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We crave real contact, but technology has isolated us from one another. Our goal is to use technology to foster genuine connections through our shared cravings. 

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Superstitions to help you find love

Finding love can either be complicated, easy, or full of superstitions. Which one best describes you?

1. Confused? Count some flowers.

If you ever find yourself in a situation where you can’t decide on who to choose as the love of your life, pluck flower petals while saying “He loves me” or “He loves me not” and whatever the last petal is will be the answer! Talk about being spontaneous! Flowers are always right, right?!

2. Run away if someone sweeps near your feet.

The next time someone is sweeping near you, make sure not to get too close! Sweeping by your leg means someone might never sweep you off your feet someday. Now who wants that?

3. Make a wish at 11:11 and your dreams will come true.

Are you tired of your crush not approaching you? By 11:11pm or am, that all can change! Everything comes true at that time.

4. Catch the bouquet!

Is a wedding ever complete without people fighting over the bouquet? If you really want to boost your luck in love, catch the bouquet at the next wedding you attend at all costs!

5. Forward a love chain letter.

First of all, who makes these things up? Also, why do they make you feel so paranoid if you don’t send them? If you’re experiencing drought in your love life, maybe you forgot to go forward a love chain.

6. Hairy legs = A rich marriage

Unlike now, shaving your legs was something poor people did because they couldn’t afford fancy long dresses. Next time you’re feeling lazy about shaving, remember it’s a sign of fortune! Stop shaving your legs if you want the finer things in life! 

Now it’s up to you. Try one of these superstitions or download Foobee to meet a more compatible person!

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Oh, the 1960s. That mad era of political chaos, sexual revolution, and acid-addled road trips. They say that if you can remember this decade you weren’t actually there. That may be true for hippies. Luckily, others can recall the music, icons, events... and, of course, the slang. Some of it’s quite fun.

1. Contrary to what some might think, Old Man/Lady doesn’t refer to one’s parents or grandparents. Instead it means a long-term boyfriend/girlfriend. Bikers, criminals, and other tougher-types seem especially fond of this phrase. The infamous thief-turned-author James Fogle often used it in his writing. Still, these days, even mainstream kids can use that phrase.

2. The word man can refer to virtually anyone - male, female, or otherwise. Sort of like the modern term dude. To the cool kids, man is a gender-neutral word. Don’t ask me why. If you’re especially hip you could also turn it into a verbal tic. Y’know, man, end every sentence with it, man. Kinda like Janis Joplin, man.

3. Grotty means grotesque or unpleasant. Some Brits still use it today - albeit sparingly. This word just might’ve been originating by Ringo Starr (as in, the mildly pathetic drummer). He was prone to accidentally inventing bizarre phrases and terms. In the very least, grotty appears in the 1964 Beatles’ film A Hard Day’s Night.

4. To split is to leave. As in, “my Foobae and I decided to split early“ or “this date was most uncool, I better split”. This word first appeared in the mid-’50s, though it became much more popular in the ‘60s. The Velvet Underground famously used it in their 1967 song Waiting for the Man (“then you gotta split because you’ve got no time to waste”).

Next time you’re on a date with somebody new or trying to impress your Old Man/Lady, use a word from the ‘60s… man. And watch a Beatles movie or two (preferably A Hard Day’s Night). They’re actually pretty good.  

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Make a Friend Day: 365

Apparently February 11 was Make a Friend Day. It’s a day that honors the value of friendship, and making new friends. Hearing about this holiday got me thinking that “Make a Friend Day” should be every day. Anytime is a great time to talk to others- friends, family, acquaintances, etc. Don’t worry about “bothering” them. Swallow your fear and even just send them a short text. We humans get so caught up in our minds; deeply involved in our work and personal life. Send the first text- they won’t bite. Everyone’s got something going on. We’re all busy. But nobody is too busy for friendship! 

This past December, I reconnected with an old friend. She and I were inseparable back in middle school. We ended up going to different high schools, and sadly fell out of touch. Flash- forward to now (6+ years later), we started going back and forth on Snapchat. I told her I was home for winter break and that I’d love to catch up. Her response? “Hell yeah!!”

So we picked a day, and we made it happen! We had such a fun night. It meant a lot to both of us. And now, it’s just like old times :)

You can make friends with anyone, anywhere, at any time. It’s so easy, these days. You can even embark on a new chapter of a friendship with someone you already know- possibly a friend you haven’t seen in years. But as the old saying goes, “In order to make a friend, you’ve got to be friend.” Reach out! I dare you to go through your contacts list and message at least three people. Ask them how they’re doing, what’s going on in their life, etc. But don’t hesitate!

