CuddlePhantom They/Them

DO CRIME. BE GAY. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💗🖤🤍 This Tumblr is a safe space for everyone. please respect boundaries & don't be a dick. Thanks for checking out the page. 🖤 Fuck: Patriarchy, Capitalism, Sexists, Racists, Bigots, Homophobes, Transphobes, Society, & ANYONE WHO TRIES TO STEAL MY FRIES.

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

Don't let someone else tell you who to die as.

I was looking at a sign Gerard Way was holding durring some 2000s concert that said "NEVER Let Them Take You ALIVE!"

Here:

I think what he means by this is don't let anyone take your life and make it what they want.

Live as you and don't die to anything. Live and die as yourself.

Anyway, I'm inferring into it. I think a lot, you probably do if you're emo, a teen, or on the fucking planet. I was a kid pre 2020s. I get what I can from before essentially pre 2010s off the internet. Sometimes the cultural backwater of what it meant to be emo is all that is available and you bet I absolutely attempt to wade in, if not drown in the tears of teens past. What else am I meant to do?

I feel things fully and I don't want to be ashamed of how I feel or express that emotion.

However you are and however you express that is VALID.

Don't let anyone take your life as there own. Be you! Be original and steal all the inspiration you need to do that! Art and whatever the fuck else. Be completely anything and anyone you feel like as long as it doesn't hurt anyone!! What the fuck is the point in not Loving and living like this is the only life you'll get?? Because, it is. It is your one and only very precious chance to scream your heart out in pain, sorrow, love (lost and found), and anything the fuck else you want it to be and it can be. 🌈💀

Because, in the end most of us are castaways or stray children becoming adults in a world that forgot to tell us or didn't care to show us how. If anything, it made us worse as we lost fellow friends and fighters along the way. 🥀

Live out loud. Die as who you want to be. Scream at the clouds of you need to!! Just Please, to me and to you, refuse to ignore yourself. Let yourself be YOU even against the odds. If it's safe, tell everyone you know that you know something, anything!!! About you or the world. Because that thing you know matters. You are IMPORTANT. Lay out memories for others and listen to music you love. Dress, act, be, and live as you.

You deserve it.

Who the fuck am I to tell you how to live? Imma fellow human.

What do I care? I don't know you! And so what?! Do what you want. As long as you Do something!! Live life, live the day. You're so precious and valuable I thought I'd tell you, fellow human. Thank you and good night. 🖤🖤🖤🌹

[memewhore]

[bananahomo]

I reblogged this last month, tagged it, and said “might as well see if it works.” I used this video as a reference to find all the forms that i needed (which is A LOT, especially if you’re a dependent) and sent them through the mail, not really allowing myself to hope.

dude.

$2,714 of medical debt from my top surgery - gone. im shaking this was such a weight on me for 2 years and it fucking worked. what the fuck.

[minakittengaming]

This is huge. Sharing for my US friendos.

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

HOLY SHIT

[cannibal-rainbow]

“they” (1 word) is shorter than “he or she” (3 words)

“they” is more inclusive than “he/she”

“themself” flows more naturally than “him or herself”

“they” is less clunky than “(s)he”

it’s time to replace the awkward “she or he”

[edgar-allen-potpourri]

“hey can you go ask they what does they want for dinner, and when is they coming over to watch movies with they?”

[edrec]

“Hey, can you go ask them what they want for dinner, and when they’re coming over to watch movies?”

Step one is learning how to talk like a human person.

[anghraine]

Friendly reminder:

“I shouldn’t like to punish anyone, even if they’d done me wrong.” —George Eliot, The Mill on the Floss (1860)

“A person can’t help their birth.” —William Thackeray, Vanity Fair (1848)

“But to expose the former faults of any person, without knowing what their present feelings were, seemed unjustifiable.” —Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice (1813)

“Every Fool can do as they’re bid.” —Jonathan Swift, Polite Conversation (1738)

“So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.” —King James Bible, Matthew 18:35 (transl. 1611)

“God send every one their heart’s desire!” —William Shakespeare, Much Ado About Nothing (~1600)

“Now this king did keepe a great house, that euerie body might come and take their meat freely.” —Sir Philip Sidney, the Arcadia (1580)

“If … a psalme scape any person, or a lesson, or els yt they omyt one verse or twayne…” —William Bonde, The Pylgrimage of Perfection (1526)

“And whoso fyndeth hym out of swich blame, / They wol come up and offre a Goddés name” —Geoffrey Chaucer, The Pardoner’s Tale (~1380)

“þan hastely hiȝed eche wiȝt on hors & on fote, / huntyng wiȝt houndes alle heie wodes, / til þei neyȝþed so neiȝh to nymphe þe soþe [Then hastily hied each person on horse and on foot / hunting with hounds all the high woods / ‘til they came so near, to tell the truth]” —William and the Werwolf (transl. ~1350-1375)

“Bath ware made sun and mon, / Aiþer wit þer ouen light [Both were made sun and moon / Either with their own light]” —Cursor Mundi (~1325)

[advanced-procrastination]

We’ve been using they/them/their pronouns to indicate a person with unspecified gender for a long ass fucking time. The only reason it’s become a big issue lately is because it can be used as a semi-respectful term for trans and non-binary folks and we can’t have that can we

These fucks are literally trying to change our language to hurt trans/nb folks, and claiming that’s just the way its always been

[polyhorde]

Roses are red

Violets are blue

Singular “they” predates

Singular “you”

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

Something a little darker in pallet 🖤🖤🥀

Free to use 🤍 & edit. credit if you want but no worries really

https://instagram.com/cuddlephantomofficial

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

So I have a new hyperfixation. These aesthetic edit things.

