[lakevida]

guy who doesnt realize hes commanding a small army and thinks a lot of people are just going along with his bit

[veltroxx]

interesting how leadership can sometimes be unintentional yet influential.

[lakevida]

save it for linkedin brother

[stuckinapril]

I think part of getting better is complete ego death. Like you’re not above setting a timer for 5 minutes and focusing on a task. You’re not above doing a very simple 3 minute workout to start. You’re not above reading for 10 minutes a day when you first get out of your reading slump, even if you used to read for hours. You’re not above starting slow and then building up to where you want to be/where you once were. What you are above is total inertia. Doing something really is better than doing nothing. Radically accept where you are, radically accept your limits, and go from there. Don’t let your ego get in the way.

[maarblee]

[seefasters]

colonel potter puts up with so much. imagine you’re a 60 something year old C.O. of a medical unit and you just had a talk with your head nurse about how she shouldn’t get drunk and beat up people. to which she replied “no thank you” and left

and youre just trying to eat your powdered eggs in peace then but the second she leaves your head surgeon sits right next to you (not even leaving breathing room between you two) and starts saying this

[stuckinapril]

I promise you things will get so much better when you start processing people’s behavior as information rather than a verdict on your self-worth. If someone doesn’t text back, suddenly pulls away, whatever it may be, the solution isn’t to put on a tap dance for them and try to regain their approval. It’s not to crash out on them and try to force them to react a certain way. It’s just to take a step back, take a deep breath, and assess what this tells you. What’s this saying about them? What’s this saying about you??

[cazort]

Next level to this is moving away from analyses like "they don't value me as a friend" and considering interpretations like "they may have difficult and/or important things going on in their life that I don't know about" and in most cases settling on "i don't know them well enough to really know what's going on with them" and then to accept that that's okay.

Life works so much better when you only engage with others based on their words or actions and refrain from any additional analysis.

Someone didn't text back? Okay so you're not making plans with them. Someone consistently ignores your attempts to contact them? Okay, so you're not gonna be interacting with them now. You can move on with no additional drama. It doesn't need to be a big judgment on them or a big judgment on yourself.

Focus on the relationships where people are engaging with you and live your life.

[testosterone-junky]

Made a thing. Is this anything.

[molabuddy]

3 hours of sleep = i hate people who laugh

0 ours of sleep = waouw 🌼🌼🌼🌼🐎

[graff-aganda]

MASH keychains (and stickers) are finally up on my store!! Everyone has a different expression for their flipside, and they're all printed on plain old clear acrylic. 🙂💚

[rotvn]

no one appreciates that i could be a million times worse

[bobbole]

Noah Dao

[maniatown]

Girl whose most frequent mistake is inaction voice: wow I keep making mistakes I better not do anything

[beardedmrbean]

[claypigeonpottery]

I truly sacrificed to create this ridiculous mug. biting clay is a bad sensory experience 😔 who would have guessed

I’m tempted not to glaze the bite marks so it looks like it was bitten through the glaze lmao

[raychleadele]

I showed this to my husband and he said he wants four mugs like this in various states of eaten, so he can swap when no one’s looking and make it look like he’s actually eating it.

[cheaphalloweencostume]

i literally thought me & this guy were on the same side until the last sentences i was nodding along fondly 😭

[cheaphalloweencostume]

[notahorseindisguise]

[blessyouhawkeye]

[senatortedcruz]

My lurking game is crazy I’m laid up in bed reading your grandpa’s obituary