With Foobee, you can find a new friend with ease! It’s a perfect way to meet someone. You could make everyday your very own “Make a Friend Day” if you wanted to. Who doesn’t love friends?! 

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4 Reasons There Won’t Be A Second Date

1. They’re aggressively romantic.

If you’re on your first date and they pull out you an album of photoshopped pictures of your life together, then you have permission to sneak out the bathroom window.

2. They have a long complicated order at a coffee shop. You’re at a cool coffee shop and they start listing off an ongoing chain of demands. Ain’t nobody got time for that. 

3. They’re rude to your pets. Fur babies are family and if they can’t handle your family then they have got to go.

4. They’re overly concerned. When you’re out trying to have fun it can kill the mood if your date is always checking in to see if you’re good. 

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GUYS: 5 things women are thinking when on a date with you!

So, you’re going on a date with that girl, the one you met at the grocery store last Thursday. You’ve been looking forward to this date all week long and now it’s here, but you’re nervous—as you should be. She’s hot! As you’re getting ready, you can’t help to think will she be nervous too? Below are the five top things to be aware of that most women are thinking about when they are on a date with you!

1.    “Where is he taking me?”

Not all women like expensive restaurants or food trucks as a place to eat and hang out. So, knowing who you are going on a date with is crucial, especially if you decide to not disclose where you’re taking her prior to the date. Ask questions throughout the week, take a look at her Instagram, or ask a mutual friend for suggestions on what places will make her feel the most relaxed. 

2.    “Are those Chucks?”

Depending on where you have decided to take her, you should probably dress for the occasion. Most women take a lot of pride in their appearance and in return, she will assess yourappearance. Questions like “did he get a haircut?”, “is he wearing cologne?”, or “are those vans?” will definitely cross her mind. Additionally, make sure your outfit compliments the place the date is being held. For instance, it’s probably best not to wear Chucks to a five-star restaurant. Don’t know what to wear? Always keep it classy.

3.     “Why is he constantly on his phone?”

Nothing is worse, when you’re trying to get to know someone and their phone is going off. She won’t care if it’s your mom or if it’s your group chat with all of your friends. All she is thinking is that your life is already extremely busy and you don’t have space in it for her. Turn off your phone, switch on do not disturb, or put it on vibrate in your jacket pocket to avoid ruining the date. Giving her your undivided attention, will make her feel special and more comfortable around you. And comfortable is key, gentlemen.

4.     “Is he going to pay?”

Oh yes. If you manage to screw up with the place for the date, you can still leave a lasting impression on her if you pay for the date—in time. Paying for the date is a race and knowing when it starts is crucial. If you let her pay, gentlemen, you have ruined any chance of hooking up and her best friends will be telling her to lose your number. Have your wallet readily available and not deep in your pockets, remember swiftness is key. When the waiter drops the check off, bring out your card and give it to the waiter before she can even see the check’s amount. You’ll thank me once you see that smile spread over her face.

5.     “Is he a weirdo?”

Lastly, but definitely not least, your charisma and body language play a huge part on a date. Making creepy remarks about what your ex-girlfriend used to do, showing her pictures of your siblings, or bluntly stating that you have been stalking her Instagram for the past two days, will make her think you are a total nut-case. Be cautious of putting your hand around her too soon or going in for a kiss. Those signs lead to psycho. Even if she ends up not being into you, she will appreciate (and respect) how comfortable you made her feel by paying attention to the signs.

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Cringe-worthy pickup lines you should probably never use

1. You must be French because maDAMMN!

2. I seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours?

3. Did you fart? Cause you blew me away.

4. Is there a phone in your back pocket? Cause that ass is calling me.

5. Can I follow you where you’re going right now? Cause my parents always told me to follow my dreams.

6. Hey, you like my shirt? It’s boyfriend material.

7. Kissing is a language of love, so how about a conversation?

8. Is that a tic tac in your blouse or are you just happy to see me?

9. There’s a big sale in my bedroom right now. Clothes are 100% off!

10. Nice legs, what time do they open?

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3 Things Not To Do On Valentine’s day

Ah, Valentine’s Day. The most romantic time of the year.

1. Break Up With Somebody: Nobody deserves to be dumped on Valentine’s Day. I mean, that’s just plain cruel. Only an especially foolish psychopath could do such a thing. After all, being single on Valentine’s day is awful... even if it’s only for part of the day. Even an empathy-less lunatic would know that.