CuddlePhantom - Twitch

I have so many more. Ieneodnwidnwk They all look like mood board add ons or wallpapers 🤍💀🥀

[beardedmrbean]

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

Someone sent me this and now I wanna go in a tunnel with train tracks in it

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

I spent 2 hours with a homeless woman yesterday as i was already running late to my friend's 16th birthday party. They even waited to play the main game with me but we couldn't because it got dark. I don't think they're as upset by this as me but I'm not sure.

I ended up 3 hours late to the event. I'm here writing this at 4 am un-able to sleep now.

So, I drove a homeless lady to a wawa. That wouldn't have been a big deal, except she talked to me for hours about how the police had drones fallowing her and how she wasn't crazy. I just.. what? No babe, but you are paranoid schizophrenic. And you need help far beyond what a fucking teenager can offer.

After 2 hours or listening and then driving her somewhere. She has the nerve to ask for money. I had already given her a chocolate bar and was so fucking strapped I didn't get Gass to give her 5 dollars. I can't. But what really threw me off was After spending time **out of my own free will** with her SHE TOLD ME SHE HAD SUMMONED ME...

Okay

Just.

Okay

Like what???

I was not FUCKING SUMMONED.

I get upset when people tell me I'm an answer to prayers because... I'm here being kind because I choose to be. If I didn't, then would your god exist a little less? I wasn't called for you. I spent an actual chunk of life here by choice. Neither I nor anyone else was created for your selfish prayers. Geebus.

Some religious people are so self centered that they believe that a god will change a universe of chaos for them. No. If you pray for god to hold a parking spot for you and you find one, do you live under the assumption that someone else went without one? And that your god made them not have it?? How is that sensible thinking???

I hate people. I try to be kind and ask if the lady is okay or waiting for someone. Offer her to use my phone. Then get wrapped into full on nonsense. I sometimes hate my empathy. And often hate humanity. People don't always need explicit recognition for what they do. But crediting human kindness to someone else is cruel. I'm so emotional rn. I want to cry.

Moral of the story:

Don't be religious. Don't be crazy. Please don't take advantage of people who are kind to you. 🖤🖤🖤

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

Have you ever smashed an ant just because you could? Well, I just did. Mindlessly. And then I couldn't help but think "What if some ethereal being has done the equivalent of that to us?". There is no god. But, it is possible some higher intelligence is at work... What if they made us just cuz they fucking could; because they were bored, or poked at us 'til we split in half. Mindlessly. We are all smaller than ants to the universe, after all.

Some animal just smashed into my fence, ran through the garden, and yeeted outta the other side of the square probably very concussed.

I hope they're okay.

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

Stay in drugs. Don't do school.

🖤💋🕸️⛓️

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

Idk. This is a shit post LMAO.

[unicorn-jpg-archive]

hey nonbinary parents u kno how there’s shortened terms for mother and father but no good shortened terms for parent?? well i have the solution for you!!! instead of “parent” u can call urself “guardian” which can be shortened to “guard” and then when ur kid says things like “sorry i can’t go my guard says no” they sound rich and mysteriously important and u dont get misgendered and everyone wins

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

I hope to remember this if i become a guard XD

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

Heyy babes!! I made it for a background, so maybe you'd like it for your drawings too! Have a simple progression flag

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💗🤍🖤

Happy pride you valid babes 🤍🤍💀🌹

[1dietcokeinacan]

“3 Defining Features of ADHD That Everyone Overlooks”

[opinatus-papaver]

FINALLY, SOME GOOD QUALITY EXPLANATION OF WHY “I DONT LOOK LIKE I HAVE ADHD” BECAUSE ITS NOT REALLY CANT SIT STILL FOCUS NONE DISORDER ITS SOMETHING A WHOLE LOT MORE COMPLEX

[dysfunctionalfocus]

Actually yeah. I just reblogged this silently without any acknowledgement of it, but this is hones to god one of the best explanations I’ve seen.

[sleepchokin]

Added note not everyone agrees rejection sensitivity is an inborn neurological thing. It could be a trauma thing because of all the rejection we’ve faced as adhd people.

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

Reblog if you're:

Gay 🌈

Trans 💙💗🤍💗💙

Questioning ❔

Depressed ⚰️

Dehydrated 🍍

Or on the fucking brink of commiting arson. :) ✨

No one's gonna know which one :)

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

On a scale of extraordinarily to undeniably so, how freaking queer so I look? XD

❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💗🖤🤍

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

I made a new profile picture for my Twitch and Discord eyyoooooo :D do you like it?

Updated hair, flag, necklace, and earring Pog :3

[godisdead-ikilledthem]

ROCK OUT. ⚰️🔗

BE GAY.🏳️‍🌈✨

DO CRIME.🖤💀

And please don't forget how fucking valid and awesome you are 🖤🖤🖤 :)