing around from a wide variety of physical movements so horny game devs can finally get it right and I don't have to be creeped out by women who appear to have surgically implanted softballs in their chest under skin made of rubber bands.

[kikielfrieda]

Fitz every time he's reminded of Beloved's latent physical strength:

[gingersnooze]

First name Kravitz last name AdventureZone, alternate version below

[jeniferprince]

san junipero (2016) dir. owen harris

patreon // buy prints here

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