2. Propose: I know, this one sounds a bit odd. Though it makes sense if you think about it. After all, your significant other might say no. That would ruin Valentine’s day for both of you. Forever. Plus, it’s a bit mushy… a bit too lovey-dovey. Even the sappiest Victorian poet wouldn’t do such a thing.  

3. Go overboard: Grand Romantic Gestures aren’t actually a good idea unless you feel like wasting money or embarrassing someone. Sure, it is Valentine’s day… though that doesn’t mean you should do anything crazy. Especially if you’re broke, like most millennials. You should be paying off student loans - not trying to impress somebody.

So, you ask, what should one do today? Perhaps you could go on a nice, quiet dinner date with your partner. Buying them a sleek box of chocolates also works. If you’re single, go find yourself a date on Foobee. It’s certainly more romantic than Tinder. Therefore, it’s perfect for Valentine’s Day.

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Find friends on Foobee! Download now!

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Meet-up Apps: From Sketchy to Simple

It can be frustrating trying to figure out where you want to meet up with your match, and planning what you guys want to do. I have first-hand experience, and I know there are probably several others who’ve been in similar situations.

After matching with a guy online and hitting it off, we added each other on Snapchat and got to talking even more. So for your viewing pleasure, I recreated our conversation:

I don’t know about you, but if I’m meeting someone for the first time, I’d like to meet up somewhere in public just in case. How do I know this person I’ve only messaged a bit isn’t a catfish and/or an axe-murderer? Ya just don’t know.

           *Disclaimer: I don’t think he’s neither an axe-murderer nor a catfish. But you get it lol*

You know what’s a solution to both of those problems? Foobee.

Foobee! We’re a new social app trying to bring people together. The app allows you to swipe and meet up with others based on mutual cravings (food, drinks, and activities) that you can list on your profile. And with our “specials” tab, you can find local businesses' latest and greatest deals.

Say that you and your match are both craving coffee. Well, a new cafe just opened up and they’re using Foobee to promote their grand opening sale! They’ve got half-priced pastries today through Sunday.

You, your match, coffee, muffins, yum, yay, boom.

Easy right? It’s a public place you two can go to, and something that you both are craving. Meeting people made simpler. Do what you love.

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Wake up, people! Tinder is NOT the way to find someone... enter Foobee

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How to Attract People to Your Profile in 3 Steps

It may be 2019 but you still have that same old 2018 profile. It was created out of confusion and maybe even frustration but hey, new year, new profile. If you want to know how to make your profile stand out, don’t worry, we got you covered.

Firstly, when it comes to appearance, try to stay away from pictures that are super blurry. That’s a huge issue. The person swiping should be able to see you clearly. If you wouldn’t post it to Instagram, then why would you post it on your dating profile?

Second, avoid ALL your pictures being with friends or family. This profile is about YOU! This isn’t a profile about your friends and certainly not your family.  Post some cool solo shots and watch your matches increase!

Lastly, why not spice up your bio with a witty phrase or comment? I think we all get sick of this height/age monotony. Try something creative or funny, add a joke or a phrase that means a lot to you. Your bio is your chance to show people who you are, don’t take it for granted!

Make sure your profile is able to start a conversation, let it be funny, interesting, and, hopefully, get you a date!

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“People don’t take trips, trips take people.”

-John Steinbeck

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I’m so dehydrated from drooling so much over this photo. 

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Types of Ghosting

Dating has become one of the most complicated and exhausting events out there. With the good comes the bad, and on the bad end of the spectrum, you can find ghosting. But it doesn’t end with just simple ghosting. There are now different ways to ghost someone and here they are.

Ghosting: Your classic, basic ghosting. This is where it all began. You find yourself texting someone you’re interested in and then next thing you know they disappear. No texts. No calls. Nothing. It’s as if they never were.

Slow Fade: This isn’t your typical ghosting where they drop off the face of the Earth. Less texting, doesn’t initiate, seems uninterested. The person slowly phases themselves out of your life. 

Zombie-ing: Zombie-ing is what it sounds like. After ghosting someone, a person will come back into your life and try to start things up again. They acknowledge their absence and hope to reignite the spark.

Submarining: This is similar to zombie-ing except for one factor. This person will ghost you and then pop back up acting like nothing happened. No admittance for ghosting you.

Haunting: Haunting happens when a person ghosts, but then continues to be active on your social media, liking pictures, or tweets, without actually reaching out to you.

