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trans girls are allowed to be annoying and stereotypical and socially inept and hyperactive and hypersexual and various types of animalgirl and there's nothing you can do about it. in fact if you're mean to that skirt go spinny reddit trans girl i'm stealing your entire house
Trans related meme I found on Pinterest
it has been a while since I drew her
My art for my character Nott, A Mimic! I love the energy and vibe I've given her, she's such a cutie! Anybody involved in art fight, attack me if you dare! >:3 https://artfight.net/~Nottamimic
Annoyed as heck by behaviour I see online
If you spend your time online making posts of "day x doing a thing until person notices me" whether that's a text post, a TikTok dance video, creating artwork, or anything else you are actively harassing them and it is abusive.
The options here:
* They notice you and ignore you -> you're actively harassing them they don't want to encourage that behaviour, person you "love" enough to devote this effort to will grow to resent you
* The community notices -> now other people are tagging them to look at you and acknowledge you, resulting in harassing them even more
* They block you -> you won't be able to follow them anymore
* They block you and the community becomes aware -> they experience a bunch of hate and knock on harassment for doing something reasonable
* They acknowledge your demands -> they encourage a dozen other people to do the same thing and start the cycle again, whether they do the thing or ask you to stop you got attention so other people can get attention by putting in the same type of effort
What you're doing isn't cute it's participating in rape culture, it's functionally no different from ignoring consent. And on the extremely rare occasion it's consentual behind the scenes it normalises abhorrent behaviours.
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Having support is so fundamental to one's life. I'm lucky to have the support I do, and try to never take it for granted.
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Goals: Be so feminine that you forget ever being a man.
Fun fact: by just using imaginary numbers, some Evil Math, and 101 rotating vectors You Can Create a shitty approximation of a fish.
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it isn't good art unless it's itself enough to get haters, so
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Idea, The Mammoth hunt theory of sportsball:
Men like sports for the same reason men would go hunting megafauna, taking part in the ritual even if only as a spectator is supposed to show your prowess. They would go out and take part in the thrill of the hunt and come back home with all the energy, tales of victory or valiant loss, and hopefully something to show just how well they did and just how much they helped and this would with luck get their mate into bed. With Mammoth hunting it was the pound of flesh but with sportsball its the score.
The woman is not expected to understand the game but to understand that the man at least won in his endeavour, he came home with the story even if others in the tribe were defeated or hurt or killed.
Most team sports is some variation of get the ball (projectile) into a goal (target) with maximum skill, and avoid breaking the rules because that's the equivalent of getting stomped on by the mammoth. The points indicate how good their team (tribe) is against the 'mammoth' but it is safer to forgo the dangerous task of real mammoth hunting and instead prove themselves self against competing tribes directly.
Several sports balls have the 'do this one thing and you win/lose' is derived from the mammoth hunt, doesn't matter how many spears you land in a mammoth's leg if you can hit it's heart or brain your team wins. Similarly doesn't matter how good the rest of the hunt goes if you deliberately crawl under a mammoth foot you're gonna be crushed.
Many games are direct descendants of other hunt, football (association and gridiron) for example traces its routes to medieval England and chasing a live pig through the streets of a village before a feast. Many similar games can be framed as trapping prey in addition to the mammoth hunting idea.
Other games like baseball can be framed as defending yourself from counter attack the ball (trunk) comes towards you and your job is to bat it away hard enough to get to a safe zone or run around the mammoth for another angle of attack.
Solo and one vs one ball sports can be framed too as man vs animal, pool or snooker might be spearing practice (like fishing), croquet or golf or bowling are variations on sling practice Hitting various small targets (animals) from a distance to knock them out.
And so pretty much all spectator ball sports are the same thing. Get a ball in a hole earn points, claim "we won" and with luck get laid as a result of the excitement of the retelling.
Having a favourite version of the rules of sports ball is just because you think that version is more skilled or harder or something else that makes the telling of the story better, it's not because it actually matters.
But hey! That's just a theory, that's a game theory!
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im shocked i have to make a post like this so early into my account but, if you are an adult looking to sext someone, receive/send nudes, or inappropriately talk to someome, then genuinely get off my blog?? almost 6 different nsfw accounts have followed me, all with likes and posts and reblogs of various nudity. i just got a notification of someone commenting and telling someone else to text them privately, their profile being a near naked woman and their account having only one liked thing and it was nsfw. like actually get off my blog bro. im a fucking minor and i dont want to see or interact with anything of that sort. if you're an adult, then whatever you can follow me, just dont post or say anything inappropriate. be respectful, be kind, and be mindful that im a minor and there are lots of minors who can see what you do. thank you<3
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The pressure to refill my queue when I've been sick is stupid >_<
I've been really sick for 3 weeks now and I try to keep about 4 weeks in my queue so I'm now catching up
I could have died but I'm worrying about my non-existent followers wtf
As a teenager (17.9), is it the autism that allows me to communicate better with adults than others my age?
Hi there!
I’m the same way. I’m honestly not sure why this is. I just find talking to older people and kids easier than those my own age. Kids are fun to hang around with. (Not the weirdo way I promise). And I like to talk to older people because I like to hear their life experiences and all that stuff.
Maybe some people can explain why this is? Maybe it does help in certain situations like these because of our brain is different that NTs.
I’m honestly not sure how to answer this question. I’m sorry if this doesn’t help. May my followers have some insight?
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Adults, on account of daily experience having a vanishing small impact on accumulated experience, do not change personality or attitudes very quickly. They're almost set in stone. Plus learning to deal with one adult is a transferable skill to dealing with another because adults have all learned more or less how to also deal with each other in spite of differences.
Adults can be very forgiving about your mistakes because they know you're learning and you aren't perfect. This gives you confidence to make mistakes and try new things so you can get it right more often.
Meanwhile children, especially teens, are still learning to human, their patterns of behaviour change week to week or month to month. If you treat a teen the same way you did a year before they don't have the social experience to handle that with grace, which makes additional social friction for people who like to find a solution that works for them and not adapt it any more than the bare minimum for extended periods of time.
Teens will take every mistake as an insult or make fun of you for it no matter how small the mistake which can make learning harder and slow your progress to finding good patterns of behaviour that work for the people you're trying to communicate with.
So the skills you developed before you started school to interact with adults and have tweaked slowly for 13-14 years with millions of tiny interactions and experiences are well developed and stable and you know what to expect.
But the skills you developed for dealing with teenagers which have changed dramatically from being a toddler thinking they were essentially adults, to a little kid where they were fun, to a bigger kid and they became scary, to a teen yourself where they're your peers haven't had the time or experience to be as comfortable to you.
You may only have 3 or 4 years of skills development, and most of that has been adapting to your one or two close friends who're willing to forgive more of the mistakes you make than average.
Meanwhile your skills for half your class might fall back on patterns you developed for those individuals at 6-10 before the hormones attacked and messed up everyone's brains, yours included. So off hand you might do things that upset them whether or not they make an issue out of it it colours their relationships with you in their heads.
All of this means you're going to extra struggle with interacting with peers more than adults, and no this doesn't just apply to ND people it applies to everyone, this is the whole process for growing up. However my experience is such that the pain and embarrassment of getting it wrong doesn't weigh as heavily on NT people as ND folks, they can seemingly take the minor rejection in stride and it not have a crippling effect on their thoughts and actions for months afterwards.
I don't know if this is the whole answer it's certainly not peer reviewed but it is what I worked out for myself and it feels logically consistent with my experiences of the world. It might help you too.
(I posted a version of this in the comments since my queue was long)
