Headmate Economy Resources

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Welcome to the headmate economy resources tumblr account. Here you can find information, answered questions, offers, guides, and more! We try to tag triggers properly but sometimes mess up. Check out the google site for beginners and feel free to use our inbox or messages for anything you may need. All fronters will use a different emoji so you will know who is posting what. We want to converse our anonymity due to harassment.

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were taking a break. -🏹

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Do your alters mean nothing to you? Do you really just see them as 'things' you can dispose of whenever you please? It doesn't fucking work like that. No matter how much you hate your alters, you can't get rid of them. And you don't have 'ownership' over them either. They are individuals, who deserve to be treated with respect. This isn't just your life and your body, it's theirs too. They did not survive through that trauma just to be discarded like they mean nothing to you. Your whole concept of selling alters makes me really upset and I feel you're making a mockery of my disorder. I hope you're alone and miserable and have no-one who cares about you.

Thank you random anon off of tumblr. I am alone and miserable with absolutely have no one who cares about me except my own headmates. We have no friends in real life and I've pushed away my only online friend because of the shame you anons have made me feel. All of you at this point have made me want to quit being a system. Just get rid of all my headmates and then I can be a singlet and not have to be forced into syscourse. Then I can finally ignore all of the sysmeds who attack me on a daily basis. I would no longer have the burden of being plural. Or I can always catch the bus. I dont have any reason to live and I thought headmate economy would give me a reason to but I guess not. Everything is truly horrible and since no one would care if I did it then that means I have no reason not to.

Also this is what my inbox is. And guess whats inside of it? Its all mostly hateful things and rudeness. So good job on being apart of the problem. Thanks a lot buddy. -🎰

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raymond in boxes looking for offers of 200nmt or equivalent in items

h-huh? ●︿● -🏹

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Look I’m sorry but to me the idea of buying and selling headmates is repulsive and comparative to human trafficking. Headmates are people too and you can’t just… sell them??? You also can’t create headmates for other people, that’s also not a thing. This is coming from someone who is part of a legitimate system who was formed due to genuine trauma from a heavily abusive situation.

I am genuinely concerned for you well-being and I hope you are ok. This seems like something a persecutor/prosecutor would do.

Selling headmates can not be compared to human trafficking because they are different. Headmates can consent to be sold. Making headmates to be sent to someone else has been proven and happening for a long time. Were not sure what you mean by a "legitimate system" but were sorry you went through that trauma. Though i may not be okay, it has nothing to do with headmate economy. Thank you (?) for your worry but im very confused on how me being involved with this means I have something wrong with me. I nor anyone else in our system is a persecutor and I do not see what that has to do with anything. Also i dont know what a prosecutor is. Can someone help out because this is just very confusing in general. -🎰

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just when i think im in fucking remission for hating ur ass. this is so fucking weird and ur terms for 'consent' are inconsistent and inhumane and don't have the kinds of safeguards needed 4 anything even REMOTELY this serious and u need to close this blog down and seek help. and thats even presuming its feasible to do smth like this which is fucking hostile to ppl with derealizing disorders aka me aka die ok? <3 this is fucked up and im ME. burn ~junko

hello junko enoshima from the hit japanese video game franchise made in 2010 called danganronpa, please calm down. (also hi sourcemate) im not planning on dying nor burning anytime soon so dont worry. but have a good day. excuse the fact that you will not be getting a proper response to your ask solely just because the way it is worded has gotten on my nerves. have a good day. -⛵️

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spending hours responding to asks probably isnt good for us... lmao

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To people saying: "headmate selling is bad even if consensual"

Do they know what risk aware consensual kink is? It's a kink thing, but it proposes that nothing is 100% safe. It says that extreme kink (e.g strangulation, wax play) is ok if all parties consent. That's what's basically happening here.

honestly we agree so much, thanks for putting it into works kind anon -🏹

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i just noticed you followed our splatoon rottmnt au blog which we’re openly a system on and. jesus fucking christ. this is disgusting. borderline slavery type shit. stay the hell away from our content. -a rise leo fictive

this is not slavery. this is not disgusting. -🌼

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Hey, uh… please reconsider this. I respect your beliefs and stuff about alters being able to be transferred and stuff, but this doesn’t seem… I dunno, moral? You stated you guys were minors, so I’m willing to be gentle here, but this doesn’t feel right. I’m not trying to harass anyone or make people upset, I’m just concerned about the ethics.

to us be believe it to be ethical and moral of what we are doing when used for good. -☄️

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I have questions:

- How does someone verify if they have actually received a headmate or not?

- What measures do you propose having in place so that sellers can’t fake consent from the headmate(s) they want to sell?

- What need is a market for plural skills fulfilling when lots of free resources already exist on this topic?

Communication is key! Like making sure to message when someone has been sent. Once they are sent the buyer should be on the looking for the headmate to show up in their headspace soon. Once the headmate has arrived and everything is alright, the seller should be informed.

Honestly we hadn't thought of this yet so help on ideas is appreciated. Some ideas of mine is to have the headmate speak one-on-one with the buyer about consenting or to have the headmate have some type of authorization that their consent is of their own and not forced.

I believe personally their will always be a need/want for paid learning materials. Those who do research and put time into writing resources who want to be paid for their work should be allowed to make that choice. Those searching for learning aid may turn to paying for reliable materials instead of using time searching for free ones, which can be very hard depending on what it is.

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how would one set up a headmate economy? cause one of us does most of the cleaning and cooking and is like the big sister tbh

i think what you mean is how to set up roles/tasks for everyone in the system. one way you can try is to talk with everyone and see what they would be willing to do. youll be surprised what some headmates are able to do that barely anyone knew! after everyone agrees on things they can do, write it down on the notes app or in a notebook.

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why “must” you do if even if you aren’t sure? maybe you should take some time to think about it before encouraging others /gentle

That question im not even sure how to answer. I have been planning on taking a break soon to de-stress and figure out my thoughts, but for now im going to be here to help anyone who asks for it -🎰

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umm i think i may be plural, any advice on how to tell if i really am, and what to do?

(sorry if you arent the right person to ask but i assumed you would be =) )

hi im not too sure how to answer this well because explaining our plurality is hard for me, my advise is to check out this and this link. if you relate to what they say then you might be plural! also something that helped me was checking out hashtags for the plural community. once you figure out if you are or not, try finding out what headmates live in your system! -🌼

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Imagine being such a capitalist you bend over backwards to try to make headmate trafficking a thing

Like jesus fuck, you're making the framework for headmate trafficking to take place. Not all "adoptions" (selling of sentient beings, not even adoption) are going to be consensual. The framework you are making is unethical and can lead to people doing shit like selling headmates that are created for NSFW purposes that are syslittles

Delete everything

We are not capitalists. Also we are not making headmate trafficking. I disdain anyone who uses headmate markets for trafficking or any other type of harm. I do not view headmate markets when used properly to be unethical. No one should be using any type of system travel for abusing headmates, especially not system littles. Which I personally have seen happen. It is disgusting. Sorry but we will not be deleting everything. Our goal is to help people use the headmate market in a safe and productive way.

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this shit is insane, I cannot imagine buying people or selling them, even if they don't have a physical body. as a sys this sickens me. not only is it a huge scam. even if it wasn't it would still be absolutely horrible.. I won't tell u to kys or whatever but seriously, don't promote this ):

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this isnt sick and this isnt a scam. im not sure if you have an understanding of how this works, but everyone consents so it is alright. -🏹

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to those who send asks, thank you! please be patient as we take our time to respond to them -☄️