Breadcrumbing: Quite similar to haunting, breadcrumbing is when a person isn’t super interested in you but continues to lead you on. They leave little tiny bits to keep you hanging on. Liking your posts but never really texting you.

Passive ghosting: This type of ghosting doesn’t seem like ghosting at all. The person still texts you, but the response is lacking. You get one-word answers or very vague responses. It seems like they’re not interested and yet they still text back.    

Benching: The person still seems to have an interest in you, but they haven’t really committed. You’re basically on the sidelines watching and waiting for your time to shine.

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How to be more active in your life

Moving is no fun. If only sitting on the couch watching tv was exercise then we’d all be the most built people in the world. Alas, that isn’t the case so let’s get our butts up and do some fun stuff.

1. Take the stairs

Trust me, I’m always breathing heavy even when it’s just one flight, but I’ll soon be just like Rocky, right?

2. Park further away

This is probably one of the worst things in the world, but it’s okay because I believe in you.

3. Go for walks

It’s a lot more fun than it sounds. You can discover new places and see new things.

4. Pace while on the phone

Have you been put on hold for longer than you thought was legal? Take advantage and pace around the house while you wait.

5. Use Foobee

Didn’t see this one coming? Foobee gives you the opportunity to turn being more active into an adventure. Go out there and have a blast!

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5 Quick ways to get better at networking!

Networking can be one of the most nerve-wracking things to do, but in the long run, it proves to be life-changing. The only way to become an expert at it is with constant practice, but if you need to up your game in a pinch follow these 5 rules to go from shmo to pro.

1.) Don’t play loose and fast with your business cards.

There’s always that one person who is aggressively throwing around their business card to every person they meet. Instead, after having a conversation ask for their card first and then hand them yours.

2.) Don’t lead with “What do you do?”

Rather than going straight into this obvious question, delve into something deeper to leave a lasting impression. Ask about the person themselves and try to find commonalities.

3.) Give first without expecting anything in return.

A sincere gesture without looking for something in return is a sure-fire way to gain a person’s interest.

4.) Ask “why should they care?”

The only way to engage people in conversation about your business or self is to show them how you would be of value to them. Such as “I help people to…

5.) Listen more than talk

The only way to truly learn about another person is to allow them to speak their mind. With this, you can better connect.

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Worst Date Ever Ep. 1

My worst date ever actually went pretty well. 

We had coffee in a shop on campus, dinner at our own table in the dining hall, and then we watched a movie in my dorm room. And that was it. I walked her back to her room and said goodnight. 

But I never saw her again.

If this was a Hallmark movie, she would have disappeared and I would have spent the next 20 years searching for her. But this is reality, and she simply transferred schools about a week after we went out. 

Now, you might be wondering why I went out with someone who was moving in seven days? And that’s a fair question. 

Answer: I didn’t know. 

Anna, let’s call her, was an acquaintance I asked out on a whim, pushed to bravery by a drunken New Year’s resolution, at the water fountain in our school’s fitness center. Looking back, I wish she had waited to tell me she was leaving. If our date was a play, she told me it was doomed in her opening soliloquy. 

About five minutes into coffee, like an iTunes disclaimer, she told me she almost canceled because she wasn’t sure about meeting anyone new so close to leaving. 

I hate awkwardness more than anything - probably why I can’t stand The Office and Napoleon Dynamite - so I played it off and kept the first-date banter going. 

For the next hour and a half, we talked about family, childhoods, passions and I can’t remember what else. When we stood up and I was about to say goodbye, she asked if I wanted to go to dinner. And I just said yes. I kept walking along, liking her more and more, letting her lead me. We kept talking and I kept falling. After dinner, as I was about to say goodbye in front of her dorm, she asked if I wanted to watch a movie. So, I volunteered my room. 

I couldn’t say no to her, even though I knew we were doomed. 

As we sat and watched Crazy, Stupid, Love, I had never been less focused. I just kept repeating “Damnit damnit damnit damnit damnit” over and over in my head. I stewed in my bitterness with a dumb smile plastered on my face, rattling off one-liners to maker her laugh, covering with sarcasm.I wasted the time I had with Anna pretending everything was fine, trying to be the cool, chill guy, because that was all I knew how to be. 

Thankfully, I wasn’t hung up on her, and we talked off and on after she transferred. 

No lasting harm done, no scarred heart that haunts me when I can’t sleep. But when I look back, that opportunity, lost before I ever found it, still ranks as my worst date ever.