some days i feel like a glimmer of light

gay 1994

[pymq]

today’s sunset

[persianmom-deactivated20260602]

carl jung girl you were so right about avoidance

[persianmom-deactivated20260602]

“if we don't accept our own destiny, a different kind of suffering takes its place: a neurosis develops, and I believe that that life which we have to live is not as bad as a neurosis. if I have to suffer, then let it be from my reality. a neurosis is a much greater curse! in general, a neurosis is a replacement for an evasion, an unconscious desire to cheat life, to avoid something. one cannot do more than live what one really is. and we are all made up of opposites and conflicting tendencies. after much reflection, I have come to the conclusion that it is better to live what one really is and accept the difficulties that arise as a result-because avoidance is much worse.”

[heartforest]

my dreams are coming true!

[oldfilmsflicker]

The Times of Harvey Milk, 1984 (dir. Rob Epstein)

[werenotreallystrangers]

a lot of your suffering comes from treating your nature like a problem to manage instead of a design to understand

[mistypostcards]

ig: mistypostcards

[heartforest]

btfl saturday morning run!!

[soundcarvings]

I was wondering what is the difference between self forgiveness and self indulgence/excuses? I can never seem to forgive myself without making excuses and narcissistic self pity which makes it harder to do.

Integrity. knowing that without self forgiveness you can’t move past the self pity that gets us all every once in awhile. Self pity is what happens when you haven’t truly forgiven yourself. And in fact in order to avoid forgiving yourself you make it everyone else’s problem. There is a difference between partaking in the comfort of community versus becoming resentful at those around you while simultaneously desiring that they be solution. Self pity leads to resent. Self forgiveness leads to universal love for all.

[heartforest]

summer :)

[creekfiend]

good evening. are u avoiding pain or seeking joy

[tordenvejr]

if you're waiting until you view yourself as lovable to give yourself love, you will starve forever. you choose to love and then the beauty reveals itself

[heartforest]

[bobbo24]

[wovi]

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joy sullivan

[heartforest]

i'm home!!!

[violetclowns]

Rainbow flag colorpicked from the original 1978 flag <3

[gobloggirl]