i try way too hard

i'm a gen z'er who also happens to be bi

[cann1balcr1mez]

🔮i am amazing at sh0pl1fting🔮 sigil

feel free to use :)

like ~ charge 💕

reblog ~ cast ✨

[helpimsuffocating]

@mikejames001 @yoga3g-blog @weirdshadesofunicorns @rainytriumphyouth @lanestodo @freshprogressgeek @microscopes-and-caffeine @cheezbot 

Ray-Ban Sunglasses

[clinically-chronically]

Me: Hmm.. My joints hurt more today and in general I'm not feeling too great.

Weather: *Starts storming and raining*

Me: Oh.

[helpimsuffocating]

Drug addicts aren’t...

Inherently terrible

BAD people

Incapable of love

Defined by their addiction

Undeserving of kindness and compassion

Deserving of judgement

Drug addicts ARE...

People

[stupidnoobofficial]

PSA

theres a new product by verzion called “hum” that allows your parents to track your car and places you go, if your parents are controlling like mine please check under your steering wheel to make sure that they havent installed this

[selfcarereminders]

here is what it looks like installed:

you can read more about it here, and here- this excerpt sums up what information Hum will send: 

“a car’s owner will be able to get notified on their phone when the vehicle leaves a pre-determined area or drives faster than a set speed… [Hum] will enable location tracking and a driving log, which measures travel times, engine idle times, and average speeds.” 

[misangremellama]

People in abusive relationships, please check your cars.

[misangremellama]

DO NOT TRY TO UNPLUG IT BY YOURSELF!

[tassiekitty]

To add to this nightmare, I’ve just heard of a thing called ForceField where people get to monitor and block internet sites that you’re going on if they don’t approve.

It tells the user what sites/apps you’re going on, for how long you’re on them, and WHERE YOU ARE ON AN UPDATING MAP.

So you know if you’re in an abusive household and use sites like tumblr to escape and talk to friends, you could be cut off from that.

They say “it’s not spyware” but it sure sounds controlling and creepy to me.

[lazygeckoknightintraining]

signalboost

[harpuiaa]

God. Fuck. That’s scary.

[everywitchway-deactivated201905]

Life 360 is another tracker. My parents have used it on me, not allowing me to delete it from my phone, and sometimes even demanding selfies to prove I was where the map said. (As if I’d go anywhere without my phone)

[beerune]

SpectorPro is another one. Afaik it can’t track location, but it takes screenshots roughly every 20sec to allow the installer to watch a video of your computer activity. It also tracks all keystrokes, so passwords aren’t safe, and records any website you visit + the duration. It’s incredibly creepy and a huge violation of privacy, and was one of the cornerstones of my abuse as a kid.

[sugarseros-deactivated20221026]

even if you’re not in an abusive relationship/family, please spread this because you might have just saved someone’s life

[robmanion]

i’m spreading this because if my parents find out about any of these you bet their ass they’re going to use them, and i don’t want anyone to go through that 

[k4rkl3s-blog]

blaze it, i whisper as i light my homework on fire

[thinking-clairely]

I’VE WAITED 2 FUCKING YEARS TO POST THIS BECAUSE I MISSED 420 2 FUCKING YEARS IN A ROW

[shelfmaster-official]

All my homework is digital

[fishiest-fish]

Blaze it, I whisper while setting my laptop on fire

[shelfmaster-official]

Good addition

[justnerdgirlproblems]

suggested by anonymous

[helpimsuffocating]

a reminder

Hey people of tumblr. A girl I knew just committed suicide yesterday. And I’m mourning her. I haven’t seen her in two years. Haven’t thought of her in a long time. She doesn’t go to the same school as me anymore. But I still remember sitting next to her on the bus to math meets. Seeing her in the halls and saying hi. All of our weird inside jokes.

And everyone else seems to too.

We followed her on Instagram and we’re all friends on Snapchat. We may not talk all the time, but we miss her. We are crying.

I am in math and watching a video in my Snapchat memories of her and crying. I’m texting my mom.

Suicide affects everyone. So don’t give up. Please. I love you even if I don’t know you. And to Theresa- I love you and miss you. Rest in piece.

