I did it, I found The Strawman, The Person with a complete and total inability to conceptualize an experience outside of their own:
This person has never once in their entire lives even ENTERED:
-the industrial zone of large city
-a small town food desert
-an even smaller town with only a post office and the nearest actual store 20+ miles away
-new suburbs far away from any actual store or transportation
-the parts of any sprawling large city that can only be navigated via 3+ lane highways with no sidewalk, or the interstate
-anywhere with extreme heat
-anywhere with extreme cold
-anywhere with extreme weather
Nevermind being disabled and needing an actual sidewalk or benches to rest on. Nevermind needing a safe place to take a piss without being arrested for public indecency or Being Trans. Nevermind needing some sort of path to pull a cart with your purchased items BACK through if you aren't strong enough to carry them the apparent 10+ miles you're able and willing to walk. Nevermind curfews and ICE patrols and any other reason it might not be safe "pretty much any time"
We are fighting tooth and nail for REAL reliable transportation, for cities that aren't heat traps and endless mazes of sun-scorched pavement, for WALKABLE CITIES and what that means to people who are NOT an able-bodied 16 year old with everything they need within 5 miles FOR A REASON!!! Because it is life or death for people! Because we DON'T have it yet, in the VAST majority of places! Because it is a human right we are being DENIED!!! Not because we're all a lil bored and don't want to take a stroll today!!
You can't articulate and fight for a future if you foolishly assume it has already happened for EVERYONE, because it's here and present FOR YOU!! You can't name the problems and solutions if you think there IS no problem, because YOU don't have one. This was literally offered as a "solution" to a question about how to find thrifted/reused clothing when there are no thrift stores within driving distance - all it is is an inability to listen to the question in the first place
The future we want and need only happens if we can listen to those vast majority who aren't already living it and come up with real, achievable solutions and answers. Not by throwing more "well just pick yourself up by the bootstraps and Do It" at them.
Part of solarpunk and the future we want means learning to LISTEN and see outside of your own experience, and knowing when it's neither relevant or helpful