[moonkitty]

WHY IS DRAWING HANDS SO FUCKING HARD

[moonkitty]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

[rubykgrant]

you just gotta figure out how to do the mitten thing! (everybody does it differently, so whatever works for you)

make a little mitten shape, a bump for the big thumb muscle, a line for where you want to knuckles to be (and where the fingers end), and you can work out how the hand does hand things~

you can make them more simple or more real, however you want! hands are weird, so don’t worry if they keep looking wrong for a while, once you figure out what works for you, it’ll click. If you practice like 10 or-so basic hand shapes, you can make slight variations on all those, and 10 turns into 20 different hand poses~

Good luck, you can do it, practice until you find your groove, hands are stupid, don’t worry if they don’t look right!

[moonkitty]

you are a fucking saint x2

[aroace-lokean]

Please support “Every Day”! This movie is so important for all of us 😍

[astraeuzz]

[ studygram ]

[ava-a-eq]

Bisexual culture is

-an obsession with space

-galaxy aesthetic

-usually a little emo

-or very very emo

-likes cats and dogs

-never sits normally

-questions their sexuality all the time

-laughs at puns

-but only if they’re good puns

-cries easily

-P!ATD

-secretly wants a goth gf

-likes all girls, but is picky about guys

-high waisted pants

-bad at math

-finger guns and/or peace signs

-anxiety!!

-dyed hair

-literally so awkward

-had a crush on the same sex as a child and never knew it

[eternal-fractal]

Stop being accurate about me it makes me uncomfortable

[ajiezena-deactivated20190730]

this man is unreal

bonus:

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

What to do when you just feel blah

1. Accept it; don’t fight it. Trying to understand and fight those heavy painful feelings, will usually weigh you down and drain away your energy.

2. Be nice to yourself. Don’t make things worse by beating yourself

3. Do that one thing that’s nagging on your mind the most. It will help to boost your feelings and release some energy.

4. Think about the little things that help to bring you pleasure – like walking in the sunshine or smelling fresh spring flowers.

5. Remind yourself that this will pass, and something will get better. You just need to hang in there, and wait it out for now.

[helpimsuffocating]

i had a shit day

Tried to talk to my mom today and she brushed off my anxiety and depression as hormones... and then says “why don’t you talk to me anymore? Please talk to me” and I say “I feel like you brush off my issues” and then she talks about how “she understands and cares” about me and isn’t brushing off my feelings, but just reminding me that they are normal. I have such a hard time and nobody really knows because I’m scared of vulnerability, cause I have no control over the situation. I try to talk to her and she just brushes it off.

[iv-fischer]

pls donate to my gofundme so I can kick dysphoria’s ass and be happy like this all the time:

https://www.gofundme.com/iv-fischer-facial-feminization-surgery&rcid=r01-15464805801-ef03dc45ac394761&pc=ot_co_campmgmt_m

Click here to support Iv Fischer Facial Feminization Surgery organized by Ivana Fischer

As some of you may know, I have been medically transitioning since 2016. The past 2 years have been filled with a great deal of personal gro

[iv-fischer]

*UPDATE* I just had a pre-surgical consultation with my FFS surgeon, Dr. Spiegel, today. We talked about the procedures I want and the prices of everything including lodging and things of that nature. Everything came out to be roughly $28,000…which is a lot of fucking money. Honestly I’m a bit downtrodden because I feel like there’s no way I could ever reach that goal even with the jobs I work and stuff. Idk. but PLEASE consider donating!! If you’re not in a position to do so, at least reblog this post 🙏🏾✨ I would really appreciate any and all love, support, well wishes, anything like that. Because I’m not sure this will happen for me but I’m not going to give up. Thank you 💋

[helpimsuffocating]

Can’t help, but please do if you can!

[beardednegro]

Previously, I’d only seen the first two panels and assumed it was the complete comic.

This version is much better.

[chokkilissa-nahollos]

omg it’s so much better with the conclusion

[wilwheaton]

“The systemic barrier has been removed.”

[just-high-school-things]

*cough* public school *cough cough*

[helpimsuffocating]

I personally thrive in the public school system, but we need heavy reform to create a better society. The genius of kids is wasted on things that don’t interest them. It’s important that kids learn to read and write, but if kids want to go into mathmematics should they have to read Macbeth? Or extensively study the history of France? Or play a sport they are terrible at, and hate? No,no, and no. Specialization is key